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"i make mistakes, it's what i do. i speak without thinking. i act without knowing. when i drink, i drink so much that i can barely walk. i'm a fantastic lover though. & an amazing friend. God knows i mean well."
i'm kari sue rose. obviously.
i'm a graduate at pound high school & i'm 19 ;)
i'm an upcoming sophomore at uva-wise, where i want to pursue a career as a college professor.
i am a manager at little caesar's & it takes up a good percentage of my time, but i love where i work.
i tend to read a lot.
actually i read too many books at a time.
& once i start writing i don't know when to stop. i'm head-over-heels for this one specific guy that i've been with for heck & ever[jonathan mark gibson] he's my world & i love him.
i'm not a fan of profanity, especially when girls do it. it's not impressive & it's not attractive. there are better words in this world dear.
& good grammar = thumbs up :]
i'm insanely girly, slightly high maintenance. but i'm easy to please. my nails are always done, but mainly because i'm almost a licensed nail technician :)
i think laughter is the cure for everything. i'm loving life. & i'm living my senior year up ;) oh and by the way, i'm honored by your hatred.
:)
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i'm not looking for songs about love...just sex..they can be about sex or just have a good beat i don't really care but i don't like r&b very much...rock and alternative rock and punk and stuff are good...i like things with a fast pace and dirty lyrics
k thanks (link)
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i can give you thousands of r&b/rap that you could have sex to, but since you don't like that genre then i won't list them.
so here are some rock & stuff:
addicted by saving able
crazy bitch by buck cherry
get stoned by hinder
blinded by third eye blind
comatose by skillet (not really dirty but a good song)
pain by three days grace
fer sure by the medic droid (not rock, but technoish.)
those are off the top of my head, if you liked any of them, i can give you more i'm sure
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okk so i broke up with my bf sunday but i am still like holding on in a way and i know im being so stupid but i dont know what to do. dont give me crap bjust tell me what to do to stop thinking about him!! keeping busy doesnt work cause even when i do something i still think about him. but ya i dont want to hear a bunch or crap about relationships and stuff EVERYONE keeps telling me that stuff-i just want ways to GET OVER HIM. please help me! (link)
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i've never been in this situation, but i have been the one who was broken up with.
& he was ALWAYS on my mind & all i wanted was to get him out of my head. but no matter what you do, he's going to be in your mind, there are just some ways to ease the thought down a bit.
just like my friend said below this:
- friends are a wonderful way of helping. talk to them about everything, get it out of your head.
- get out of your house. go out, walk around, run, hang out with friends, go to the movies, the library, spend the night at a family member's house, anything besides staying at home by yourself. when you're at home you're more than likely to think about him more.
-meet other guys. not necessarily date them right away, but be friend a lot of guys. have fun with them. keep your mind occupied.
-write about how you feel. writing is my getaway, it always helps me.
-stay friends with him & talk to him about why things happened the way they did or why you chose to break up.
- or you could try to work things back out with eachother. if he's on your mind like crazy, there has to be a reason, you know? maybe deep down you really love him & just need a short break.
the only thing that is definate of getting someone out of your head, is time.
time heals all wounds. it may seem like forever, and some days are going to be harder than others, but you can't just break up with someone & expect you to not think about them.
give it time.
good luck :)
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so my boyfriend i wanna do it,but it is both his and mine first time.we wanna know how it will feel and also what to expect afterwards? (link)
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make sure that you both are really ready, and by ready i mean that you guys have talked everything over. how it's going to make you feel, and how he needs to be gentle. how you need to use protection & make sure you have discussed consequences such as pregnancy & stds.
talk about how sex isn't going to be your entire relationship.
once you guys have discussed everything, then the sex won't be awkward. & if it is awkward, then you guys aren't ready to be having sex.
your first time is painful, very, very painful for the girl. and more than likely if it's his first time, then he isn't going to be able to last very long & all you are mainly going to feel is pain, and lots of it.
but eventually the pain fades.
the sex should be enjoyable because that is the closest you are ever going to be to that person no matter what.
make sure he is the one person you want to do this with, before you do it.
because once you do, you can't take it back.
good luck
:)
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So, I know if you have sex with a guy and you're a virgin, he'll "pop your cherry" but what is it like? I mean is it really awkward or something? And no, i'm not having sex anytime soon lol, i'm just curious :] (link)
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your hymen isn't always broken by sex.
