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alright, im 13 and my mom put me on birth control pills...but im a vergin. she doesnt belive me so now im starting the pill on sunday. so i told my bf and he said that if his mom knew about it she would buy him condoms. so we both laughed....sigh...ok now my problem. does this mean that he wants to have sex? or wat? i mean i LOVE this kid...and i was thinking about having sex with him for awhile now. but im not sure if he wants to. i mean i know were like really young but i really do love him. so do you think i should have sex with him and do you think he wants to have it with me or is he just kidding around? and if we did have sex where would we have it? please help me im so freaking confused! I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!! sorry if this is too long. (link)
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ok first of all, you should tell your mother to cool down because you are telling the truth and she should trust you, and when you are telling this tell it calmly and adultly...(sorry not a real word but anyways )
such as like this
"mom, i know you are trying to protect me and help me but i would never do that when i know i can not take the responsibilty for it, and i have a good judgement so i know what i shouldnt do or do. so please mom trust me on this and i never will do anything stupid without consulting you first when its things that big."
and well you dont have to but i think taking pill when you are not preg is kinda bad for you. because taking any pill can be bad for you. even a tylenol for a simple headache.
anyways and i think he was probably joking but i dont think you should really lose your virginity when you are still young. but if you really really want to and if your heart say so, then i guess you must do what your heart says but to me you sound like you shouldnt. because if you are freaking out and dont know yet, it means your concious mind of heart is saying that you are not ready. and trust me you have plenty of time to do 'it' later =)
and hope i helped but most importantly, follow your heart. it may be wrong later, and you might regret it but you will never know if you never listen to it so trust your judgement.
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im 14/f...i feel like i sleep a LOT! like here's an average day: wake up around 10...take a nap from like 1 to 3 30...then get up and do whatever...then take another nap from like 5 to 6 30...then stay up until like 1 in the morning and go to bed and do it all over again the next day...is this normal or is there something wrong??? (link)
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Whoa girl slow your roll here. its not that your sleeping portion is much but your sleep is irregular. (ok i admit i do sleep late and sometimes wake up around 10 or 9:30 but only when i am really tired)
but here is what "regular" people's shchedule is
go to sleep around 10:00 pm
wake up around 6:00AM (for early birds)
and around 7AM (but exception for summer vac)
which in times can be around to 8:00 to 9:00
but most of times it can be 7-8AM
and if you sleep late, you wont grow. and try sleeping earlier...and if you cant fall asleep, which in case you are like me, then try reading a book. but still if you cant sleep for long time then you have to consult a doctor .well first tell your parents first.
and try wake up early so you will go sleep early
and it wont be so hard for you when the school starts again.(wow what a drag huh. i can so relate to you because i am 14 too )
anyways hope i helped and if you have any moe question you can email me or whatever when ever =)
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Ok, there's this girl I like who doesn't like me, until I can get her to like me, I don't want to be with any other girls. Unfortunately, during Dungeons and Dragons at camp today (please, no nerd cracks), there was this girl who I think was trying to get me to like her. For example, my character died, and she was like "It's okay. You and I are the only not-mean people here." Also, I never see her talk to any other guys in the group, putting aside group discussions, like marching order and etc. Is she trying to pick me up? She goes to my school also, unfortunately that other girl also goes to my school. I really could care less about this new girl, but I really think she's trying to get me to like her. What do I do, and how do I tell her that there's someone else? What if I'm wrong about her? I'm really confused, and please, none of those smart alek answers, I rate ones for people who tell me "just bang her" or anything equally unhelpful or smart alekey.
