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Hey! My name is Ashlea. I've been a member on here for a few years. I'm 24 years old and have a little baby boy. I'm pretty outgoing and I love to joke around. I have a very strong sense of humor and I love making people laugh. I don't care too much about what other people think about me because in the end, you're all you got. Nothing else matters but your true opinion of yourself. I think everyone is beautiful in their own ways. I never look down on anyone nor do I judge people for their decisions or lifestyles. I love to listen to music. That's probably the only reason I like driving, otherwise, It'd be boring as hell. I love spending time with my son. He is by far the best thing that's ever happened to me. He is my best friend and when I'm with him, nothing else matters. The whole world could pass me by, and as long as I have him, it doesn't matter one bit. He's the only one who can truly make me smile. I am truly happy because of him. I love spending money when I have it, and sometimes, that can be a bad habit. I love to write poems, and am told I am very good at it, but only when I'm upset or bothered by something. Lately, though, I have not written any. I also enjoy writing. I seem to have a way with words and I love how a paper sounds after I write it. It makes me sound more intelligent.(lol) I also like to watch movies, mostly comedy and drama...I hate action movies and boy-ish movies. Horror movies give me nightmares(yes, even at this age.) ...I like to go on the computer alot and I love meeting new people, so feel free to get in touch with me!
I hate people who think they are better than you, and people who are snobby or stuck-up. Having that attitude will never get you anywhere in life, and I look at it as a sign of immaturity. I like to be around people that within the first 5 minutes of talking to them you know that you will already feel comfortable with them because they are that down to earth. I can't stand people who criticize other people and their lives. Understand that you, as well, have things about your life that you do not like...so you wouldn't like it very much if people talked about you in a bad way, would you? We're all human, we all make mistakes and run into bad situations. Things happen that we can't control. These are all parts of life though and can be handled with the help of others, which is why negative criticism is not needed.
I believe that what you can't control, you have to let go. Too often we hang onto things when we have no control or power over its outcome, so in the end, life will take its course and we have to just go with it.
I guess some people would say I can be selfish at times, although I choose not to believe that(lol), and if things don't go my way, i WILL be upset. But, I also learn to get over it and move on. I love giving advice. Everyone I know say that's the one thing they love about me the most...I never judge anyone on any of their problems and I truly do enjoy helping people with their problems in any way I can. I will go to any extent I have to in order to help someone else. I have a habit of putting other people's needs ahead of my own. I have been giving people advice and helping people so much with their problems that I don't even get that GREAT feeling anymore from helping people. It's just in my nature and I am happy to just be able to be of some sort of help to anyone: stanger or friend.
I am not here for the ratings or comments. I am only here to help you, and I hope to recieve help in return when I am in need as well. I understand how sometimes you just need somebody to talk to...someone that understands. So don't be afraid to ask me any questions about anything...i'll help you with anything I can. If there is anything I can help you with that you would like to discuss privately, you can note me in my inbox or email me as well as instant message me on AIM. I would be glad to help you. hope to hear from you soon!!
♥ .even the people that never frown...eventually b r e a k . d o w n. ♥
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A teacher this year, that taught me in a subject that wasn't my strongest, so I'd always coming for extra help after school, and naturally we got to know each other, but as the year came to an end, I started to realize that he was treating me different, I started to realize that sometimes he would flirt with me, but he really never did anything that made me feel weird or uncomfortable but after awhile, he started doing things, like making fun of little things I would do in class, or he would say, 'I love you, I just want you to know that.', or you will always have a special place in my heart. and when he saw me before graduation, he told me I looked beautiful, and said that this year has been a year he won't forget, because he feels that he has become a better person, teacher, everything because I opened his eyes to giving people an opportunity to succeed.The year was full of moments like that.
Now, I am starting to question how I feel about him, It's like he slowly seduced me all year? I just don't know if these 'feelings' between us are real? I graduated so I am no longer a student at school and I just don't know why all of a sudden, I find myself feeling this way. Its like as long as I was a student at the same school that he was my teacher I would never have even looked at him like that, but now, Its like things have changed, and I don't know what to think about the situation. He never bluntly asked me out or anything, but he did say at the end of the year that he did like me, and he hoped that any guy who dates me realizes how lucky they are.
