okay well when my boyfriend comes over he ussually like massages my vagina,,like with my pants on...and it feels really good. but when i so the same for him he doesnt act as excied...am i doing something wrong? or is that just annoying for guys?
BitsandPieces answered Thursday January 18 2007, 4:20 pm: If you are rubbing him with his pants on maybe it is chaffing? Or maybe he is not wanting to get excited if you are not going all the way? Only he knows for sure, so ask him. If you are comfortable enough to be touching sexually with someone, then you should be comfortable enough to communicate with them. [ BitsandPieces's advice column | Ask BitsandPieces A Question ]
runawayxlove answered Thursday January 18 2007, 3:30 pm: hey, well he should like it. hes probably just embarassed to show that he does. the only way to know for sure if he likes it is to ask him. it might be embarassing for you if your shy so you can always do it on AIM. [ runawayxlove's advice column | Ask runawayxlove A Question ]
XoXoXoXo77 answered Thursday January 18 2007, 2:46 pm: well the person below me said that maybe he doesnt notice... im sure he probably notices and NO IT IS NOT ANNOYING FOR GUYS. im pretty sure he probably likes it. i mean seriously what guy wouldnt like that from their girlfriend? maybe hes just shy about showing you that it feels good because hes embarrassed or something. or he could be the kind of person that just doesnt get excited as easily. sometimes when you do that to a guy hes quiet because hes just thinking about what youre doing.. haha so it doesnt neccesarily mean he doesnt like it. also.. i dont knowwhow your doing it so i cant really tell you if your doing it wrong but like theres not really a wrong way to do it... it just helps if you rub like the top part of it because thats where they get the most feeling. lol
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geegollyHOLLY answered Thursday January 18 2007, 1:47 pm: Just don't do it the next time he comes over and see how he acts, if it seems he doesn't act any different, then maybe he didn't notice, but just try it and see what happens. Hope I helped! [ geegollyHOLLY's advice column | Ask geegollyHOLLY A Question ]
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