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Prom Problem
There is this girl that I REALLY want to ask to prom. But there is one small problem. She says she doesnt really do the school dance thing. We went out to the movies last week, and she said she had a great time. We've been friends for a while, and I finally admitted I have feelings for her, and she said she likes me too. So I dont know, should I ask her, or should I ask someone I dont know as well? And if I should ask her, how should I ask? I am a singer, but I'm not confident about my talent under THAT sort of pressure! Please help!
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Fuck it. Ask her.
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just ask her the next time you see her
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I can understand how she feels because i dont really like school dances. but if someone went out of their way to especilly ask me then i would go. especially if it was a guy who was my mate (so i know i would have a good time) and i like on more than a friend level. im sure if you just said that you really wanted to go and it wouldnt be the same without her she would agree to go. but if not then dont push it. some people just aren't comfortable 'dance' situations. so dont go your self. you will have a better time with her where ever you are rather than been at the dance on your own! but if you really want to go then dont ask someone else without telling her that your going, because if she finds oit you have asked someone else then she could get the wrong idea! so make sure you avoid that situation! lol!
Hope it helped!
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I think you go ahead and ask her first at least.
Maybe she just doesn't know how to dance. Offer to teach her (at least the slow ones).If she doesn't want to go with you, then consider asking someone else...or just skip it and go out with her, depending on your feelings. :)
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I, myself don't really do the school dance thing, but if I went out with a guy and had a great time and liked him, I would go one night for him! I would probably end up having a blast too. I thought this was a cute website: (I looked on google, what can I say, I love that search engine!)
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Maybe that will give you a couple of ideas, and if you can sing and you know you're good, you should somehow include that in your creative proposal!
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just ask her! she would probably go. I've never done the dance thing but if someone asked me to prom i would go. If you ask someone else...she may get jealous and be hurt by that.
I'm sure she'll def. go with you. but if she doesn't don't fret. ask her to go somewhere else. like dinner or something. If you REALLY want to go...and she says no. explain that it would mean a lot to you that if she goes with you because it's a special night and you want to spend it with someone special.
lol there ya go....as by asking her to prom say like "hey you know the prom is coming up, and it's gonna be a special night and I want you to be the one to spend that night with me" cheesey...I know but if some guy told me that, I would be like "yes!"
Manda<3
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You can ask her but if she doesn't like dances, on prom night do something else. Go do something special between the two of you.
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yeah you should definately ask hr..shes the best person to ask being that you both felt a connection. If you dont want to sing..maybe write her a sing and read it to her? im not sure if you write any songs or poems..but thats a cute way..
another way thats fine is just by asking her straight out..that you would like to take her to the prom!
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