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i play soccer, spaz out with my freinds, listen to music like..the used, my chemcal romance, sugarcult, fallout boy, the goners, stalking roxy, streetlight manifesto, the killers, the ramones, nirvana, green day (only some times), and other bands and i play with my puppy molly alot, soccer, go to skool most of the time, color on my shoes with sharpies, walk my rabbits and that is about it!oh and i guess give people like you advice though it might not always be all that great
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im really insecure..and i always think my bf will cheat on me becoz of my past relationships.. also me n him r always arguing and its gettin me down because we aint as close to each other as we used to be and he doesnt show affection to me much anymore.. i have only been with him 11 months.. what can i do to stop us arguing and to get closer to each other again? (link)
just talk to him, it is the best thing you can do! but it probably wont work but hey you tried!

now about the cheating part, was it him that cheated on you? or someone else? if it was him you need to break it off with him right now but if it wasnt you have no need to worry about that happening agian. there are only so many guys in this world that are low enough to cheat on their girlfriend.

hope i helped!
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like mt faimly is being so horrible to me and like my sister she doesnt like me and my other sister thinks im a hore but im really not and when i walk in the room and they dont know i hear them say stuff like i hate that hoe and she is so self centerd and i want to know what i can do to like make them not hate me becasuse im happy about some things and sad about the other and its makeing me do crazy things for instants Cut.
please help me
~thank*~you*
~*cAsSiE~* (link)
just dont cut yor wrist! because then at school your teacher will find out and she will send you a rubber room. sounds like fun eh?

woo hoo
hope you learn not to cut your wrist!
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you know i was just kidding but i would say if you cut yourself it would make you a cutter
but if they hate you so much then just make fun of them or slap them, or run away to someother place. or you could try talking to them, it might work. enless they are too stuck up themselves to talk to you


A diet than can work for a 13 year old that can cook,(not too many ingredients though) and can help me lose 10-20 pounds in a month or two. I want to get slim before school starts! My dance class ended and my mom signed me up for basket ball, and I ride my bicycle but the numbers arent going down the scale. I know muscle weighs more than fat, but cant muscle lose weight too?

Anyway, can anyone write a good diet that has been working for them? =3 (link)
if you are 13 you dont need a diet. just eat good foods and work out. because your motableisum (sp?) is still high so just eat food that is good for you and work out and you should be fit pretty soon.

and if you go to a work out place then they probably have a scale that can tell you how much body fat you have, so you know if it is fat or mussle

sorry for all the spelling misstakes!
hope i helped!
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Has anyone used a self tanner that they would recommend? If so, which ones and how much are they? (link)
check this!

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=346573

hope it helps!
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Does anyone know any websites for Interior decorationg/designing? Please don't suggest google. (link)
www.yahoo.com


ive ever had a boyfriend. and im 16. whats wrong with me?? im not completly ugly, but im not like super pretty.. i think i may be prude. how do i get over that and have some fun??
THANKS SO MUCH!!!! (link)
nothing is wrong with you! just be yourself and you will find the perfect guy. but DO NOT CHANGE YOUSELF for a guy, because that always ends up in breaking up after a while because it is almost like have a relationship off a lie, he will then only like//love you for the person you were trying to be not the person you are.

hope this helps!

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me and my friends laugh way to much and dont know how to stop it. we will laugh about very stupid stuff and laugh for hours. do u know any way to stop it or at least help us not laugh about everything? plz help us! (link)
just think of your pet dying! or um... you parents dying,,, but that would only make me laugh harder but whatever works for you. or maybe just try not to laugh so much, like laugh at only some stuff in public and then when you are with your friend at your house or something you can let loose!

hope this helps!
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does anyone no any good tanning products or any good ways to get tan??

thankz

i rate high :) (link)
the sun, and the kind that comes in the like gold tubr thing it is netragina i think, it is a norwigian brand im pretty sure, but that is the only kind my mom will use. ((i dont use anything i dont need it)) but i recamend it!