I will be 19 next February, and he will be 25 this August. I know all of this must sound pretty stupid, but I just wanted to see what others thought, because sometimes people get caught up and don't see things clearly, and I am starting to wonder if this is just my mind playing tricks on me, or if maybe something is there. I do know that teacher/Student relationships are usually frowned upon, so thats why I felt so unclear as to what I should do next. Do I test the waters with him, or just forget him all together? Does any of this, even sound like he really has feelings for me?? Its sort of like, my heart tells me one thing, but the reality of the way people think makes me feel like I have to think otherwise.
What do you guys think about all of this?!?
First off, it was respectful and professional of him not to try anything with you while you were his teacher...he probably just couldn't help but say the little comments he did say.
The age difference is not bad at all. Don't even let that be an issue in your mind.
In my opinion, I would say go for it. He is not your teacher anymore, and I honestly don't see how anyone could frown upon it since you are not his student anymore. You are both adults and there is nothing wrong with your intentions.
If there is any way you could get in contact with him, by all means, go for it. Email may be best the first time you are contacting him because it wouldn't be awkward and you can just make it short and sweet such as "hey, this is (your name). Just wanted to say hey and thanks for being such a great teacher this year. Hope to hear from you soon." This may get things started and in case it doesn't, at least you won't feel silly for contacting him since it would be short and innocent. But, it gives him the chance to contact you back if he is interested.
Good luck and I really hope it works out! Sounds like a great guy. Take care.
f/18
My best guy friend isn't much of a reader but I'm the biggest bookworm alive. He use to tease me about reading all the time but one day at Borders, he turned to me and said, "You know what? I'm gonna start reading a lot like you do. I need to get educated with literature. Since you're good with books, pick out a book for me to read and we can read it together." Well, the big secret is I've had a very big crush on him for 4 years now and I think there's something there that he feels, too. I wanted to take this opportunity to write the story how we met and end it to admit my feelings for him and then I'm going to print this story and give it to him as the first book I chose for him to read as a surprise. I've been trying so hard for weeks now but I can't think of an interesting or cute opener. I can finish off the ending easily but the beginning I have come up with is as primitive as "There was this girl who met this boy when she was 14 and then she liked him." That doesn't sound interesting at all.
Any ideas to make it sound better?
Love. One word that could change everything. There are no boundaries. No limits. No holding back. And that is exactly what one girl in particular decided to face. She would bare all, without fear, and put her heart on the line.
Hope this helped! If you could, send me your story afterwards! I would love to read it. This, by the way, is a PERFECT idea and that's awesome how you have it planned out. good luck, i'm sure he'll LOVE it !!!!
I am 15 years old and I am a perfectly healthy girl, I have gone through puberty and I have goten everything it comes with except my period, I am 15 years and 7 months old, I dont thnk thats a normal thing, Im not freaking out yet but my friends keep telling me to go to the doctors and stuff so im getting kinda worried. What should I do?
Every girl is different and every body is different. I believe if you don't get your period by the time you're 16, you should see a doctor, so for right now, you're perfectly fine. I got mine for the first time when I was 14, and trust me, you're not missing anything! However, if you don't get it within 5 months, make an appointment just to make sure things are okay. Doesn't hurt to double check on things. Better to be safe than sorry. Take care.
I need help figuring out wut i want for a screen name on AIM
my name is liz im 15 and i want something rebillous fun cute and sexxy....i was thinking of toxickiss or baby girl so i would just like some more ideas...
i love singing and music im in a beauty pageant um...i dont really play sports anymore however i use to figure skate i love reading
please help
ps
something hot fun and sexxy but also rebelious
Beauti x Btch 15
xX Misz Liz Xx
dangerous x mama
tOxicXXated 15
let me know if you use any !!
So this upcoming fall I will be starting my senior year. In the yearbooks, every senior is allowed to put three quotes. Whatever they want. I was thinking I'd have one quote about life/life lesson/etc and then two funny quotes. Does anyone have any quotes, please don't give me sites because I can just google and I have, but can't find any good ones :/. Even if their not about life or funny quotes, can you think of any good ones?
Thanks
Spread your wings and soar high, and don't be afraid to fall..for falling is the new beginning.
The roughest road is often the one that leads to the top.
To succeed is to pass your own expectations.
The one who removes a mountain begins by carrying away small stones.
i think these are great life quotes for your yearbook. they're ones that not a lot of ppl know already so it's nice instead of ones that people hear all the time...let me know if you decide to use any! good luck and congrats!
