Okay... So I've liked this guy for about three years now... and there will be times when I'm not really sure if I like him or not, but I always go back to liking him.... and then there is another guy... and I have liked him for almost the whole school year (it's not over yet...) and I don't want to like him because of things that I have heard about him.... But I can't help it... I really like him... and a while ago I was starting to get over him... but now I really like him again... So I don't really know what to do... I think that if I still like the first guy by homecoming next year I will ask him to the dance.... but with the second guy... I have no idea what to do, because I really like him.. but I don't want to like him.... *sigh*
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Hayli answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 12:43 am: Gee, it seems that you're in a really tough situation. Well, the 2nd guy seems to be the main focus of this story so let's start there. You seem to be caught with your feelings and although as much as you don't want to like this guy you can't just "stop liking" a guy. You have to follow your heart. It also seems to me that the 1st guy is a better choice because 1st of all you've liked him for so long, and also because you told me that the 2nd guy has a reputation that might not be too good. So go ahead and ask him to the dance when the time comes and if anything changes, please let me know. In the words of Umbridge, "I am your friend. I am here to help." lol. [ Hayli's advice column | Ask Hayli A Question ]
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