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you know my question about thin legs? How long did it take until the excercises start making progress? how long until it was actually thin? Any other excercies? How much and how long of each did you do? (link)
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Yeah, I would say it took about 2 to 3 months of exercise to get the look that I wanted and I also did sit up and stretches. Also Tae-Bo helped a lot. Hope it all works out for you. If you have anymore question, go ahead and ask.
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I don't know what to do with my life. I'm not great at anything. Like..every person has something.. like great writing skills or a band... but I have nothing.
What am I supposed to do? (link)
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Your skills just may not have come to you yet. They don't just pop out at you, you need to try things out and one of them will eventually stick and you'll realized it's what you love doing. Relax and think about something else. Maybe an idea will come to you and when you try it, you may love it. Don't worry. =]
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how can i be emore opened with my bf he tells me so much but its hard for me to tell him things i trust him and he trusts me its just i keep things to myself and its hard to tlak things out what will make mebe more opened with him ? (link)
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Well, you should tell him, that you want to tell him things, but it's hard for you. You like him a whole lot and even so, you just have a problem sharing your thoughts. It's not a bad thing to want to keep things to yourself. Everyone does it. He just happens to be one of the guys who like to be open and honest. Maybe he was in a relationship where he was exactly open and she may have left him because of it. SO now he's trying to make up for it. Don't sweat about it. Just tell him what i said and if he's the guy I think he is, he'll be totally fine with it. Good luck! =]
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ok heres the thing i went to the movies 2 with this kid john ill call him and well he asked me to go to the movies but he never paid or anything and he is mad shy but the thing is he is annoying and stupid but i like him in a way and he is forever talking about his ex how he hates her and shit i guess what im trying to say is hes not so shy when he texts me but in person hes is and i dont know if i like him im thinking of only being friends with him because i dont know if theres anything else there but i was wondering should i get ride of him or should i try to work out my committment problems with him but i really dont think were compatible and maybe im to much for him to handle but i dont know how to break it to him if i do hes the kind of person who will talk a lot of shit and who is not so forgiving please help if you can im sorry if its confusing its confusing me (link)
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It kind of sounds like he's not exactly over his ex if she's the only one he's talking about. Plus, are you even positive that he even like you in that way? He may be trying to tell you that he's not ready for a commitment with anyone right now. You may want to take it slow and see if there is anyone else you there for you. You'll end up benefitting from this experience. Just let him take the lead for a while and see how it goes. He just may not be right for you. Good luck. =]
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I'm really skinney but I have like so much fat in my legs so I'm like a pladapus but noone knows because I wear jeans so..it hides it. I want to thin my legs so I can wear a skirt. Thanks! (link)
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Try bike riding like the kind in a gym and other things that will strain your legs. I used to be like that and I just worked really hard on my legs. Good luck and remember to eat healthy food. =]
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what is some fun stuff that I can do to my boyfriend to make him feel good (link)
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Well, I'm assuming you mean sexual so you could try doing an oral on him. That always works. But that doesn't mean you'll like the taste. Then you could let him take the lead, let him do anything to you, even if it may be a little uncomfortable. Well, hope they are helpful and work out. I'm not too great in this subject, then again I'm sorry if that wasn't what you meant. =]
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19/F
Ok this seems long and soap-opera-ish but please bear with me. I’ve gotten rid of some of the details to make it shorter but please tell me if it isn’t clear enough. And please don't rant at me about being a cheating b**** or anything. I know I am a bad bad person. I just need you to tell me what to do.
Nate has always been the typical "rich bad boy" type. He gets a pack mentality when he is with his boys so he’s labeled an official ***hole. He's had a pretty bad past and when you get him alone, he’s different. He and I go a few years back when I wasn't into the party scene, and it got around that he "wanted" me. I shot that down and he gave up. I've been intrigued by him (i.e. had a crush on him) and we always used to exchange looks all the time at school and parties and I could feel the sizzles (but wasn’t sure it was mutual). Only last year did we start talking a bit inside and outside school. Then I finished school and didn’t see him.
In May, I met Blake. He’s ridiculously good-looking, the sweetest guy ever, and a cook. I didn’t think he was into me so I backed off then recently, Blake started showing interest in me and I was thrilled. We were perfect for each other, our life goals and views were the same, we had minor arguments sometimes, which ended with practically no resentment on either end, and we always made up quickly. It was the perfect relationship. I was still a virgin but he understood because he had only been with one chick (his year-long girlfriend in grade 11).