14/f
ive cut for like a year and for the 3rd time im trying to quit i just need someone to talk to about it and i dont mean a shrienk or anyone like that.im not trying to seek attention from this just help. i know how much my life can change if i keep cutting and how important it is to stop but i dont want to hear that.
if your a VERY trustworthy person that i could keep talking to and wouldnt annoy you then HELP ME PLEEZ!
My email is babyash1669@yahoo.com
I am a 21 year old female and would love to help. Talking goes a long way.
this little girl i was babysitting fell and she hit her head and there was no sign that she was hurt. and I dont know if i should tell her parents about it or not should i? i need advice!!!
Being a mother of a 6 month old baby, I would highly recommend you tell her parents! Even though the child isn't hurt, it is still respectful to tell her parents. That is their child, and as I said, being a mother myself, I would expect a babysitter to be trustworthy enough to tell me anything that happens with my child when not in my care. Her parents will most likely respect your honesty and trust you even more. Also, depending on the age of the child, she may even tell her mother if you don't, leaving you in a whole mess of hot water. Good luck and relax, everything will be fine! You're doing the right thing!
If some girl was forced to give a guy a blowjob from her school, and she has a boyfriend, she obviously thinks he will break up with her but she was forced, does that considered as cheating?
If by force, you mean against her will, then she should go to the police or someone that can help. This is a bigger issue than cheating. However, if she "gave in" after this guy bothered her and kept asking, then that is not against her will and was her personal choice and yes, it is cheating.
okay so me and my best friend have been best friends for like a year now. we used to be so tight, we never fought or anything. then for spring break she invited me to go to the beach with her, and at that time she didnt no that i had depression and bi-polar problems, and she didnt no that i cut myself. so during it i was having alot of problems and i couldnt control any of my feelings and it was really bad, so the whole time she was always mad at me because i was in a bad mood, but i couldnt tell her anything. so finally we came back from that, and that night i told her of my problems. she took it really hard, but eventually our relationship went back to normal, or so i thought. from then on it seemed like everything was okay, but once in a while we would get into the occasional fight. so in the past couple months, it has gotten so bad like every other day we will get into huge fights. all of our friends are so sick of it and so are we. everyone knows that she is the one that ALWAYS starts ALL of our fights. she gets mad at the smallest things then she blows them outta proportion. about a week ago i was at her house and we got in the biggest fight she yelled at me to get off her property and that she wanted me to die and that i was a slutty whore and she hated me and all this stuff. then like an hour later she called me and apoligized over and over. i told her that i didnt no if i could ever accept her apoligy. so from then on like every day she will start another fight and tonight i was at her house and she was being so rude so i left and she got really mad at me and so now she is telling me how she doesnt want to be my friend and stuff, and now i dont no if its just going to be like last time where she apoligizes and stuff, because she texted me and she's like being really mean and saying how she wants her stuff back and to not talk to her. i dont know what to do i serously am thinking about killing myself and i dont know what to do anymore. i dont know how to handle her because i never say anything rude to her and even when were in fights im nice to her and i never yell or get mad and she always just blows everything out of proportion. i dont know where to turn or what to do just please give me any type of guidance. anything will help please. thanks in advance.
i have no idea whats going on with your friend but you two cannot fight like this. i know you love her and friendship is important in life, however, this is not healthy to argue constantly. a friend is not in our lives to argue and make things difficult. they are there for the exact opposite, so maybe it is time to reevaluate your friendship with this person. sometimes friends just drift apart. maybe she is feeling upset or angry or even jealous for some reason towards you. the two of you should sit down and seriously talk. try and figure out what is bothering each of you and how you can fix it. sometimes, things in life just cannot be fixed, and if that is the case, then you are both better off without eachother. instead of going back and forth and putting blame on eachother, recognize what friendship is all about. i have been friends with my best friend for about 7 or 8 years, and very rarely do we fight. friends will argue sometimes and not agree on everything, but to fight almost everyday is not good.
on another note, you mentioned wanting to kill yourself over this. im not sure how things are going right now for you with your depression, but have you ever gotten help for this issue? feeling this way is not fun, and i know there is so much help out there for you if you are willing to accept it. its okay to have problems and feel overwhelmed, but there comes a time when outside help is needed. life is too precious and even though you may not feel that way now, its true in every way.
