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Untimely sex...
Right so its a bit of an eww question - sorry guys.
Me and my boyfriend had sex today and I thought it would be fine, but I warned him I didn't know for sure whether I was off my period or not. So we did it - and aside from it all being very well and good I realised, after we stopped that the condom was covered in blood. I SO didn't want him to look but as he took it off it was inevitable and of course he saw. He went out of the room too so I have no idea what his reaction was. I also realised it had got a bit on the bed; not badly. He said not to worry it was fine - but as you can imagine I was MORTIFIED.
So... really, although I warned him beforehand and he said he didnt mind, I'm still utterly mortified and worried that he's ... well, utterly 'grossed out' about it. Ive been with him 1 year and 2 months and for someone who only turned 16 last year hes quite mature about these matters.
I'm still worried.
Guys, what would you think?
Or anyone, has this ever happened to you? Did it change anything? What would you think if you were him?
Thanks Advicenators :)
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my boyfriend & i had sex one night while i was on my period, fully.
i warned him before hand & yet he said it would be okay.
we had sex & it was good, but just like you, there was blood all over the condom & i was completely embarrassed.
although he did admit to being grossed out, he also said it was no big deal & that it was something he wanted to do.
but still to this day, he jokes around with me about how gross & stuff it was, and i get sooo embarrassed, but it happened & i can't change it.
if you & your boyfriend have been together that long, then he should be comfortable around you enough to understand that you have a period & if you have sex while you have your period, there's going to be blood.
& i'm sure he was a bit grossed out, but i don't think it will change his feelings about you or anything, and if it does then he is way more immature than you made him sound.
but he probably left the room, because he wanted to clean up, and plus the smell is sometimes just as gross as the blood itself.
just try not to worry so much about it.
i'm sure it will all pass, and everything will be fine.
& at least next time you guys choose to have sex while you're on your period, you both will be well prepared
:)
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ive had something close to this happen to me. i wont tell you m experience because it isnt neccesary haha but it didnt change ne thing at all between us. just made us closer because now i knew i could do anything infront of him and it wouldnt be as bad as that haha you guys have been together a long time so it shouldnt change ne thing. if you want to know my experience because of watever reason message me on my myspace [[myspace.com/keepgettingdeleted]]
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In all of my sexual partners, and I've had a few, I only met one guy for whom menstrual blood was a serious turn-off.
Every other guy I have spoken too, has either wanted to avoid it, but not been irrationally afraid of it or absolutely couldn't care less about it.
It has certainly happened to me and I can't recall it ever 'changing' a thing. I'm a female. Females bleed once a month. Guys aren't idiots. They can put two and two togeather.
It's really not worth being this worried about. It was SEX. He was probably enjoying himself immensely. If he didn't like a bit of blood on the condom... well next time he can just forgo the immense enjoyment now can't he?
He told you it was no big deal, and he is right. Maybe it did weird him out a bit, but obviously he is mature enough to realize that the 'weirded out' response is not a rational or fair one. You should try to be just as mature.
Go ahead and avoid it if you don’t like it, but don’t make yourself miserable over it. Boys aren’t idiots. They know that we fart and burp just like they do. They know we bleed. Relax. It's totally natural and entirely harmless.
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