End of last year, Nate and I ended up at a party together. I was hammered out of my mind and we had sex in a bedroom. It was harsh to the point that he did it, shoved me away and left. I was broken after. Eventually, I told Blake and he was mostly sad for me and he did whatever he could to make me feel better. Including sex and it was just like the rest of our relationship, comfortable.
Then one day, Nate showed up at my house after I saw him at the mall and went home all shaken up. We had sex. We have had sex about five times now altogether. Usually it’s when I’m vunerable. It’s pretty much casual sex but it is explosive as in really really hot, stuff I thought didn’t exist outside novels. Blake and I haven’t even come close, even though there is some sizzle, it isn’t comparable. Told Blake once and he was mad but he came back and told me he’d still have me and he didn’t understand. Usually Nate just has sex with me and sticks around for a while and leaves but one time, he actually stayed after and kissed my face and stuff.
This is what confuses me. Blake and I are perfect for each other and it’s not a completely devoid of sexual drive either but when I’m with Nate, it feels right like it’s exactly where I belong.
I’m just so afraid of hurting Blake. I want to stay with him but at the same time, I feel like puking when I think about what a disgusting unfaithful slut I’m being. And I’m pretty sure Nate doesn’t want a relationship. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want to look back twenty years from now and regret it. I know that bad boy’s can’t be tamed but I know his history and I kind of still ache for Nate but Blake is just perfect.
Help? (link)
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Not to be offensive or anything, but if you and Blake are perfect for each other, then why do you feel the need to be with Nate when you're vulnerable? You should be able to go to your boyfriend and you should be able to find comfort in his reassurance. If you can't find that with him, then maybe you two really aren't meant to be together. Tell how you feel, and since you make him sound like a very understanding person, I think i=he will take it all right. I mean, he may not even be surprised, considering you've been telling him you've been having sex with another guy. He may accept it like a understanding person, which you are very lucky to have, but if you have feelings for Nate, then it's just plain wrong dragging Blake's heart along with you. I think you should break it off with Blake, and it could possibly be a good idea to cut Nate out of your life completely. You could still be friends with Blake or you could stay with Blake and cut Nate out of your life. It's just not fair to Blake. Well, I send you good wishes and hope everything works out in your favor. =]
Holly
XOXO
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I had sex a few days ago, and now I think I might have a urinary tract infection or something of that sort. Do the two go together or could this be something else? It burns a little when I pee, but nothing else seems to be wrong and I'm just worried. (link)
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Depends if it was your first time. If it was, you may just have torn the tissue and it's still trying to heal. If not, you may want to get it checked out at the library. Good luck!
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ive been with this guy for about a month and a half and its been really great and everything. valentines day is coming up and i never had a boyfriend around this time so do i have to get him something and is so what are some good ideas??
thanks so much (link)
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You could get him something small like chocolates, flowers, or a stuff animal. Don't get to sentimental yet, so it won't scare him away. Hope I helped.
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In my opinion, I don't think I have a bad personality. I'm not stuck up, I don't cause any drama, I'm honest, I can keep secrets, and I'm nice unless someone gives me a reason not to be. I mean, I can be "mean" sometimes with guys except I'm kidding and they know it. I'm not shy, but I'm not incredibly outgoing -- I'm just normal there. Plus, all of my friends say I'm hilarious. Most of my friends, who are girls tell, me I'm pretty and I've had some of my guy friends tell me I'm "hot". I'm not stupid, but I'm not a genius. Since pretty much everyone but me cares about this at my school...people say I'm popular (I hate that word and I don't care about "popularity" just to make that clear). The thing is, I've never had a boyfriend -- NOT ONCE. I don't get it. Every single one of my friends has at least had ONE boyfriend sometime in their life, but me. No, I don't only want one cause "everyone" has one. In your opinion, does it sound like I'm doing something wrong? Why can't I get a boyfriend? (link)
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Don't take this personally. I bet you snything that you have definitely come up in many conversations from guys, but even if they have a crush on you, they may think they don't have a chance in hell with you becuase you're "popular" and think more popular guys than them like you and have a better chance. Maybe you should make the first move on who you like to get the point out there that you are available. Good luck!