if you ever want to talk, email me anytime. good luck, TAKE CARE, and i hope everything works out for you and trust me when i say things will get better and there is always tomorrow.
ok so im inlove with this guy and trust me i know its love...im a poet and this is like poetry love for me!long story short.."er" is that i met this guy in my music class"outside of school"at first i liked his bro.and i also had a b.f at the time but then he started telling my peeps and bro's that he was into me.at first i thought they were jut kidding until i overheard him."shhh.."oh well so i started to like him now i mean he was just perfect for me.he was always flirting with me and always bud ito my buisiness.he wasn't like that with anyone else.so i guess he might have liked me.but when my friend asked him if he liked me he said"maybe"she even told him about how i dumped my b.f for him.then she asked if he would ever go out with me and he said once she go's to my school which was a year from then.any who months went by we started flirting more nd more,he even asked my friend for my number but he never called."SHY IM GUESSING"then just when things got really hott he quit my music clss.teacher told me it was cuz of money problems and how they couldn't afford it.but i.d.k!!now its been two months since i last saw or spoke to him,i will soon see him at school in about five months and im thinking if he was serious about liking me then he would have waited as i did for him.wat do you think?is he over me,will the spark relite once i see him again,is there any hope,or is my wish a failure?please respond..i mean i know this was really long but im so depressed cuz of this,im only 15 and i need to be happy at such a young age,but unless i know the truth i will not be.your my only hope.please answere my question.thank you!!
hey ..im sorry this is so late getting back to you. i dont know if you ran into him again since your post, but if not..this is my opinion on it..i honestly dont know what is going on inside his head and only time will tell if the spark will relite itself once meeting eachother again. it is odd he never called you, even after he quit his music class. if someone likes someone, shy or not, they will call. but, as i said, only time will tell. see what happens when you see him again and how he acts. see if he makes a move or even how you feel. just go with the flow, and if this guy doesnt work out, trust me when i say there are plently more. write back and let me know how things are with this!! again, im so sorry it took so long to respond! take care and good luck !!!
The chair I use at my computer is actually a large recliner. It sits pretty low compared to where my monitor is. After long bouts of using the computer (and since I play WoW, that happens a lot), my neck tends to hurt. I know this is due to my chair. Do I need a harder, taller chair that forces me to sit up? I've moved this chair and sat in it every which way, but to no avail. Any recommendations for a good, not-make-my-neck-hurt chair?
yes, your neck hurting is most likely due to the chair you are using. By using a low chair, you are forcing yourself to have to raise your head up higher than you normally would with a computer chair. Try getting a chair that is leveled with your monitor or at least high enough so your head and rest straight ahead. And as with anyone, when you are at the computer for a long time, your neck normally begins to hurt because you are in the same position for a long period of time.
Well, good luck and i hope you have better luck in the future with this.
take care,
ash
heyy. im a frosh and im really a shy girl! i need help flirting.. theres this one i guy i really like but hes shy! what can i do to make him like me? im sick of this crap like "wink!" or like "drop somethin so he can pick it up" i need ur help!!
try hanging out with your friends somewhere you know he will be !! See what happens !!
okay..sometimes when i have sex..i feel like i have to go pee..like every time my partner hits that certain spot when inside of me..i really have to pee..umm..is this normal?
yes this is completely normal ..i know exactly what you mean...but also try peeing before you have sex and also, make sure to pee upto 15 minutes after having sex to avoid a urinary tract infection !!
Iam 16 years old and my math teacher has been really mean to me like she calls me fat and miss piggy and it's really lowering my selfesteem.mrs.Trapnell that's my teachers name asked me how much my mom weighed and she asked me was my sister fat and all kinds of things like that.mrs.Trapnell also made me sit in the counsler's office for 2 hours for something that didn't even happen in her classroom I was stretching and my shirt was kind of short and this boy was next to me and mrs.trapnell saw it and this happened 2 days before she sent me to the counsler's office she said I was showing off my body in front of this boy named carl is this ok for a teacher to do this can I get her in trouble can she get fired.Is this right or is it my fault?