sorry for the spelling erros!
hope that works for you!
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my skin, like on most of my body is covered in (little) bumps. ive had them my whole like but i dont kno what they are and personally, all i want to do is get rid of them! i hate it. its not a rash or anything like that but it wont go away with lotions, exfoliation, or creams, or anything else i have tried. plz help me!!! i rate 5's!!!!! (link)
are you out in the sun alot? are they red? if yes to both then they might be un blisters. are you in the wind? if yes then they might be a wind burn. but i would see a doctor. have you tried shea butter? it solves just about anything!


hope i helped!
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please read this and help me..i'll rate 5s..just please i desperately need help more than anything


i fell in love with a guy named harrison about 2 years ago, and we have been unseperable ever since then. we'd always have the occasional fights between us, and i was crazy about him, and he was about me too. i loved him more than anything in the world, and this was not just puppy love, this was the real thing. he was my first and possibly final love, and i lost my virginity to him. when he moved to iowa last year, we still loved each other and he never even attempted to go out with any other girl. he was the best thing that had ever happened to me, and i loved him..i truly mean it. he was always there for me, he was there when mother died, i lost my best friend, and when i had to have a heart surgery.


recently he died in a car accident. it wasn't his fault at all, it was horrible luck. he was driving on a highway and a drunk driver crashed into his car, killing him. i cried myself to sleep for months, and i just didn't care about anything but him. i was obsessing yes, but i loved him, and i know he loved me too. he was the only one for me, and i know he's gone now and i should move on and look for other guys, but i don't think i'll ever find anyone else like harrison. i will still of course try, but i cannot help but feel horrible. sometimes i feel i should kill myself so i can join harrison up in heaven, but i have never succeeded. i am hurt beyond words, and i don't know what to do anymore. please help me, anything will help right now. thank you so much for reading all of this.. love, lauren (link)
wow i can really tell you are hurting right now, im sorry for your mom passing on and his reck. but now you have to move on. i now it is really hard to but you can not live in the past. just put one foot infront of the other. maybe you try joining a local church, i'm sure that would help alot if you dont already. try takeing up a sport, you dont have to play it enless you want, but like prehaps soccer or football or baseball or something, you can watch the game/s on your tv to take your mind off of everything else.

i hope you feel better
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I absolutely hate my hair. I have thick light brown hair with blonde highlights. When i say thick.. i mean really thick. I have anywhere from 5-10 minutes in the morning to do my hair. Besides the everyday ponytail... what can i do to my hair? I am taking coloring, cutting, and styling ideas. (link)
i spend more like 30-45 minutes on my hair every day! so i know how you feel with the thickness stuff. but anyways, if you have curly hair and you want it wavy i would say get pureology--shampoo and conditioner and it will make is wavy if it is really curly, and then if it is straigh and you want it curly, curling irons will be your bestfriend, if it is wavy and you want it staight get a straightner. that way you can leave it down maybe 2-3 times a week and then during the week you can do stuff with it up like french braids and regular braids and stuff like that.

just indox me if you have any questions!
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Well Its always been my dream to make a cd and have it in stores and like all that stuff! well I have gotten this offer and I can get this thing its like a record deal.. you make a cd and everything and it goes in stores ALL over the world.. but its just to see how many people will like you.. and id make about $7,000.. which is like nothing.. but if alot of people got my cd.. Id get an actualy record deal and more money.. so my question is.. Should I go for that or should I just make a demo and send it to a bunch of record lables and then try to get signed by a big record lable?

please and thanks
maddie (link)
defently talk to it with your parents ((if under18)) but if not get a lawyer to look at anything you are going to sign. the record bussiness is filled with people just out there for unsespecting people's money.

hope i didnt put a damper on your dream! lol. but i would say go for the $7,000 one if the lawyer//parents say it is okay and everything.

