Q: In xoxo which ones are the kisses and which are the hugs?

Q: So last night I smoked with my big brother for the first time. I started imagining the weirdest stuff. Like the stories he was telling me ... I can't remember if I was just making them sound super far fetched in my head, or if he was actually saying that stuff. Like ... he said my mom buys weed from him and stuff. I dunno.

Okay, and also... When I looked in a mirror I would laugh uncontrollably When the fan was on my whole body would feel like it was twitching when it really wasn't. Light made me feel like my voice was going in & out. Kind of like if I were to be talking into a fan.

Could weed do that to me? Cause I thought I was gonna have a heart attack last night. Haha.

Any ideas to what happened? & I woke up @ 8 this morning & was still high! I'm not high anymore though cause I went back to sleep.

Q: Like 99% of the time I have to initiate the conversation.. and usually they don't reply back. Am I a friendless loser? :( I even made a group on FB about me getting a new phone and put my number and asked other people to post theirs. some people I thought were friends who posted their numbers, when I texted them they replied "whos this?" so they didnt even bother to add me. WHY CANT I MAKE FRIENDSSSS. even people who i relatively consider close we hardly talk. why do i have such issues making friends. im not even a bad person or anything i just feel like im so different from others, but we dont have to be identical to be friends so i dont get it! people never even invite me for events. im 16 and ive never been to a sweet 16. in my life ive hardly been to any birthday parties. why are things so hard for me? im not even a loser or anything, im a pretty cool person that nobody seems to know very well and i dont know what im doing wrong :( :( :( i dont wanna get all depressed and everything about it but sometimes i just feel alone.. and id like close friends i can talk about anything with. a lot of my deep questions I ask on Y!A cause i dont have anyone IRL to talk to about it and they are always intertwined with this problem. FML helppp.

Like 99% of the time I have to initiate the conversation.. and usually they don't reply back. Am I a friendless loser? :( I even made a group on FB about me getting a new phone and put my number and asked other people to post theirs. some people I thought were friends who posted their numbers, when I texted them they replied "whos this?" so they didnt even bother to add me. WHY CANT I MAKE FRIENDSSSS. even people who i relatively consider close we hardly talk. why do i have such issues making friends. im not even a bad person or anything i just feel like im so different from others, but we dont have to be identical to be friends so i dont get it! people never even invite me for events. im 16 and ive never been to a sweet 16. in my life ive hardly been to any birthday parties. why are things so hard for me? im not even a loser or anything, im a pretty cool person that nobody seems to know very well and i dont know what im doing wrong :( :( :( i dont wanna get all depressed and everything about it but sometimes i just feel alone.. and id like close friends i can talk about anything with. a lot of my deep questions I ask on Y!A cause i dont have anyone IRL to talk to about it and they are always intertwined with this problem. FML helppp.

I never even just go to someones house to hang out.. I've only done that with 2 friends in my life and that was around middle school. This year I have been to nobody's house. Im just so socially inept that I dont even know how to plan events or invite people for things cause then I'd be worried about little things and everything cause it would be a big deal to me. just hanging out! not even planning parties.. the last time i had a party was my 10th birthday party and "friends" have only been to my house briefly like on halloween to pick me up. i wasnt even part of a group for halloween most years.. i had to ask if i could join theirs and sometimes i still felt like an outsider. why am i so pathetic like this.. and then other people get to hang out with their friends all the time and go to sleepovers and etc.i feel so jealous of it. i feel like ive lost an important part of development..