-Dakmor (link)
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Hey its ok and you are not geek because people may think i am totally not geek and stuff but i do like geek stuff so everyone as little touch O' geek in them =) and second of all i think she does like you but it can be that she's just nice
but most likely she likes you and i know when you like someone and some one that you dont like, you just want to tell them."get lost" (which in case is for most guys.)
and i am not telling you its wrong but you have to revise the situation here.
you will feel very bad if your crush say "hey i dont like you so get lost"
and think about it, she's in same situation as you. so dont tell her mean stuff just tell her
that you are not intereted in her or that you are not interested in girlfriend yet but that is most likely backfire and hurt her more when she sees you at school with you and your new girl (hey it may works out for you and your crush *wink wink*)
anyways ...if you think she likes you, it probably is. so if she's really trying to hit on you such as ask you out on date!
then calmly tell her, no being mean! because she can tell her friends about it and MAn us girls can gossip so you can be rated as mean guy among the girls, anyways then just tell her that you think she's nice and all but you want to be truthful and that you are not interested because you already like somebody so much. and be nice and casual about it so she wont feel bad and your night conscience wont haunt you down at night =)
so hope i helped and remember what i said.
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Today the discharge in my underwear had a yellowish brown tint to it. Some parts of it looked kinda red. This is the first time this has happened. Is this my period coming or should I worry. I don't want to go to the doctor *unless its really serious* because my family is really short of money right now. I'll rate 5's for any helpfull answer. (link)
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Well i had something like that and for me, it was period. but it can be different for you, so just watch it for couple of days but if you dont start period in a week then you should talk to your mom about it and yes i know its hard to tell because my family is like that too and we can't go to hospital for little thing... so if you think its one of those infections here is what you can do.
(it might not get better but you can prevent it next time and it probably will get better)
wash down 'there' everyday and when you "wipe" go from front to back never ever "wipe" it back to front because the bacterias in your rear area can infect your frontal area.
and i hope i helped =)
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Okay I’m 15 and I weigh 110 and I’m 5’6 is that to skinny? I don’t think it is but some people say that is and I wanna gain some pounds. And I want it to show I just maybe wanna get to like 120 at least. If anyone knows any good ways of gaining some pounds please let me know what they are. Also will you tell me from the information I gave you up top does that sound like I’m skinny or is it fine? Thank you so much!!
*K (link)
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well i sure wish i was you =) i am 15 and i am 5'6''and i weigh around 160
and i am overweigh...well i dont seem like that because ...well i have no idea but all people i meet thinks i am around 140... but anyways here is what you can do.
you can try eating 500 more calroies each day ... i am not saying pig out on snacks but you can try
eating little more amount of food or eat snacks but eat healty snacks and if you happen to eat junk food then just eat one serving, and not a whole lot of increase in your food amount each day so you wont stretch out your skin.
hope i helped =)
and if you neeed more help let me know because i saw that in magazine and i know that magazine is around my desk somewhere (i admit i am messy =)
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hey my sister just got over cancer and she gets all of the sttention!! she was always like the "specila child" so i wasnt surprised when my mom and dad kind of forgot about me when she got sick. one night they just left to go to the hospital cuz she had a fever but they didnt tell me they were leaving so i woke up and knowbody was in my house (except for my neighboor). they didnt think i would care if they left and they didnt want to wake me up but bull crap. i dont really care i would have liked to know. and then one night we were out to eat with my grandparents and one of my grandpa's friends were there he went to introduce my family and he left me out!! i was sitting right there next to him and he said every one else's name but he didnt even say any yhing about me!! i know my sister had it bad but i mean would it hurt someone to say "hey how are you doing today"?? my friend recently died of cancer and we were really close. her brother would stya with us when she had to go to the hospital so when she was sick i didnt want him to feel like i did and i tryed to talk to him as much as i could about his sister. when she died people came up to him and said it is kk i no how you feel but they dont no how the siblings of cancer paticents feel!! i love my family but they just dont no any thing about me!! i dont think they care any more. what should i tell them? please can you help me?? (link)
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wow it must be hard for you. i know how you feel.
you are sad for the thing that happened to your sister but you have to be treated as an equal child too.
so here is what you do. Set aside a time for a family meeting. say its really important and you must make a time for it, and if they dont listen then go talk to a trustworthy adult and tell them about your problem and ask them to help you.
and if you do have a time for meeting then you have to let them know how you feel left out and all the things that made you feel left out to support your story.
and you have to do this soon because believe it or not, they dont realize you are hurting unless you tell them and i hope this works for you and i hope i helped~
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I just got my period last night for the first time. Could you guys give me some things I might need to know like ..