hope i helped!
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I need a pet! should i get a dog or cat? i dont want it to smell bad! so what smell better (link)
a doggy!
they dont smell as much as cats


Are there any songs I can start practicing singing that are easy, but a bit challenging? I have a pretty good voice, but not as good as Kelly Clarkson's. Does anyone know any of those types of songs? (link)
i would say practice some allica keys because her voise is wonderful but, she still has some fun with slideing around like kelly. and allica has easy lyrics most of the time. she is good for people that are trying to learn how to slide or for practice. i would also say that kelly is not the best role modle for singing anyways. but hey that is my oppinion. but you can practice with those and then move on the other people, or even some of your favorite bands! woo hoo! lol. but remember if you are in a school choir not to sing like them or you will be in BIG trouble. but being in choir teaches you alot! it shapes your voice so you know how to sing that way so then it makes it easier to slide around and stuff. choir also helps with pitches and things like that.

hope i helped!
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there is this guy who went to one of the local schools in my town. he is black and really fine.. he moved to tx w/ his mom and now he is back for the summer... i really do like him and he seems like he likes me.. well im sortof in a lil thing w/ this other guy like we dated and then he got sent off and came back and wanted to get back together w/ me but hasnt yet. ok well i love him and am in love w/ him... but now that this other guy is back in town i find my self wondering if i should just break things off with him totally.... but the guy that is back in town for the summer is leaving when school starts again in august.. i tink its possible that i may want to pursue things w/ him though..what do u all think? the 2 guys know each other and may even be cousins--but didtant.... help.... (link)
i would say go with the guy that is staying here because after this summer hate to break it to you but you will probably never see him agian. but it is your desition (sp?) it sounds like you like the one that is here now better, but agian it is your choice which probably what you didnt want to hear. just think in a couple months the one that lives in texas will be gone, for a whole year, or more but the one that you have been out with before will still be here.

hope you deside
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im 14/f and i have never had a boifriend. i am really outgoing around my friends but whenever i'm around guys i get shy especially around guys i like. and it seems like all the guys at my school only like the sluts and nobody else.. what are some ways to get to be better friends with more guys and how to not be shy around them? thanks. (link)
that is the kinda thing you dont want to rush just sit back and be yourself and he will come to you! lol i know it is lame advice but hey life is to short to waste your time changing yourself for someone you will only be with for a couple months. that would be basically have a relationship of a lie. with isnt a good idea.

hope i helped
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I know I'm going to be kissing for the first time tonight. I'm nervous and excited. I need every pointer on what to do, where to start and so on. What was it like your first time making out? (link)
make sure you have gum so you have an excuse to kiss him agian. lol jk but if you really wanna go for it! it is much easier for your first time to just follow his lead

hope i helped!
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Hey... ANOTHER field hockey question... well since i hope to try out for the team next year at school which starts in like 2 months I want to get in shape. I was wondering what i can do to be in shape and at my best when playing the sport.. i was thinking maybe swimming laps in my pool.. or i dont really know.. anyone who has any tips i dont care what sport you play but a field hockey player mite help more.. idk ... thxx! (link)
build up your core....a.k.a. abs and stuff around in there do crunches sit ups and stuff like that inbox me if you want more specific stuff

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Ok so tommorw im goign to the cape for a week. Can someone give a lis on what to pack its gonan be 80's al week
and ill be swimming in our pool or beach everyday thnaks
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i would say take two swim suits if you have two so when one is drying you can wear the other to go swimming!


Hey u guyz im a prep and i love punk so what are some good prep/punk songs?? (link)
i think we have a problem if preps think the used is a good band! aparntly they dont know what bert is trying to say hint hint bert is the lead singer. you know the song box of sharp objects it is about him finding a knife and cutting himself songs amussing right? okay kelly clarkson dose not have ONE punk song. if i where you i would just give up now. go listen to your mainstream crap on the radio




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