I dont get how I miss out when I think Im a pretty cool person I guess. I wish I could have friends like myself.. and I am a good friend. But I feel like other people dont really care when I have issues so I tend to keep them to myself IRL.. but Im totally open to helping them out with their issues. Like im a fun person but kinda shy I guess cause im like socially inept and feel awkward often since im not used to certain situations. maybe i spent too much time on the internet growing up? i even moved to a new town and now its summer vacation and i dont feel like people are gonna be inviting me to things even though they were nice to me before.. like theres nothing wrong with me.. despite what it would seem given my situation. im not ugly or anything either. like there was this 1 girl who has this big bday party and she was nice to me and she didnt even invite me! that really hurt.. cause then she goes and talked about it often in school.. and like it seems like everyone else is invited. it wouldnt have been a big deal to me if she hadnt been talking to me earlier and everything, giving the impression that she was trying to become my friend. i just dont want to spend this summer not being with friends or anything.. for the 100th time. cause most summers i visit friends like 2-3 times in total. sometimes even 0. why do i always have to be the one that initiates it? i dont even know how to do that or if i even should when they dont invite me either. :( :( :( im just in a crappy mood today i guess and looking back at how even more pathetic 10th grade was for me. this has been my most pathetic year, friends wise. even though most times its like that.. i dont act this moody IRL, im usually happy and everything.. keeping sad things like this to myself.. and then when i reflect later on how my life is going it just makes me want to cry cause most people seem to have a few friends. i dont even need many you know. even 1 best friend would be amazing. sometimes i wonder if it could be because im black? i know its bad to do the race card but a lot of my "friends" are white so maybe they dont want to hang out with a black person out of school or what? but its not like the black people ever hang out with me either. all i have is my family.. but even my family is different from me. im into indie rock and it shouldnt matter what my skin tone is. but its rare for me to meet people who like that type of music and etc

sorry for this rambling. gosh..... i always spill my personal problems on to advicenators. you guys are the only best friends i ever seem to have, who really care about helping me with problems :(

Q: I have two parakeets. The male used to like me and they used to hop on my hand to eat. Now they flip out if I get near them..I have had them for a couple months now...but they refuse to bond with me. THey only bond with each other. I want to seperate them so I can bond with them and train them....but I will feel bad if they aren't together....should I seperate them?

Q: I really love stickam but I want to find more people to chat with. So can anybody tell me about more sites like stickam?

They don't have to be exactly like it, just a fun web cam chat site that you like or have heard of, okay? Thank you!

Q: are there any other sayings like bro's before hoes? Like is there a saying like that for girls? And while I am asking this does anybody know where that came from?

Q: so i love these kind of hats:
http://fashionmanifesto.files.wordpress.com/2009/11/lumberjack-hat.jpg

my brother used to wear them all the time. i have one ,but does anyone know what they're called? a lumberjack hat or something? please&thankyou

Q: i'm going to be going to philadelphia in a few days and i'm wondering where the best places to shop are

i absolutely love canal street/china town in NYC

so basically what streets are filled with the venders and the knock offs, generic sunglasses and hats/cheaper stuff?

anything helps (:

Q: What's a good, free program to convert FLAC files to mp3s that won't screw up my computer or give me viruses?

Q: I live near the site of woodstock and I'm thinking about getting something related to it because I think the town where I grew up all my life has some pretty sweet history. But I don't want just peace signs or something stupid.

I need ideas! or pictures or something.

Q: what is the best tanning lotion that you've tried? i'm pretty pale so i'll need one that works well and quickly. thanks!

Q: I started clipping coupons from the sunday papers and find myself really enjoying the savings. My problem is now that I've started to look online for them I'm finding a lot of fake coupons. I took one that I printed off of the computer last week to the grocery store and the cashier said it wasn't a real coupon because of a fake address on it and that the store itself couldn't even redeem it for what it claims to be worth. It made sense to me and, since then, I've found a lot of people saying how many online coupons are fakes.

I don't want to take fake copies of coupons into the stores and go through that embarrassment again. Anybody know some REAL internet coupon sites I can get coupons from for the grocery store?

Q: Hey everybody quick question. Is it normal to love 3 different types of music equally? and to dress in three different categories?. For an example i listen to really heavy metal, club music like house euro jumpstyle etc... and i also listen to rap. and i dress like all those at different times during the week etc... depending on where im going. i love all 3 types of music but is this normal?

Q: So, I see a lot of girls who have lip gloss on, but their lips are very light pink. I have lip primer from MAC, but when I use it and put on light pink lip gloss, the color of my lips stays the same. It's just shinier, which I don't want. It seems like lip gloss never changers the color of my lips. I want my lips to be a very light pink, not the dark pink that they are!

