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im a cutter?


Question Posted Monday July 4 2005, 3:36 am

like mt faimly is being so horrible to me and like my sister she doesnt like me and my other sister thinks im a hore but im really not and when i walk in the room and they dont know i hear them say stuff like i hate that hoe and she is so self centerd and i want to know what i can do to like make them not hate me becasuse im happy about some things and sad about the other and its makeing me do crazy things for instants Cut.
please help me
~thank*~you*
~*cAsSiE~*


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x0xMrSm answered Monday July 4 2005, 12:09 pm:
don't let your family get to you. i know exactly how you feel...but cutting doesn't solve anything.

you probably cut because they make you feel like shit and that 'things would be better off if you weren't here' and that the only way to let out those feelings is by cutting yourself. but it really doesn't do anything in the long run.

there's nothing that you really can do about how they make you feel, besides talk to them about it. but there are better, non-destructive ways to let out your feelings towards/about your family.

punch a pillow, scream into a pillow, find a piece of wood and a bat and go in your garage or driveway and just go all out, punch a punching bag, CRY!!!!!, go for a run, work out/exercise...those are lots of things that just get everything out and don't hurt anyone.

IM me if you need to...and please, stop cutting.
hope i helped.

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crazyoutyamind answered Monday July 4 2005, 12:04 pm:
you need to walk up to your sisters and tell them that you dont know how they came to think that you are not a hore! you would never do that to your body you need to ask them why they think that and that the things they say about you are making you do crazy things in other words just talk to them about it Well i hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox good luck!

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stalkingroxy911 answered Monday July 4 2005, 11:07 am:
just dont cut yor wrist! because then at school your teacher will find out and she will send you a rubber room. sounds like fun eh?

woo hoo
hope you learn not to cut your wrist!
cam



you know i was just kidding but i would say if you cut yourself it would make you a cutter
but if they hate you so much then just make fun of them or slap them, or run away to someother place. or you could try talking to them, it might work. enless they are too stuck up themselves to talk to you

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KATAxTHExADViCEgURL answered Monday July 4 2005, 9:35 am:
TALK. talk to your family about how they`ve been acting towards you lately. i`ve said this in many past advice`s, talking is the best way to tell how you feel, and to let your self go. If you don`t say anything, they`re just gunna keep on talking about you. Their your family, you have to do something about it, and trust me, cutting is N0T the answer.

please stay safe and good luck!
xo0x- Kata

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Kr4z3y_Ch3lly answered Monday July 4 2005, 8:21 am:
yea uhm seriously dont cut..please?

ask your sisters why the hell they have such a problem with you..seriously you need to confront them..cuttings not the solution trust me alright?

i know what your going through hun..just the cutting part..i have my problems too..i dont do taht shit anymore because i really think i found something and it saved me..and thats music..yea people say "how can music save you thats totally stupid" but its not..it really did save me..so please dont cut and confront your sisters..if they still have a problem with you..fuck them their bitches..find something that makes you happy and do that alot! it will help i promise..good luck

oh yea and..dont go up to them bitchy talk to them nicly first!

michelle<|3

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sweetheart1604 answered Monday July 4 2005, 8:02 am:
maybe you should ask your sisters about this and ask them y they are being so nasty about you.. dnt give them the satisfaction of knowing they are hurting your feelings eg; you cutting urself (not a good thing to do). And if it carries on speak to your parents about it.. maybe your sisters are jeleous of you for some reason..speak to thm about it n see how it goes... :)

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