Can i wear a regular pad overnight
How can I shower without gettin blood all over.
What pads work best. Those kinds of things.
I'll rate :D (link)
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Hey first of Congrats...
and you can wear regular for overnight if you just started... since periods last for about a week (but its all different for all people and it may last little longer or little shorter)
so you can wear regular on the first day or 2
and on the 3rd-5th day you should wear special
one made for overnight and last couple of days
you may go back to regular but it all depends on
amount of your period...(er blood)
and if you are using Tampon do NOT i repeat DONOT
leave a tampon for more than 2 hours...
especially do not use it when you are sleeping
you may get TSS (its a diesease that you can get from leaving tampon for long time)
and also, you might want to wear a darker color
pants and yes you can take shower with out getting blood all over...
and i love those always ultra thin pads
like they say, they are thin and works good
so i hope i helped and let me know if there are more question you want to know~
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how do u no how i feel (link)
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well i dont know if you are being objective about it but i Know how you feel because my best friend's father like that, and i know you are thinking its not even your father so what difference does it make?
but her family was real close to me and he was like a one of my family member.
and when i was over at her house, he got out of control and she had to stay at my house for couple days.
and i had to help him with hehab.and even though he is still like that, and she stays at my house when things get really bad. and whenever i go over to her house, and try to help her father, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt.
and Thats how i know
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Does anyone have any suggestions on how I should co-ordinate my dresser? It has a mirror, and three medium size drawers [in a column]. I have a lot of products and make up and stuff, yet I also have a lot of clutter and hats and jewelry I dont need. I dont really know how to organise my stuff, and I'm just wondering how everyone else does it for some inspiration. The three drawers could be used for more useful things yet they are filled with junk. I dont know what to put on the dresser, and what to put in the drawers. Also, would it be a good idea to buy a shelf of some sorts?
Thanks. (link)
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You can organize it by stacking them. or color, or by size or both.
so pick out a day to do a dresser cleaning day and bring a trash bag and a box
so one by one, throw them away if you dont need them or if they are old or etc.
and if you think you want them or if you will use them later or if they are important. etc...
so if you are done with that, then sort them by ... jewelry, make up, etc . how ever you want to sort them.
and now for the organizing part.
you can stack them or put them by color or how you want to sort them, so it will be easier to find stuff.
and you should buy a cabinet or stuff if you dont have place to put clothes.
and you can fold them so it wiil take up less space.
hope i helped ~
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What do you do when everybody around you is turning their backs n you when your going through the consequences of the actions that came with the peer pressure they were putting on you to loose your virginity? (link)
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Ok there is a thing called SELF RESPECT and that is what can help.
and i am sorry to hear that. i know what it feels like to be the odd one out.
but you cant let that get to you. i mean them seeing you suffer is their goal and you dont want them to achieve their goal do you?
ok before you do anything hear me out
and try to think in different perspective...
1. I know you heard this so many times but i will say it one more time. This is Just TEMPORARY!
and i promise it will get better.
2. People can not hurt you if you dont react to what they are doing. (meaning, ignore them)
3. There Always will be at least one person who will love you and care for you.
so please you do not want to let those whom loves you down. so please, even if you have to take time off, think over about what you want to do with your life. and if you neeed someone to talk to, please feel free to confide in me. and let me know about it so i can help you the best i can because i know what its like to feel that way.
i hope i helped you~
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awhile back i gave my boyfriend head, and i only did it once, but im deathly afraid i have an std. i dont want to tell my parents anything. he told me he didnt cum but im scared. i go to bed crying often because of it. do i have an std?
thanks. (link)
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well STD can be from the history of their family.
but what makes you think you have STD? do you have bumps? or anything? and if you really dont know how to tell your parents and dont want to tell, then you can call the hotlines about those ...