strenuous activity, running, swimming, horseback riding, jumping, gymnastics, strectching & so much more can be the cause of a broken hymen.
i'm not sure what it feels like to be broken during sex because mine was broken while i was running.
but i know that it bleeds a bit & that's all.
some people say you can feel pain, but that's probably because the first time you have sex, it's painful, whether your hymen is broken or not.
i hope i helped :)
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okay, is it true that is you give a guy head, then her explodes, then you swallow, that swallowing can make you sick? if you go to the doctors can they tell what you did (link)
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swallowing may make you sick to your stomach because of the thickness & depending upon the guy, their taste.
if you swallow too much at a time, there's a chance you might gag.
but doctor's can't tell what you did.
:)
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how do u give a good bj? thankx (link)
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-avoid using teeth
-keep your focus on pleasuring the head(top) of the penis(such as licking or sucking the head)
-keep your mouth tight around it
-put it all the way in your mouth(never opening your mouth) & suck as you bring your head upwards.
-play with his balls while doing this
-bring your head up & down really fast, making sure your mouth is wet & tightly closed (doing this will lead to the orgasm)
:)
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okk so i was wondering if you shave 'down there' does it hurt? i have heard it like stings or sumthing-is that true? thanks :) (link)
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it doesn't hurt to shave if the hair is longer, but it definately hurts if you try to shave stubble or something.
don't shave every day, because bumps/rashes can occur.
just shave in the direction that the hair grows & be gentle.
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i know that this is normal. i know a high percentage of women dont have orgasms threw penetration. i would be one of them. although it feels great it makes it better.. i cant do it without something on the outside. this makes me so emberassed because i know my husband wants this. wants to know his little jhonny boy can do something. its not like it doesnt its just.. how i was made. so my question is if anybody know anything i can do to possibly have one while sex?? any tips.. anything? do i just have to live with never being able to give him what he wants? anything would be great thanks. (link)
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my answer is going to be more straight forward than the one below me, but during sex all you have to do is get him to rub the outside of your clitoris.
guys like pleasuring girls that way, if that's what is going to help them get an orgasm.
i promise it'll work, especially if he rubs in your exact spot.
your clitoris is a woman's main orgasm point. just have him practice around helping to find out where it is that you are most stimulated at (around your clitoris) & have him rub... a lot.
:)
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ok so i think i'm gonna have my first kiss this week and i am soooooo scared so PLEASE help me. seriously PLEASE. i like him alot and i really don't want to mess anything up!!! PLEASE!!!! i just need some good tips so i can relax a little bit. thanks, please help me. (link)
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don't worry about your first kiss, it'll all come natural to you. i swear.
all first kisses are awkward though, regardless of how prepared you are or not.
to make things less awkward, make sure you just give a simple peck on the lips before going all full-fledge makeout.
follow his lead, don't try to take control. not yet at least. find out how he kisses first & then the second kiss you can go about it however you wish
:)
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i need love quotes. lost love. sad love. and stuff like that. thanks (link)
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The heart wants what it wants
you can't go back,
you can only remember
You've got that something,
I think you'll understand.
I wanna hold your hand.
There's a bit of me
waiting for that bit of you
Every waking moment i'm alive,
I'm searching for you
it's the pounding in the heart
whenever you are gone without any trace,
it's the breaking of the waves
that were about to really carry someplace
you do a number on me
with those eyes i swear you stole from the sky
all I need, is you tonight
you got straight a's while I was writing
fairy tales and looking out window sills asking why.
the sunshine liked my eyes and kissed my cheek
when it knew I was in love with the moon.
and of course, with you
well, I sped it up 'cause you don't like slow songs.
you're more of the literal kind.
yeah, you're more like the ocean's waves
i can give you some more later
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my boyfriend & i have been together now for about 5 months.
i am his first serious relationship since his last ex. & they dated for 20 months. they lost their virginities to eachother & everything.
just here recently, has made a year since they broke up. & she was the one who broke up with him, because he cheated on her.
my boyfriend & i made plans to go to a club one night & she was there. she kept giving me awful looks & staring at us. i've seen her before & she's never really acted that way to me.
then one day she sends me a message on myspace trying to say that i was talking bad about her to her friends & telling them that they couldn't be around her.
she & i get in a big argument & my boyfriend basically tells me to leave her alone.
