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he doesnt want to be seen with me...
so theres this guy named brandon at my school. ive liked him ever since september. weve sat next to eachother almost all year in english.he would always flirt with me and stuff but he had a girlfriend & they were togteher for over a year.well last month they broke up. and ever since then weve been hanging out soo much and hes kissed me and hes held my hand and told me he likes me soo much. he even wrote me a song. and he calls me alllll the time. well when were at school he hugs me and puts his arm around me. but he told me he doesnt want a girlfriend. he wont kiss me at school. but outside of school we kiss all the time...we hangout at lunch and stuff but i dont know. my friend (whos also his friend) asked if he liked me he said yea i like her alot. and she said are u gonna ask her out? he said NO! not for school. its like he doesnt want the school to know were together. and everyone is asking me about it theyr like oh are you and brandon going out?? what does all this mean, why wont he ask me out? and hes not the kind of guy to use a girl...hes soo sweet...:|
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Maybe he's embarrassed or prehaps he doesn't want his ex finding out.
Karazi Kenzee
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Some people just don't like to show affection (like kissing) in public. Could be he's one of them. He may have with the old girlfriend, but maybe he regrets it.Some things are better kept private. So, I wouldn't hold it against him. I think I would ask him about though. And I'd ask him about the not for school comment. Just tell him you're a little confused by it all.My guess is though that he just don't want nosey people at school questioning his relationships.:)
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ook. It sounds to me that I wouldn't waste my time with the guy. if his ex gf goes to that school it could mean he doesn't want her seeing it. but then agian. if he's moved on and really liked you he shouldn't be so secretive. That's like the guy I liked..he'd always hug me and kiss me in private. but when we were in school he'd always act like we weren't friends. it made me feel used and he wasn't a real friend. talk to him about it, ask him why he does this. if he comes up with some lame ass excuse discontinue your "friendship" with him. example: "I'm not ready to tell everyone about you and I" or "well I don't want my friends to say anything"
it shouldn't matter what his friends think or what anyone else thinks....
Manda<3
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I would talk to Brandon ask him why he doesn't want to go out with you.
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