i'm tryin to get over my first and im doing a very good job but he can do the the darnest things like give me this humgous hug or like yesterday tell me he has to talk to me about something but then in school today he didint say anything about what he wanted to tell me face to face
help me on trying to keep him off my mind some ideas maybe
no matter how hard you try, that person is always going to be in the back of your mind.
your best bet, is to cut off all contact with them first. don't hug him, talk to him, smile at him or anything. at least not until you know you are completely over him.
then, you need to meet other guys. start making new guy friends, and dating around.
meeting other boys will help keep your mind off him & going out with other people will also keep his face out of your head.
sin_c_chic answered Tuesday April 8 2008, 11:39 pm: And I introduce to you the no contact calender =). I know it isn't easy, but you have to try and cut contact with this guy. What he is doing is keeping you close. As long as he keeps you thinking about him, he can move on while you find it hard. You can be friends with him eventually, but you need to wait until that "want" for him is gone! I know it's easier said than done, but other than a passing hello I think you should hang with a circle of friends that does not include him. I wish you the best of luck dear!
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