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guys and breakups
How and why do guys get over breakups so easily?
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It takes guys a while if they were deeply involved but most of them just move on an try to find a new girl that they like
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it's not that guys get over breakups more easily, it's that they are just better at hiding their feelings & emotions.
i dated this boy for near 2yrs, and he broke up with me abrutly. he never gave me any reasons, or anything. he just removed me from his life completely. i was devastated. i couldn't ever figure out how someone who loved me one day could just stop caring the next.
it wasn't until over a year later, that i found out that he had just as hard of a time letting go as i did.
he recently told me that he wanted me back & that he tried to block all contact with me because it only hurt him to think about everything.
boys are very confusing beings.
but in the end, they do have feelings & they do hurt when they lose someone, they just know how to brush it off.
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Why does it always seem like girls mourn relationships for weeks while guys pick themselves up,brush themselves off and move on ?
Well in fact when it comes to breaking up,guys get as bent out of shape as girls. Guys have the same feelings and emotions as girls, they just don't talk about it or openly show their emotions like girls do. Most guys hide their feelings better and some guys are not as emotionally attached and some are to proud to show the hurt.
Guys and Girls handle things completely different. For some people its very easy but for others it may not be easy. Most guys try to play it off cool so they don't show any weakness and some of them may have other girlfriends to fall back on. Guys just don't wear their hearts out on there sleeves.
Hope I was helpful,
Val
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man i wish i would get over the girl i was with easily. BUT, didnt work out that way. so it just depends on the dude. we're all different
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hey
that's a misconception... you'd think that they do but they take just as long as girls do. they're just not as open about it. they like to keep it to themselves. and also, their friends help them find new girls to move on. they do get hurt though -- sometimes more than girls
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