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Hey ya'll! I'm just an average girl from California (originally North Carolina)that is down to Earth and I speak what is on my mind. I am fourteen years old and I like to act much older than I am, mature wise. I will only answer intelligent questions. I'm not saying I know everything, but ask me a question and I will give an answer as best I can. I take this website very seriously and will not tolerate brainless, adolescent people.

-:- Always remeber..the best advice to give, is to not give any at all -:-


You do not under any circumstances have to take mine, or anyone else's advice. Listen to your gut instinct, although if you need back-up or reassurance advicenators' columnists are always here.

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I have very curly hair. Not like super tight curls but its verry curly, puffy, and frizzy. What can I do to help keep the frizz down?

I have straight hair, but all my friends have hair like your's they straighten it with a flat iron. I also think there are ways to make it straight at a salon, I'll look further into it and get back to you on that! But try the flat iron, they're pretty cheap and work very well, I would recomend Revlon, that's what most of my friends have!

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can you name some fatining foods?

Pretty much everything on the menu at a fast food restraunt! :P

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Okay there was this one kid that said he liked me. he'd alwyas say he loves me too, but i thought he had a girlfriend.. One day at my friend's house he tried to kiss me and i said no i cant do this.. he asked why and i said because your going out with amy..he said, no im not dont worry about it. About a month later his Girlfriend found out about what happened and he told her that I CAME ONTO HIM! She wants to beat me up for something i did not do and she thinks that I am lying about all this.. what can i doo!?

Okay, I would talk to his girlfriend and tell her exactly what happened..if that doesn't work tell someone, "Hey there is this girl that threatened me and I don't feel very safe." They'll take care of it. As for the guy, never talk to him again, don't say rude comments, don't try to get revenge or make him mad. Just give him the silent treatment, if you have to say something to him, do it nicley. Most of the time when you cuss, or name call you aren't taken as seriously. Talk to the friend that was there when it happened. See if she will back you up. I hope I helped, and I think that all the people out there that lie are bad, and eventualy will get caught and regret everything they have ever lied about!

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Me and my girlfriend had been goin out for a while but then the other day she broke up with me i asked her why and i found out she wasnt goin outr wit this other guy already. Please tell me what to do!

Forget her! I know that may sound very rude, and I know you may not want to, but it is the best! If she doesn't like you for you and likes some other guy more, than she isn't worth your time. I think you may need to take some time to figure out who you would like to date next, because no one like to be treated this way and be cheated on.. I'm very sorry that you are one of the people that had to go through something this bad. Just don't be mean to her, and don't try to seek revenge, that is just showing that you will stoop down to her level. Hope I helped!

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I left you some excellent feedback. YOu might want to take a look. YOu asked my question about being jealous of other people's good news.


Take Care.

Sincerely,

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Answering advice columns is your calling.

Thank you! I try very hard and think up many solutions and when I know that someone liked my advice it makes my whole day! If you need any other advice you know there is always my column!

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There is this girl that I REALLY want to ask to prom. But there is one small problem. She says she doesnt really do the school dance thing. We went out to the movies last week, and she said she had a great time. We've been friends for a while, and I finally admitted I have feelings for her, and she said she likes me too. So I dont know, should I ask her, or should I ask someone I dont know as well? And if I should ask her, how should I ask? I am a singer, but I'm not confident about my talent under THAT sort of pressure! Please help!

I, myself don't really do the school dance thing, but if I went out with a guy and had a great time and liked him, I would go one night for him! I would probably end up having a blast too. I thought this was a cute website: (I looked on google, what can I say, I love that search engine!)

http://www.theromantic.com/stories/askdate/main.htm

Maybe that will give you a couple of ideas, and if you can sing and you know you're good, you should somehow include that in your creative proposal!

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What can you use to get rid of stretch marks/ and or scars? Thanks in advance!
I rate 5's

Check out this website: http://abateit.com/

I'm not sure exactly what is it, I just did a quick search on google to try and help. From what I did read I would go with Elicina Cream, pretty expensive but all the other searches were about laser sergury, if you want those websites feel free to put something in my inbox!

