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first kiss
ok so i think i'm gonna have my first kiss this week and i am soooooo scared so PLEASE help me. seriously PLEASE. i like him alot and i really don't want to mess anything up!!! PLEASE!!!! i just need some good tips so i can relax a little bit. thanks, please help me.
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alright. I know this situation most likely already happened (since I'm a little late on the advice-giving, haha) and I hope it went over well.
But for future reference ---
chiiiiiiiiilll.
=P =D
I had my first kiss a few weeks ago, actually....and I had almost forgotten my crazy desire to kiss someone, and then BAM! ok, so it was a LITTLE more subtle than 'bam'...but, either way, it was really nice and worked out just perfectly. short and sweet, i suppose, and of course it was slightly awkward - what first kiss isn't? - but, i can easily say it was a night i won't soon forget =).
in other words, just don't worry about it. ahh this is soo cliche...but, it's really true. I wasn't expecting it, and that's what made it all the more beautiful. otherwise i would have probably had a panic attack or something =P
good luck
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The best advice I can give is kissing and going out with people is meant to be fun, thats the only reason we do it. So don't worry about it, it's not going to affect anything really in your future unless you plan on marrying this person.
Just enjoy it.
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Honestly? Just relax.
The more you worry, the more you'll think about messing it up. The more you think about messing it up, the more likely you are to, in fact, mess something up.
You'll be fine.
-Laura. (15-f)
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don't worry about your first kiss, it'll all come natural to you. i swear.
all first kisses are awkward though, regardless of how prepared you are or not.
to make things less awkward, make sure you just give a simple peck on the lips before going all full-fledge makeout.
follow his lead, don't try to take control. not yet at least. find out how he kisses first & then the second kiss you can go about it however you wish
:)
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Well im glad that you have insight on this, because my first kiss was totally unexpected, and we went into full makeout session. Just know that the person is probably just as scared as you are. And that its just a first kiss and they are always akward. Its just science. Haha. Just make sure you dont miss his mouth, you can close your eyes, but make sure that its like a .5 milisecond away from his lips before you do. Or you could leave them open, though some find that weird.
All you really have to know, is that its your first time and you dont know what you are doing, but there will be other times. Some people practice kissing by kissing their hands. You could try that.
-hayley
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If it's just a peck, relax you will be fine, I promise. No one can be a bad kisser from pecks. Just relax and let him go in for it, just don't miss his lips, by not closing your eyes till you are like a centimeter away from your target, and you'll be fine.
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