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Hey I'm Hayli! I'm 13 and go 2 CRMS which is in Arizona. I think that I'm going 2 grow up 2 be a phycologist so I could use all the practice I can get! :) lol. My best friends r Abbe, Leah (Bob is sexy!!! lol) Gianna, Elisabeth (i miss ya!!), Jamie (same 2 u girl!!!) Lexxy, Elle (omg just kiss Nick and get it over with!!! lol), Taylor (I'm smart on this side, not this side!!) Andrew (Your mom, no your dad! uhhhh, my dad's dead....lmao) Ryan H (Notre Shame sucks!!!!!!) Ryan I (I love you Ryan! more than ul evr no) Gina, Roxy, Paige, Simone, Kendall, Rachel (angry beaver!!!!!) Kyle, Lawrence (Soccer dude 101 people! lol), Jordan (Harry should SERIOUSLY switch that quill with Umbridge! lmao!!!) Lindsay (same as Jamie and Elisabeth! BFF still!) and MANY others. If u wana b mentioned let me no, kay???


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Hey hayli, Lets just say right now i am so confused but not. U see i have a boy friend and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me but he is moving at the end of the year and i dont know what to do. And i have another problem, One of my best friends likes me but i already have a boyfriend and it is sort of hard to tell my friend that he is just my friend and will always be my friend and nothing else ,cuz i have known him for a long time. What should i tell my friend? And how am i going to make it through next year with out my boyfriend(Trent)? (link)
Hey Abbe! okay look. three words. LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS! haha I have a good feeling that Lawrence will be able to take whatever you have to say to him but just lay off talking to him about Trent because, yea, like i told u he's avoiding u which is bad. Dont worry about trent but just focus on Lawrence 4 now, okay? luv ya Abbe!



What do I do if the guy that I like, well, doesn't like me? I've liked him for almost, a year and a half now, and nothing's happened. I saw him flirting with some other girl, and now I think he is in love with her. We're "okay" friends, but......... What do I do? (link)
Yeah, dealing with this kind of stuff can be difficult. If your crush likes another girl, you can't stop him. You aren't able to tell him who to like and who not to. You just.....can't. Maybe since you're okay friends you should spend more time with him as friends. Who knows? He might begin to like you!

Best of luck,



What do I do if the guy that I like, well, doesn't like me? I've liked him for almost, a year and a half now, and nothing's happened. I saw him flirting with some other girl, and now I think he is in love with her. We're "okay" friends, but......... What do I do? (link)
Yeah, dealing with this kind of stuff can be difficult. If your crush likes another girl, you can't stop him. You aren't able to tell him who to like and who not to. You just.....can't. Maybe since you're okay friends you should spend more time with him as friends. Who knows? He might begin to like you!

Best of luck,



Does a beaver and a duck...make a platypus? Like, beak of a duck, tail of a beaver...you gotta admit it!!! They kinda DO LOOK ALIKE!!!

PLEASE HELP! I NEED TO KNOW!!!! XD *lol*

hehe thanks hayli ;)

*Rachel* (link)
That is the stupidest question that I have ever heard!!! hahaha! just kidding. I have NO clue! lmao! Look it up Rachel, you dope!

hahaha that seriously made me laugh!



hey...found this site...umm just sayin hi i guess!!! haha... =D umm...what's up? my issue IS: I don't know what to say on this question...any advice? hehe laters ;)

Rachelllllllll (link)
Hey girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!! u so0o0o0oo rock hard but u stole this advice thing from me!! meanie. lol. call me soon, kay??

u rock!!



Hey Hayli, you know what's been going on with the, "you-know-who." It's just that I've liked this girl for a while now, and for the entire year, she's though of me as her BFF and everything. It's hard for me to say, but I like her sooooo much, and she's explained that we're the best of friends. So if I say I like her, than our friendship goes down the tube. You know everything with me liking her, and know she has a boyfriend, and that she's uncomfortable right now, but this is the hardest situation I've been in for a long time... and well............. let's just say that I really need your help!!!!!!!!! You're so easy to talk to, and hopefully, you can help me sort this out! THx, you're the best! (link)
Hey Lawrence! Yeah, I know this situation. I think that you should just talk to her and see where fate leads you. This is another one of those pickles. Just relax and enjoy your friendship and if it turns into something more and then doesn't work out, that doesn't mean that you CAN'T go back to being just as good friends as you were before! good luck!


Okay... So I've liked this guy for about three years now... and there will be times when I'm not really sure if I like him or not, but I always go back to liking him.... and then there is another guy... and I have liked him for almost the whole school year (it's not over yet...) and I don't want to like him because of things that I have heard about him.... But I can't help it... I really like him... and a while ago I was starting to get over him... but now I really like him again... So I don't really know what to do... I think that if I still like the first guy by homecoming next year I will ask him to the dance.... but with the second guy... I have no idea what to do, because I really like him.. but I don't want to like him.... *sigh* (link)
Gee, it seems that you're in a really tough situation. Well, the 2nd guy seems to be the main focus of this story so let's start there. You seem to be caught with your feelings and although as much as you don't want to like this guy you can't just "stop liking" a guy. You have to follow your heart. It also seems to me that the 1st guy is a better choice because 1st of all you've liked him for so long, and also because you told me that the 2nd guy has a reputation that might not be too good. So go ahead and ask him to the dance when the time comes and if anything changes, please let me know. In the words of Umbridge, "I am your friend. I am here to help." lol.


Okay, well I'm really stressed out from everything that's happening. I was even sent to see the school counseler from recomendation of my teacher. What should I do??

--???? (link)
Well, I have been through what you are going through only too many times. All you need 2 do is relax, keep cool, and just let things pass. Trust me, they will!





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