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iv never been able to....
i know that this is normal. i know a high percentage of women dont have orgasms threw penetration. i would be one of them. although it feels great it makes it better.. i cant do it without something on the outside. this makes me so emberassed because i know my husband wants this. wants to know his little jhonny boy can do something. its not like it doesnt its just.. how i was made. so my question is if anybody know anything i can do to possibly have one while sex?? any tips.. anything? do i just have to live with never being able to give him what he wants? anything would be great thanks.
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my answer is going to be more straight forward than the one below me, but during sex all you have to do is get him to rub the outside of your clitoris.
guys like pleasuring girls that way, if that's what is going to help them get an orgasm.
i promise it'll work, especially if he rubs in your exact spot.
your clitoris is a woman's main orgasm point. just have him practice around helping to find out where it is that you are most stimulated at (around your clitoris) & have him rub... a lot.
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The statistics says that only 32% of females orgasm from penetration and intercourse alone. 47% of women first and only climaxed by masturbation. You're not alone. It's normal.
Stop stressing. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable and not mechanical. It's no wonder you're resenting your partner and the pressure he's putting on you. You need to tell him that there isn't a damn thing wrong with his penis and that you enjoy penetration.
Let him know that throughout life you have only been able to orgasm through clitoral stimuli. Ask Alice has a variety or articles giving advice here: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Try visiting your local bookstore and checking out their section on sexuality with your husband. There are bound to be plenty of books there on things you can try to achieve this. Also, the Internet has a lot of answers pertaining to this subject. If you try a search you'll likely find what you are needing. We just can't give out tips on anything related to sexuality here.
Tell your partner the truth and that it's bothering you and work out the issues there. One of the keys to orgasm is being relaxed and deeply involved in sex. It just happens from that. Being tense and obsessed with "I've got to have one to please him" is not going to help you. It does the reverse.
There's nothing wrong with your vulva, vagina or reproductive system here either. There's not a damn thing to be embarrassed or upset over because 32% of all women are like you. Tell him to focus on foreplay etc. as that's what pleases you the most.
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