im really insecure..and i always think my bf will cheat on me becoz of my past relationships.. also me n him r always arguing and its gettin me down because we aint as close to each other as we used to be and he doesnt show affection to me much anymore.. i have only been with him 11 months.. what can i do to stop us arguing and to get closer to each other again?
stalkingroxy911 answered Monday July 4 2005, 11:14 am: just talk to him, it is the best thing you can do! but it probably wont work but hey you tried!
now about the cheating part, was it him that cheated on you? or someone else? if it was him you need to break it off with him right now but if it wasnt you have no need to worry about that happening agian. there are only so many guys in this world that are low enough to cheat on their girlfriend.
KATAxTHExADViCEgURL answered Monday July 4 2005, 9:27 am: it`s alright to feel that insecutrity, it`s tough when you have a boyfriend.. things seem to get a little more complicated. But what might help is to talk things out. I say this in most of my advice column`s.. talk. Tell him how you`re really feeling about your relationship. Tell him that you aren`t comfortable with the way things are now.. and maybe if he starts feeling what your feel, ask him to go to the movies with you, spend a little more time together, so he can realize what you`ve been through, and this will hopefully bring you guys closer again. Just talk to him.. let your feeling and emotions flow. If he really loves you, he wouldn`t cheat on you. yes, that sounds corny but, its the truth. Don`t be so quick to doubt him, give the guy a break.
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