This is in NO way your fault and no matter what, your "teacher" has NO right to EVER approach a student in that kind of manner. You definately need to tell your parents and if they do not take further action, then YOU need to IMMEDIATELY!..go straight to the principals office and if he/she does not do anything about it, then contact the school board, court, and so on. This needs to be taken care of and she needs to be fired and possibly worse. Please take care of this as soon as possible. Things like this has happened to my friends and the teachers were punished severely for this. Please contact me at babyash1669@yahoo.com and let me know what happens.
i keep having to peee
like all of a sudden really bad and then very little comes out, very often
and i havent drinkin that much today, just a small cup of cranberry juice, a bottle of water, and a can of minute maid lite...
does anyone know what this is?
thank you
It is most likely a urinary tract infection. Contact your gynocologist so that you can get medicine right away. I also heard cranberry juice will take a urinary tract infection away, so drink up!!
Heres some more info for you:
http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/bladderhealth/a/UTI.htm
Urinary Tract Infections - UTI
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Causes - Symptoms - Treatments
The urinary tract is the body's filtering system for removal of liquid wastes. Women are especially susceptible to bacteria which may invade the urinary tract and multiply resulting in infection.
Although most urinary tract infections (UTI) are not serious, they are painful. Approximately fity percent of all women will have at least one UTI in her lifetime with many women having several infections throughout their lifetime. Fortunately, these infections are easily treated with antibiotics that cause the symptoms to quickly disappear. Some women seem are more prone to repeated infections than others and for them it can be a frustrating battle.
What Causes Urinary Tract Infections?
The most common cause of UTI is bacteria from the bowel that lives on the skin near the rectum or in the vagina which can spread and enter the urinary tract through the urethra.
Once bacteria enters the urethra it travels upward causing infection in the bladder and sometimes other parts of the urinary tract.
Sexual intercourse is a common cause of urinary tract infections because the female anatomy can make women more prone to urinary tract infections. During sexual intercourse bacteria in the vaginal area is sometimes massaged into the urethra by the motion of the penis.
Women who change sexual partners or begin having sexual intercourse more frequently may experience bladder or urinary tract infections more often than women in monogomus relationships. Although it is rare, some women get a urinary tract infection every time they have sex.
Another cause of bladder infections or UTI is waiting too long to urinate. The bladder is a muscle that stretches to hold urine and contracts when the urine is released. Waiting very long past the time you first feel the need to urinate causes the bladder to stretch beyond its capacity which over time can weaken the bladder muscle. When the bladder is weakened it may not empty completely and some urine is left in the bladder which may increase the risk of urinary tract infection or bladder infection.
Other factors may also increase a woman's risk of developing UTI including pregnancy, having urinary tract infections or bladder infections as a child, having past menopause, and diabetes.
What are the Symptoms of Urinary Tract Infections?
Symptoms of UTI or bladder infection are not easy to miss and include a strong urge to urinate that cannot be delayed which is followed by a sharp pain or burning sensation in the urethra when the urine is released. Most often very little urine is released and the urine that is released may be tinged with blood. The urge to urinate recurs quickly and soreness may occur in the lower abdomen, back, or sides.
This cycle may repeat itself frequently during the day or night--most people urinate about six times a day, when the need to urinate occurs more often a bladder infection should be suspected.
When bacteria enters the ureters and spread to the kidneys, symptoms such as back pain, chills, fever, nausea, and vomiting may occur, as well as the previous symptoms of lower urinary tract infection.
Proper diagnosis is vital since these symptoms can also be caused by other problems such as infections of the vagina or vulva. Only your physician can make the distinction and make a correct diagnosis.
How is Diagnosis of UTI Made?
The number of bacteria and white blood cells in a urine sample is the basis for diagnosing urinary tract infections. Urine is examined under a microscope and cultured in a substance that promotes the growth of bacteria. A pelvic exam may also be necessary.
Antibiotics are the usual treatment for bladder infections and other urinary tract infections. Seven to ten days of antibiotics is usually required although some infections may require only a single dose of antibiotics.
It's important that all antibiotics are taken as prescribed and not discontinued before the full treatment is complete. Symptoms may disappear soon after beginning antibiotics but if the antibiotics are quit early the infection may still be present and recur.
Another urine test may be ordered about a week after completing treatment to be sure the infection is cured.
hope this helped hun!
love,ash
"Se Soltanto sapesse"
^ whats that mean
thanks!
ok, after MUCH research(you should feel special biatch) lol ..i found this....
By the way, it is actually Italian.
