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Question Posted Tuesday March 14 2006, 8:20 pm

Iam 16 years old and my math teacher has been really mean to me like she calls me fat and miss piggy and it's really lowering my selfesteem.mrs.Trapnell that's my teachers name asked me how much my mom weighed and she asked me was my sister fat and all kinds of things like that.mrs.Trapnell also made me sit in the counsler's office for 2 hours for something that didn't even happen in her classroom I was stretching and my shirt was kind of short and this boy was next to me and mrs.trapnell saw it and this happened 2 days before she sent me to the counsler's office she said I was showing off my body in front of this boy named carl is this ok for a teacher to do this can I get her in trouble can she get fired.Is this right or is it my fault?

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hilda32 answered Wednesday March 15 2006, 1:14 am:
Hey Hun

well you really ned to tell the principal cause this sitn a joke it's kind of serious she's beign a bully adn teachers are telling thier students not to be bullies tell the principla he can take care of it if he cant do anything tell your parents they will sure do something

well gd luk hun take care mwa mwa

love: hilda

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Hollister answered Wednesday March 15 2006, 12:02 am:
you really really need to tell the school's principal about this witch because this is abuse. The next time she says anything, just be like, I have to be excused, I can't listen to this, then walk right to the principals office. This is very wrong what she's doing.

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DeadMemories answered Tuesday March 14 2006, 10:57 pm:
This most certainly isn't right nor fair. You should tell your parents or the principle. If they don't believe you then record her saying it.

It's NOT your fault. It's her's for being an idiot. Please tell someone because she will get in deep trouble for her actions!

-GD

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EricStarr answered Tuesday March 14 2006, 9:42 pm:
What your teacher is doing is just plain wrong.
In my opinion she doesn't belong teaching. Period!
Definatly tell your parents, and go to the principal.

As for you, don't let someone like this hurt you emotionally. She is probably a very insecure person herself and putting down others like that makes her feel better about herself in some sick way.

Remember.... Don't ever let someone else's opinion of you become your reality!

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Nevaeh314 answered Tuesday March 14 2006, 9:34 pm:
That is most definitely wrong. No teacher, parent, or anyone, for that matter, has the right to do that, she is discriminating based on appearance. She has no right to ask personal questions about your family members or to send you to the counselor's office. See if you can tape record her saying some of these things to you (of course without her knowledge, there are some cheap cassette recorders at stores like Walmart) and then go to the principal with it. Or just go to the principal without it and say what you said here. The teacher will either be fired or have some severe reprimand. You may also want to involve your parents, they can back you up if the principal refuses to do anything, because legally he/she has to.
Hope this helps, good luck!
Love,
Nevaeh

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xlostangelx answered Tuesday March 14 2006, 9:24 pm:
This is in NO way your fault and no matter what, your "teacher" has NO right to EVER approach a student in that kind of manner. You definately need to tell your parents and if they do not take further action, then YOU need to IMMEDIATELY!..go straight to the principals office and if he/she does not do anything about it, then contact the school board, court, and so on. This needs to be taken care of and she needs to be fired and possibly worse. Please take care of this as soon as possible. Things like this has happened to my friends and the teachers were punished severely for this. Please contact me at babyash1669@yahoo.com and let me know what happens.

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LoViNu2mOuCh answered Tuesday March 14 2006, 9:11 pm:
That is absolutely horrible, I am sory that you are going through that.

It is absolutely not ok that she is doing that, she should get fired if you tell a school official, and possiby maybe have a witness with you to back your story up.

Because all of that is completely uncalled for, I am so sorry that you have such a mean teacher...I hope she gets fired..

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karenR answered Tuesday March 14 2006, 8:56 pm:
This sounds like something you should tell your parents about. I think your teachers remarks are uncalled for!

I would hope your parents would contact the school about the teachers behavior.

It isn't your fault. :)

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