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Why is love so hard to understand when you think he's right at the begining you find out you were wrong at the end... but if you can get him of you mind and you try so hard to does that mean it's love and what should i do if we are not together anymore should i tel him how i fell that i still really do care, But how could i say that with out making it so ovious he's been on my mind ever since we broke up it's just so hard to say. It's hard to move on from him. (link)
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You can tell him that you still care about him, but it may not change what has happened between you. But then again, it may make all the difference. You need to really think through what you're going to say and make sure it comes out exactly how you want it to s ound so that he wount take it the wrong way or anything. He may still have feelings for you, too, so that may make things easier. Even though he's on you're mind, doesn't mean it's love though. He was your most recent boyfriend and you cared for him when you were together. Those feelings don't go away over night. It may take a while to get over him, but in order for that to happen, you may want to make some sort of closure between the two of you. Tell him you still care for him. If he doesn't respond positively to that, then tell him you will always care for him and you will be there for him, but you feel you can move on. Once you make that closure, you'll feel more secure in putting yourself out there again, knowing you wil lfind the guy for you and he's looking for you too. Good Luck, and remember:
No one can make you inferer without your consent.
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okay well when my boyfriend comes over he ussually like massages my vagina,,like with my pants on...and it feels really good. but when i so the same for him he doesnt act as excied...am i doing something wrong? or is that just annoying for guys? (link)
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Just don't do it the next time he comes over and see how he acts, if it seems he doesn't act any different, then maybe he didn't notice, but just try it and see what happens. Hope I helped!
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how long do you think it would take for a 13 year old to get 320 dollers? i want to buy new clothes,but i dont want my mom to have to pay,she said i could do things around the house, and pay me 10 dollers a week alowence and 20 dollers for takeing wall paper off the walls. soo,how long do you think it would take? (link)
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Well you could try getting a babysitting job and get payed by the hour, if it snows near you, you can offer to shovel people's driveways for a fee of ten dollars, and do other things around the town. Hope this works!
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I don't understand this...I'm already in the 9th grade...and ALL of my friends have boyfriends! What do guys look for in a girl? Because, to me, it looks like I don't have it. I'm NOT a pushover, I don't dress slutty, and I'm not flirty. Let's also say that "I'm not easy to "get to"". I don't know. I'm a VERY good student....and I get good grades....but this seems like somewhat of a turn off for guys. And those guys that are nerdy (but cute) too, still don't PAY attention to me! It's like I'm invisible...It's just not fair. ;_; (link)
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DOn't worry about it. I asked like the same exact question and realized there is nothing wrong with this. You have four years left of high school to get a date and the rest of you life to find someone for you. You don't need to go out and get someone just because you're in high school. You may think that everyone has a boyfriend, butyou're just judging your friends. Think about the whole high school and how most of the school doesn't have boyfriends and girlfriends. It's not abnormal. It's not weird. Sometimes you may have to make the first move in order for someone to notice you. You may have been on the safe side in junior high and may dress a little reserved so people may think you don't want to date or you may look unavaiable. You may be on guys minds more than you think, but they may like you so much that they think there are a ton of guys that like you as well and don't think they stand a chance. You'll get a guy, don't you worry about that. Just don't sweat it and work on keeping up those grades. Good luck in furture life! =]
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Alright so im 16/f and there is this guy that i like and we are friends, but he's in college. Anyways hes coming home next weekend, and we are hanging out on friday night. My queestion is, what are some things that we can do. Not too expensive, and nothing like really romantic because I dont know if he likes me like that, and its the first time we've hung out by ourselves, with out other people
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Try going to see a romantic movie, like The Holiday or something like that. it gets you into the mood without it being awkward! Have fun!
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I use the computer too much.If I use the computer for longer than five minutes I will have to make my family punish me.Only we can't think of a punishment. (link)
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Try taking away vidoe games or music. TV or movies. Theres a ton of possibilities!
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Just wondering what this pregnancy pill is that you reference? Thanks. :) (link)
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well, they are prescribed by your doctor if they think you need them, you may have complications. Good Luck!
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Well my boyfriend tried to finger me, but it hurt it was kind of a discomfortable hurt. I asked him to stop and he did, then we tried it another time and it hurt but not as bad. Is it normal for it to hurt? One of my friends asked me if I bled but I told my friend that I told him to stop before he went in to far because it hurt. Are u suppose to bleed? thanks!! (link)
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In a way, fingering is like a practice for sex. The finger is like the penis so it's streching your tissue and bleeding happens the first couple times you have sex. So it's pertty much the same.
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I'm a female teenager and I had sex for my first time yesterday and down there is in a little bit of pain, is that normal? (link)
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Yeah, that's normal. For your first time, it can be painful because you're streching the tissue to a point it's not used to and there may have been a little bleeding to, and that's just as normal.
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Im 13/f. I havent had my period yet. Lately I have been having a abnormay large amount of white stuff in my underwear. Does this mean im going to get my period soon or what? (link)
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That is a sign of getting your period when you actually have it, so you probably will get it in a short amount of time.
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