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i have written twenty something songs and believe they are actually really good and i love singing, playing guitar & piano... so i'm just wondering what are some ways i could record my music onto a cd that isn't extremely expensive and doesn't involve a recording studio and also what are some good ways to get my music discovered since i want to sing? (link)
you could always buy a mic, and download a trail version of like sound forge.

I usually steal mine I download soundforge on my music downloader and then download a key genorator and yeahhh.


is there any way to become, less depressed? (link)
Hmmm Less depressed ay?

Usually I surround myself with friends.
Write a song or poem.

Doing something that makes me happy makes me less depressed.

You could always seek some help, maybe from a therapist, guidence counsler or psycologist?

hope I helped some.

m


My friend, Austin, used to be overweight and lost a bunch of weight two summers ago. I lost a lot of weight too but not as much as her.
The thing that bothers me is that she calls everyone fat, if someone has an inch of flab -anywhere-, she'll call them a cow. Especially is she's mad at them.
She also thinks that anyone who is overweight is disgusting and lazy. She won't even consider -looking- at a guy who is a pound overweight.
She's not exactly skinny. She worries about her "gut" which is like a pound of flesh on her tummy (it's tiny) and I'm not fat but I'm bigger than some of the girls she makes fun of. I am more understanding though and I wouldn't secretly pick on people because of their weight.
Austin and I are like best friends. So does she think I'm a cow too? How can she look down on all these girls who aren't even all that fat and not look down on me? (link)
I think your friend is just trying to make herself look good, or trying to give herself more self-esteem.

Maybe you should remind her that she was once fat and that she didn't like it when people made fun of her (if they did) so she shouldn't poke fun at them.


what are the best solutions for frizzy hair.

brannnds? products? i want something i can pick up at a drugstore or target, that won'ttt make my hair greasy.

++ any good acne products? which products give you the speediest results? (link)
you can use frizz eaz (i think it's spelled that way)

it works way good.


OK i need to download some good punk rock, emo, music
Will everyone give me 1 of your favorite song.. Just 1 please... your favorite one???????
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i believe it's called Blue and yellow by the Used

it's awesome


ok so ill go over this quickly i like this guy (im bi) n hes gay n iv decided to try n talk to him n become friends with him. i realy like him n wont him to know im bi so how would i slip that into the convo somehow. n how sould i go about asking him out. well someone let me know i need tons of help.

mizike (link)
hmm. Maybe you should casually ask him to hang out. like hang out at your house, watch a movie.

as to slipping in your bi..that's tough. as for me, I just told my friends .....yeah i like girls and guys. or you could talk about a hot celeb you like. lol.

i hope i helped...some.


ok i have a really good friend and she is hurting herself by like throwing herself into walls durring school because i think she is depressed. It seems like she really doesn't want to talk about it to anyone. The other day she almost cracked her head open. (she kind of did or maybe she just got a cut on it and it started bleeding because she was banging her head on the lockers) ya i know it sound phsyco...but i don't want her 2 be like this! i mean 2day she was slamming her head against the concrete until i made her stop! what should i do to get her to either tell me whats going on or to stop her from hurting herself????? (i rate high)

ThAnKs A BuNcH!

-*Marissa*- (link)
1. Your friend could be doing it for attention because she's phsyco!


2. She has a serious problem. Talk to her parents about it. or talk to the school counsler.(I recomend talking to the parents more because schools just want to call social services on people)

3. tell her to stop acting like a reject and stop banging herself in the walls becuase she's losing the little brain cells she got left! Tell her that you worry a lot about her and if she doesn't stop your going to tell her parents.


Why do guys get angry when you have only been dating two months and they tell you they love, but if you don't feel comfortable saying it back they all the sudden don't love you? Especially the only reason you don't want to say it is because that is when people start getting hurt! (link)
If you don't want to say "I love you" then you shouldn't have to. Maybe explain why you didn't say it. And never say it just to please him. This guy I went out with kept saying I love you and we've only been going out for a week. I just kept saying "mhmm" and left it alone. sure he got mad but I later explained that it was only a week and I don't love him. Your bf should understand. and if he doesn't he isn't worth your time.


There is this girl that I REALLY want to ask to prom. But there is one small problem. She says she doesnt really do the school dance thing. We went out to the movies last week, and she said she had a great time. We've been friends for a while, and I finally admitted I have feelings for her, and she said she likes me too. So I dont know, should I ask her, or should I ask someone I dont know as well? And if I should ask her, how should I ask? I am a singer, but I'm not confident about my talent under THAT sort of pressure! Please help! (link)
just ask her! she would probably go. I've never done the dance thing but if someone asked me to prom i would go. If you ask someone else...she may get jealous and be hurt by that.

I'm sure she'll def. go with you. but if she doesn't don't fret. ask her to go somewhere else. like dinner or something. If you REALLY want to go...and she says no. explain that it would mean a lot to you that if she goes with you because it's a special night and you want to spend it with someone special.

lol there ya go....as by asking her to prom say like "hey you know the prom is coming up, and it's gonna be a special night and I want you to be the one to spend that night with me" cheesey...I know but if some guy told me that, I would be like "yes!"

Manda


so theres this guy named brandon at my school. ive liked him ever since september. weve sat next to eachother almost all year in english.he would always flirt with me and stuff but he had a girlfriend & they were togteher for over a year.well last month they broke up. and ever since then weve been hanging out soo much and hes kissed me and hes held my hand and told me he likes me soo much. he even wrote me a song. and he calls me alllll the time. well when were at school he hugs me and puts his arm around me. but he told me he doesnt want a girlfriend. he wont kiss me at school. but outside of school we kiss all the time...we hangout at lunch and stuff but i dont know. my friend (whos also his friend) asked if he liked me he said yea i like her alot. and she said are u gonna ask her out? he said NO! not for school. its like he doesnt want the school to know were together. and everyone is asking me about it theyr like oh are you and brandon going out?? what does all this mean, why wont he ask me out? and hes not the kind of guy to use a girl...hes soo sweet...:| (link)
ook. It sounds to me that I wouldn't waste my time with the guy. if his ex gf goes to that school it could mean he doesn't want her seeing it. but then agian. if he's moved on and really liked you he shouldn't be so secretive. That's like the guy I liked..he'd always hug me and kiss me in private. but when we were in school he'd always act like we weren't friends. it made me feel used and he wasn't a real friend. talk to him about it, ask him why he does this. if he comes up with some lame ass excuse discontinue your "friendship" with him. example: "I'm not ready to tell everyone about you and I" or "well I don't want my friends to say anything"

it shouldn't matter what his friends think or what anyone else thinks....

Manda


Alrite well I started talking to this guy my friend use to see i guess...sort of...they had sex if that matters....hes funni and stuff and i like him and i might hang out with him this weekend .. he told my friend that he might hangout with me and shes like oh really? and im like haha i dont kno... im not sure if shes mad or not tho...she has a bf that shes in love with so i dont think it should matter...i just want to hang out with him as friends and stuff i dont think it would go much further than that. so my question is do u think she should be mad? and do u think that im doing something wrong by hanging out with him ? (link)
I don't think there is anything wrong with hanging out with him. Some people will think it's totally wrong because it was your friends ex (if you want to call it that) and it's about the "friendship code" I for one don't think it's wrong you can't help who you like. and if Your friend is in love with the guy she's going out with like she says she shouldn't be mad or whatever. I think you should hang out with him. and if she doesn't like it remind her that she's in love with someone right now and should'nt even care. there's nothing wrong with hanging out with a friend...

Manda




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