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i need help my dad i have not seen him one year and three mounths and he drinks a lot i try to let him go but i cant what should i do (link)
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i am sorry to hear that and i know what you mean. it is hard to look back at good times and see what is it of him now and try to figure out if he will ever change.
but try this.
1. have a fun living your life. go out with your friends and try extra curriculum activities you like. sports, music programs, art.
2. dont blame your self or think any ifs. you cant not change the past.
3. look at him as an example to you. no one wants to be a drunk person so Live your life trying your best and achieve all you want. for your father and most importantly FOR YOU.
4. even if he is like that, there are lots of other people who loves you and cares for you.
5. talk things with your mom or anyother relatives. i am sure they share the pain and you can talk to them about it and make it easier for you and understand better about the background.
so i hope i helped you and if you need someone to talk to , i am here for you.
Pinkfairy~
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I really like this guy. I've never had a serious crush on anyone, but with this guy I do. We talk and flirt sometimes, but I think my friend is trying to hook up with him. She even knows I like him. I want to flirt with him on instant messenger, because we barely talk so there is awkward silences. I also want to flirt with him more in person. I don't know who he likes, but I really don't want him to like my friend. What should I do? (link)
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i know what you mean, i've been through same thing. unfortunetly for me, i lost him to my best friend. but it was all my fault. i told her that it was ok for her to like him and stuff and i let her tell him how she feels first.
well you should first, find out what he likes. (i mean i 've became real good friend with that guy in one day)
so when you IM him, ask him about him self. like what kinda of music do you listen to?
and before he can answer, tell him yours...
most guys like rock.
unless they are one of those ghetto rapper wannabes and red necks...no offense if he is.
but anyways...then if he sais he likes rock, ask him if he listens to red hot chilli peppers. most guys who likes rock listen to them
and ask how is his summer and tell him about your "interesting event" even if you have to lie about it. i mean little white lie wont hurt unless they seem so fake.
and you can flirt by, calling him like, "hey baby" but jokingly...and if you think he wont take it as a joke, then quickly write just kidding.
and that only works if you guys are a friend.
and i hope i helped and if you need more help then email me or something
CIAO FOR NOW~
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i seem to have bad taste in guys.. i always end up meeting guys that doesnt work out right but im seriously unpatient and i dont know what to do.. i dont know if its i get too jealous easily or i get attached but everytime i seem to like a guy too fast i get heartbroken.. how do i fix this? (link)
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You have to think before you act. that is the solution. i know you may have heard this and i know sometimes that we cant always do that
but hear me out...
1. if you just going after a guy after guy, you will be labled as Player. most guys finds that turn off. (because they dont want to get hurt like you dont.)
2. you will never find the person who is right for you.
3. the girls will avoid you too. therefore no more friends...(i know it from experience. this one girl at our school. she had her 15 minutes of fame. if you know what i mean)
so when you are looking for long term relationship, you have to think about your interest. and match yours with other guy.
and before you go all out, talk to them. become a friend first. and dont rush things. that is also a turn off. well more like scare them off.
and you have to try to be patient. i know its hard becuase i am not the most patient person around, but if you try it, it will become easy.
so i hoped i helepd you and hope everything works out =)
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do you kno the song concrete angel? ya well that is me! i am sick of getting thrown around please help me!! i need all the help i can possibly get. am i going to die? i hope not! please this is all that i ask you just give me advice i need it so badly!!i mean i have gotting stiches 7 times cause of my mom and dad! please help! (link)
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Ok first of all you HAVE to get you to the safety. is there any adults whom you can trust or any teach or aunts or uncles or anyone whom can take you for in for couple of days?
well find that someone ,even your friend's parents. and tell them all about it or it will be very dangerous.