Q: I am going out with this guy that is really sweet but I don't know much about him. He asked me for my number last weekend and we've gone out TWICE now and I don't really know a lot about the guy. My mom said we should not go to movies yet but, rather, out to eat so that we can talk more. I thought that sounded fine but I have no idea what I should ask him without sounding stupid!

What are good questions to ask my boyfriend and how do I ask them? Should I just say, "I have some things to ask you..." and go through them one by one? I don't want to look like idiot but I want to get to know him better! :)
THANKSSS

Q: anyone know where i can find jeans with hearts on the pockets? i saw someone where them & i thought they were cute.

thanks

Q: Hey, I'm looking for high heels. They can be high haha. I want speciffic heels, black shoe with a red back, so people walking behind you can see the red. If you saw the movie Valentines Day, Jessica Alba's shoes when she checks into the hotel. At 0:38 in the trailer:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jSS-QPdiiiY


Also, in the movie "when in rome" Beth, the main girl, is wearing them too. at 1:39 in this trailer you can see them

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4G0J6GC4Pbo

a picture of something like them:
http://cdn1.ioffer.com/img/item/105/388/201/o_IdUAbnBlCtYQFXD.jpg


where can i get these? websites, stores brand names, and prices appreciated!

Q: I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and we're kind of in a rut when it comes to hanging out and running out of things to do. What are some (not super expensive) date ideas?

We've done the usual hanging at houses, renting/going to movies, eating out, mall, etc to death.

Q: Alright so.. I'm just gonna start right from the beginning :P
In general, I'm normally attracted to men bigger and taller than myself. And as a rule (not always the case but in my experience, pretty much :P) taller men have larger penises. Soo just by default, I have always been with men who are reasonably well-endowed.
But this Halloween I ended up getting thoroughly intoxicated & hooking up with a guy that was totally not my type. Short, cute but in a very boybandish kind of way (lol), smaller penis than what I was used to.
& the sex was the best I've ever had!
We hooked up a few more time and he was consistently great, so it wasn't a matter of just being too high&drunk the first time to judge accurately.
Eventually we stopped seeing eachother and I was left wondering, was it coincidence that the sex was so great? Soo I chose a new target, hahah :P
Also shorter than me, asian (half chinese), super handsome, and predictably - not a very large penis.
And the sex was BETTER STILL with this guy! I'm like completely addicted to him, his body is absolutely perfect
I've found that guys with small ones try harder because they're insecure, which makes them more thoughtful lovers
they also have to hit it harder to get the same amount of sensation as a guy with a larger one might naturally get, and the fact that they go at it so hard is definately not something I'm complaining about :)
furthermore, the oral sex is much better - they're more proficient, and also it's more fun to preform in return because there's no gagging on my end!
On top of that, I really just find a smaller one more aethestically pleasing to look at. There is something so ugly to me about a large, swinging, veiny piece of meat, which is essentially what a large penis is :P It never really occured to me that a small one would look any better until I actually saw one.
And furthermore, with well endowed guys there was always pain upon them entering me, and I just always chalked it up as part of life. But now I'm discovering that you don't have to exchange pain for pleasure and it's amazingly liberating.
So my question is simply - is there anyone else out there who feels this way? Seriously? Because I even tried googling things like "I prefer a small penis" and there just seems to be absolutely NO ONE sharing my sentiments! :P I'm not concerned if it's normal, because frankly I couldn't care less, as long as we're both enjoying ourselves normality isn't a huge worry for me. But seriously though, just for curiousities sake, are there ANY women who sincerely prefer small penises? Because it quickly developed from an acquired taste, to an obsessionn, to a full-blown fetish in my case. Just would like to know if there's anyone in this wide world who shares my tastes :P thanks in advance for your answers!

Q: is the colour for jealousy green or yellow?
i always thought it was green but today my art teacher said green means happyness and yellow means jealousy. i was always sure its the other way around?!

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