my boyfriend & i go to different schools, but his ex & him go to the same school. & he told me that she came up & was talking to him really bad about me & that she apologized to him & everything. & he accepted her apology.
i'm not sure what i'm asking but i need your opinions on this situation. i've never started anything with this girl & i blocked her from my myspace & everything & i don't understand why she is always trying to talk to my boyfriend.
i mean, is she jealous? because she has a blog on her myspace that is specifically aimed at how bad she hates my boyfriend because he cheated on her, but i just don't understand. (link)
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oh lord, this sounds sooooo much like my situation it's not even funny.
she's a girl, and she's definately jealous.
but be proud of the fact that she's jealous, because you have what she wants.
if your boyfriend cares for you, then you won't have any reason to stress over her.
& he shouldn't give you any reasons to worry.
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do guys know when a girl is a newbie at sex?
ive only had sex once, which was about 2 years ago. and i made a complete idiot out of myself. he told me to get on top, so i did, and i kind of just sat there...i didnt know i had to move around. anyway, it was just embarrassing. so i think thats the reason why i havent had sex again. [ive gotten plently of offers]
i know 'practice makes perfect', but i dont want the second guy im with to know i havent done this in a long time, and that i prolly suck hardcore at it.
hellppp (link)
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sex isn't something you're born as a natural at.
it takes time & effort, and you have to have a partner who understands that & is willing to help show you what feels good & what positions are best.
you should research around on the internet for tips & tricks on how to turn a guy on.
if a guy is insanely horny before you have sex, then no matter what you do during the sex, it's going to feel amazing to him.
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How and why do guys get over breakups so easily? (link)
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it's not that guys get over breakups more easily, it's that they are just better at hiding their feelings & emotions.
i dated this boy for near 2yrs, and he broke up with me abrutly. he never gave me any reasons, or anything. he just removed me from his life completely. i was devastated. i couldn't ever figure out how someone who loved me one day could just stop caring the next.
it wasn't until over a year later, that i found out that he had just as hard of a time letting go as i did.
he recently told me that he wanted me back & that he tried to block all contact with me because it only hurt him to think about everything.
boys are very confusing beings.
but in the end, they do have feelings & they do hurt when they lose someone, they just know how to brush it off.
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ive only been fingered by 3 guys, and each time that they fingered me i didnt feel any pleasure whatsoever.
i only feel something good when i masturbate, but i dont even orgasm or moan or anything.
why cant i feel good when a guy does it to me? i just kind of sit there and think ..."this is akward, bc im just laying here feeling nothing."
i dont know how to react to that.
help! (link)
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more than likely, the boys don't know what they are doing.
your clitoris needs to be stimulated.
when a guy is fingering you, try to get them to rest their thumb on the outside (top) of your vagina, & tell them to rub their thumb around.
& even if you do that to yourself, you are more than likely going to be able to give yourself an orgasm.
a lot of guys are clueless as to what to do when they finger a girl, so they just like wiggle their finger around, because they don't know what feels good to you or what hurts.
so when a guy isn't doing something right, don't make him think he is. but whenever he hits a pleasure spot, let him know how good that feels & he's going to keep doing that instead.
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how much was everyones first car?
im going to be getting my liscense soon.
just curious on average how much i am looking to spend on a car?
also, any cute cars that are not wayy expensive.
im looking to get a used car, obviously.
something small, sporty.
& im 15/f
thanks :] (link)
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car price ranges are crazy, they can be anywhere between $5,000 to $30,000 for cute/sporty cars.
if you want to be cheap, look into Chevy Cobalts.
they are adorable & really cheap.
or Mazdas, although some of them can get expensive.
just look around, although your best bet is to look for a used car, even though you don't want one, because used cars are much mroe cheap & they aren't always bad.
search on the web for your nearest car dealerships & you should get some good ideas.
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Right so its a bit of an eww question - sorry guys.
Me and my boyfriend had sex today and I thought it would be fine, but I warned him I didn't know for sure whether I was off my period or not. So we did it - and aside from it all being very well and good I realised, after we stopped that the condom was covered in blood. I SO didn't want him to look but as he took it off it was inevitable and of course he saw. He went out of the room too so I have no idea what his reaction was. I also realised it had got a bit on the bed; not badly. He said not to worry it was fine - but as you can imagine I was MORTIFIED.
So... really, although I warned him beforehand and he said he didnt mind, I'm still utterly mortified and worried that he's ... well, utterly 'grossed out' about it. Ive been with him 1 year and 2 months and for someone who only turned 16 last year hes quite mature about these matters.