So please... tell someone about it and you have to get your self to safety.
and when you do find that someone whom you can trust, tell them and ask them for help the way you can get you to safety, and counseling for your parents, but if they said you just go back to your house and they will take care of it, you have to beg them not to make you go back, because if they found out, then they might get violent again, but if you are with some authority, then you may tell them. but you have to go with an adult...
so please i hope i helped and you are ok...
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Ok so im gettign a frecnh manicur3e on Wensdya and I was wondering if they could still do it even tho my nails are short, like there is barely no white on the tips, THANKS (link)
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well it would be better if they used acryllic nails...
i think thats wat they are called
and they last longer if you dont get them air sprayed...
my friend got french and got em air sprayed because she got acryllic (since her nail was so short, she bites them, they said they couldnt do it , well they could but it would come out ugly)
and she got them air sprayed and the color changes . the tips... it turned baige or yellowish tint on white tip...
so i'd strongly recommend acryllic nail and no AIR SPRAY PAINT!
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i`m 16 & my boyfriend is in jail i love him more then anything in this world .. he says hes gonna change but i dont know if i should believe him what should i do (link)
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Ok well some people DO change but most stay the same. think about how he was before.
did he ever lied to you? about anything...even tiniest thing.
did he ever make you feel uncomfortable?
and when you go see him, look him in the eye
and if it is those eyes, trust me i've really changed eye. then you should trust him but if he does it again, then strike him out.
and hope i helped
and hope it works out for both of you~
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were can i get cute clothes and they are for a good price? thanks
luv hallie (link)
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Rainbow!
rainbow is like one of the coolest place to shop.
they got most cool clothes
from prep to punk rocker types!
and they are very good price...
and Aeropostale is having a sale on T shrits now
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okay i have this friend but i like him as more then a friend ...we've never seen each other but we talk on the phone almost every day ...i want to find out if he likes me as just a friend or as more ..how should i ask?? ....o and i want to see him some where do any of you guys have any suggestions?
ill give every one 5's who trys to help!
**help** (link)
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ok there are lots of ways to express your feelings
depending on your personality.
1. Direct Talk. which means you tell him straight out in person (but it would be good when you guys are like alone, well not at school just in case)
and that works good if you are a well talking person. like if you are really confident person.
2. Let letter do the talk. which means what it says. writing a letter to him. which most girls prefer, if they are kinda shy and if you can write good.
and if you are kinda unsure, then it will save a embarrasment , which i dont think it will happen
because it sounds like he likes you too.
i mean talking on the phone everyday, even couples dont talk that long so you have really good chance.
so have a faith in you and remember
guys hates it when girls ask other girl to do the talking for them , because they might think its just a trick.
so i hope i helped and hope it works out~ =)
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Ok I have these 2 friends. I know them both really well. We are so close. Well today they played a trick on me. They made up a screenname and pretended they were this girl that I hate with a passion. They talked a bunch of shit. Well it got to the point that when the convo was over that I sent the convo to 2 of my other friends e-mail and told them to read it. Well i go to tell my friend about it and turns out it was her and my other friend..The thing that made me mad and pissed off at them is the fact that they said it was that girl and they know i hate her. They completly don't know what happened between me and her and shouldn't have done it. But my ? is .....What should I do about it? I mean it might of been funny to them but they don't know the whole story and it completly pissed me off...Should I tell them it made me mad and that I am still mad at them....But please tell me what I should do....
Signed ,,,,TrueHope10 (link)
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ok first of all, if they are your really good friend you should tell them what happen to you and that girl you hate, i mean if they dont know the whole story, then how are they suppose to know about it?
and i know its their fault for doing that but people play tricks on people because they know you will forgive them because you guys are good friends.
and if you are still mad about it, then play a trick on them too! so you are even
and say its all a joke
and hope i helped
and remember! talk to them about it...
say it how you really feels. how you were hurt and about the story...
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