Se=if
Soltanto=only
Sapesse=if you only knew OR you have no idea
soooo.....im guessing that the whole phrase will probably mean something along the lines of "if you only knew" ..or "if only you knew"
get back to me and lemme know if this helped!!
What exatcly is add? and whats the difference between add and ADHD. My friend has add, and i thought adhd was when you were a little hyper. and when shes hyper but shes claims she has add?
go to this website ...it should help clear up your confusing alot. take care hun.
http://www.newideas.net/
love, ash
There's this girl that I am friends with and we seemed to have a really good relationship at first, but ever since she realized she can tell me anything (I'm really good at keeping secrets) she only tells me her problems. It seems like every time I see her she has some sort of depressing story and she always expects me to help her! I'm an advicenator myself, so I do give a lot of good advice, but she keeps pelting me with all of these things that really aren't that big of a deal, but she overreacts and gets really upset about them. Now I never want to be around her because I don't want to get sad, but I think she sort of needs me now and I don't know what to do! She gets upset about EVERYTHING, like if she sees the guy she has a crush on hugging another girl (hugging is a big thing at our school, everyone hugs everyone else) she will freak out and start crying and get really mad at that person and then just expect me to fix it! It seems like my best friend and I are just her counselors and that we are expected to change everything that goes wrong for her. We think she may actually need psychological help, but we have no idea how to say this because she will get really upset, and talking to her parents is not an option. Help! I'm posting this in the morning because I know there is another sob story at school waiting for me, and I'm hoping it'll be the last one!
I think your friend is just so relieved that she can come to someone for her problems...someone that will listen and care. She just needs someone to be there for her ...because for some reason, when mentioning physchological help...you said her parents were NOT an option. So, therefore, that shows you right there that she can't exactly talk to her parents...and you are her close friend...and that's what friends are for. I know it may seem like whenever you have a problem, you can't expect to go to her for help since she is so tied up in her own issues ...but just to be there and to be a friend to someone and giving them a shoulder to cry on is worth it, right? In friendship, it's about give and take. But, you also shouldn't count up how many times you've helped her and no matter how many problems you are faced with from her, there should never be "too many" if you are truly her friend.
However, I definately see where you are coming from. I reccommend you talk to a school counseler so that maybe she can talk to your friend, because you know her better than me, and you say you think she needs more help than what you can give her. If you really care about her, then you will stop at nothing to help her. Don't push her away. You and your best friend may be the only people helping her at this point with her problems(big...or small) , so if you turn your backs on her, then she will have nothing...and that won't help a thing.
Maybe next time she is sharing one of her sob stories, you can simply give your advice ...and then follow up with a problem of your own and see how she reacts to it. If she offers advice to you, then you know she is a good friend and even though has problems, she is also there for you. She is "give and take" as I was talking about above. However, if she does not take notice to your problems when you are pouring your heart out to her, then you need to confront her. She may not notice what she is doing. You need to tell her that you need her to listen to your problems because afterall, you do listen to hers whenever, wherever the circumstance. That's all you need to say. If she gets angry or upset, then you need to just let her know that you love her and she is a great friend, but she needs to just listen to your problems as well as telling her own.
Let me know how it goes! Drop me a note in my inbox if you can!! Hope I helped!! take care.
love, ash
every now and then, I get these truly awful headaches that dont go away for a few days. Theyre really annoying becuase they interrupt my whole life...I cant do anything becuase even the slightest noise makes my head pound and bright lights make my eyes sting. Could it have anything to do with the computer? and is there anything I could do (besides aspirin or any medication) to make them stop happening or make them less intense? thanks so much ♥
This is called a migraine. I also get them from time to time. Many people do. Definately go to the doctors and get medication for when this happens. Try using tylonal such as "Exedrin" first.
love, ash
Okay so I masturbate like 3-4 times a week and I like to alot. The problem is, I feel so perverted and gross. How can I sto pfeeling so disgusting? 14-f
there is NO reason to feel ashamed in any way for what you are doing. Hey, it's better than having unprotected sex or getting pregnant! And, noone ever has to know about what you are doing, so it's only you that has to know!! It's VERY healthy to masturbate and i'm pretty sure over half the world does it in their own time. Simultaneous self-stimulation -- whatever your sexual orientation, gender, or age -- is "normal," natural, healthy, and safe.
love, ash