I'm still worried.
Guys, what would you think?
Or anyone, has this ever happened to you? Did it change anything? What would you think if you were him?
Thanks Advicenators :) (link)
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my boyfriend & i had sex one night while i was on my period, fully.
i warned him before hand & yet he said it would be okay.
we had sex & it was good, but just like you, there was blood all over the condom & i was completely embarrassed.
although he did admit to being grossed out, he also said it was no big deal & that it was something he wanted to do.
but still to this day, he jokes around with me about how gross & stuff it was, and i get sooo embarrassed, but it happened & i can't change it.
if you & your boyfriend have been together that long, then he should be comfortable around you enough to understand that you have a period & if you have sex while you have your period, there's going to be blood.
& i'm sure he was a bit grossed out, but i don't think it will change his feelings about you or anything, and if it does then he is way more immature than you made him sound.
but he probably left the room, because he wanted to clean up, and plus the smell is sometimes just as gross as the blood itself.
just try not to worry so much about it.
i'm sure it will all pass, and everything will be fine.
& at least next time you guys choose to have sex while you're on your period, you both will be well prepared
:)
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15/F/PA and he is 18/M/PA
My boyfriend of 5 months dumped me and he said he didnt know why and that he still loved me but he dosnt want to be with me. now he wont talk to me and I dont know what to do. He let me keep my stuffie he gave me but i dont under stand why he would dump me but want me to keep the stuff and why he still loved me (link)
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a lot of guys don't want to give reasons for a breakup because they don't want to hurt their girlfriend. but they always have reasons, whether they tell you they do or not, there are reasons as to whye he broke up with you.
your ex probably does still love you, but maybe just not as much as he used to, or maybe not in the same way that he used to.
he probably doesn't want to bother with giving & getting everything back from eachother, so he just told you to keep everything.
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so ive only given a hj once and when i did it the guys skin like moved with my hand
is this supposed to happen? (link)
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yes, that is always going to happen.
that's what helps pleasure him :)
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When my boyfriend and I first started dating he always made time for me. He'd move his plans around, always make the most of our time, focus on me. When he answered his phone he'd always tell his friends that he was with me.
Now 6 months later--it's not like that anymore... He plays video games when we're together, when he answers his phone he says he isn't doing anything when asked and he doesn't want to move any plans around. I'm not saying I want him to bail on his friends for me but things like working out. He works out at completely random times and when we first stated dating, he'd push it back or move it forward so he could see me. Now if he decides he want to work out and I call him, he wont do that. And whats with the phone thing?
I guess I just miss the attention I used to get from him--now it feels like he ignores me sometimes. I still move things around to see him and I try to make the most of our time but it's a little hard when he's playing video games. I'm just not sure what's going on. He's 19 if that help. (link)
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in my opinion, he could either be getting used to you, or getting tired of you.
if a boy gets used to a girl, then he really feels comfortable & content & doesn't feel like he has to see them all the time, or talk to them all the time, because he knows that they are there & that they will be there when he needs her. if that makes any sense at all.
but you guys have been together for awhile & real emotions are starting to show. guys are always different in the beginnings of relationships because they want to make everything work out. but then later now, things start changing & real faces start showing & this may just be the real him.
you need to talk to him about how you feel, and let him know that you want more time with him & you aren't feeling appreciated. let him know that you aren't trying to be suffocating or anything, you just miss what you used to have.
spice things up, go out to the movies or make cookies together & rent dvds. do anything to bring back all the old romance.
but if he doesn't put forth any effort, then i'm sorry dear, it might be time for you to find another boy.
good luck
:)
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i'm tryin to get over my first and im doing a very good job but he can do the the darnest things like give me this humgous hug or like yesterday tell me he has to talk to me about something but then in school today he didint say anything about what he wanted to tell me face to face
help me on trying to keep him off my mind some ideas maybe (link)
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getting over your first, is one of the toughest situations you will ever find yourself in.
no matter how hard you try, that person is always going to be in the back of your mind.
your best bet, is to cut off all contact with them first. don't hug him, talk to him, smile at him or anything. at least not until you know you are completely over him.
then, you need to meet other guys. start making new guy friends, and dating around.
meeting other boys will help keep your mind off him & going out with other people will also keep his face out of your head.
hope i helped
:)
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