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this is a really embarassing question, but why do i notice little hairs around my breasts? i have read that i shouldn't worry, which i am not, but i would like to know why that is there. also is there any way that isn't harmful to my body to remove it...i don't like how it looks. THANK YOU!

You shouldn't be embarassed about your body. First off though, I'm not sure why you would want to remove it since only you see it (I think.) It isn't harmful to remove it as long as you aren't tweezing or shaving it off, that could cause cysts to form. The best solution would be to clip it off. Anyway, you may want to get it check out by a doctor of some sort because it could be polycystic ovarian syndrome. Basically it is a condition caused by insulin resistance that triggers hormonal imbalances which causes excess hair growth, among other symptoms. So try telling a female adult that may have gone through it before.

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I'm a female in my early twenties. My brother-in-law has a wife, who he married last year. I was jealous of everytime he was in a serious relationship. Now, he's married, I'm even more jealous. Now he's having his second child with his wife, whom I'm not comfortable accepting yet. My husband and I are also planning to have a child as well, but I am not pregnant with my second child yet. Sometimes I hate it when people do better than me. Especially people I don't like. My brother-in-law doesn't really talk to me and his wife I don't really like, yet I have to learn to accept her. Is it normal to be jealous of other people's good news? I'm acting like my brother-in-law is my blood brother, or something. I also came from a small family where I was always put first, and when someone has good news that happens to them, then it's not all about me anymore. Does the way I was raised have something to do with this? I love it best when I was the ONLY daughter-in-law in the family.

I think it is completley acceptable to be jealous of their having a baby. If I was in your situation I would probably be too. No affence or anything but when I feel that way, I always get a tiny bit angry at myself for being so selfish. A baby is a big deal and having 2 children before anyone else isn't necessarily "doing better" every family along with every person is different and moves at their own pace. Maybe you should tell your husband that you don't accept his brother's wife. Or spend some time and get to know her, it could be that you just aren't used to the change yet. The jealousy is NOT, and I want to make this clear to all the perverts out there, a sign that means you are attracted to your brother-in-law in ANY way! It just means you are looking out for him, because even though not blood related, you are still family. I'm not sure if this is exactly what you are looking for but I hope I helped.

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Hey, I'll be wearing a backless, strapless dress for a wedding and I was wondering if anyone knew any bras or "boob holders" to wear underneath the dress? The back goes pretty low so a strapless bra won't work well, and I'm not liking those adhesive boob tape they sell in stores. Where can I find a product that offers support but doesn't show? I've looked into a Victoria's Secret one, but the straps are a bit thick. Here's the link:

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/images/prodlgvw/V238138.jpg

Try shopping around for this thing called "Natural Bra" it is a silicon cup with no straps what so ever (none adhesive) that gives you comfort, cleavage, look of an added cup size, and you can wear any strapless or backless fashions with it. I have seen many commercials for this and your best bet would proabably be the "As Seen On TV" store. I have seen them for around $20 at the mall.

Here is the link I recently looked up - http://www.asontv.com/products/1074200116.html

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Hi, I'm a 19/f and I've been with my boyfriend for about three years. Instead of just doing things or getting him gifts only on special occasions, I like to be spontaneous and surprise him on a random day "just cause".

Over the period of these three years, I've done a lot like make him crafty cards, cook for him, and etc, but I feel like I'm running short on ideas!

Keep in mind I am on a budget since most of my money is spent for my college tuition and textbooks. What I'd like to ask is if you all have any good ideas on what I could do to surprise him and remind him of how much I love him that is creative and affordable? My target is to get him something that he'll enjoy and that could possibly be useful (it doesn't have to be romantic), because I've given him a lot of love mementos already.

Here are some of his interests if it helps:

-cars
-computers
-video games
-movies
-food (the guy loves to eat)

Thanks!

You could always go with a lot of little things. I also agree with icey0990, can't go wrong with food. One thing that is extra creative is maybe a scavenger hunt around his residence. You could go to a crafts store and buy index cards, glitter, markers, for an affordable price. Make colorful clue cards and place them where he will see them. Try in the toilet seat or in the fridge, places he always goes! Just a thought, and a few ideas to start you off..be creative, what ever it is I'm sure he will love it :)

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