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What's going on?
When my boyfriend and I first started dating he always made time for me. He'd move his plans around, always make the most of our time, focus on me. When he answered his phone he'd always tell his friends that he was with me.
Now 6 months later--it's not like that anymore... He plays video games when we're together, when he answers his phone he says he isn't doing anything when asked and he doesn't want to move any plans around. I'm not saying I want him to bail on his friends for me but things like working out. He works out at completely random times and when we first stated dating, he'd push it back or move it forward so he could see me. Now if he decides he want to work out and I call him, he wont do that. And whats with the phone thing?
I guess I just miss the attention I used to get from him--now it feels like he ignores me sometimes. I still move things around to see him and I try to make the most of our time but it's a little hard when he's playing video games. I'm just not sure what's going on. He's 19 if that help.
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in my opinion, he could either be getting used to you, or getting tired of you.
if a boy gets used to a girl, then he really feels comfortable & content & doesn't feel like he has to see them all the time, or talk to them all the time, because he knows that they are there & that they will be there when he needs her. if that makes any sense at all.
but you guys have been together for awhile & real emotions are starting to show. guys are always different in the beginnings of relationships because they want to make everything work out. but then later now, things start changing & real faces start showing & this may just be the real him.
you need to talk to him about how you feel, and let him know that you want more time with him & you aren't feeling appreciated. let him know that you aren't trying to be suffocating or anything, you just miss what you used to have.
spice things up, go out to the movies or make cookies together & rent dvds. do anything to bring back all the old romance.
but if he doesn't put forth any effort, then i'm sorry dear, it might be time for you to find another boy.
good luck
:)
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i really really really REALLY hate telling you this...especially when you dont know me...but i think he's losing interest in you.
and there is no way you can talk to him about it without it sounding selfish or picky or naggy or obsessed.
when my last bf started doing that i called him on it and he said he wanted to break up.
i really hope thats not the case here. maybe he was just treating you with special attention because yall were going out for the first time. maybe this is how he acts when he gets into deeper relationships.
but i hope it works out for you. take care. :)
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