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Fingering..
Well my boyfriend tried to finger me, but it hurt it was kind of a discomfortable hurt. I asked him to stop and he did, then we tried it another time and it hurt but not as bad. Is it normal for it to hurt? One of my friends asked me if I bled but I told my friend that I told him to stop before he went in to far because it hurt. Are u suppose to bleed? thanks!!
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In a way, fingering is like a practice for sex. The finger is like the penis so it's streching your tissue and bleeding happens the first couple times you have sex. So it's pertty much the same.
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yes it's normal if he popped you cherry. if he was just scraping you with his nails, then no. make sure you're wet before he does it. relax your body to get it in easier. ask him to only used one finger, not any more for now. make sure he's getting it in at the right angle too..
if it's not feeling good, don't do it. have him rub your clit instead. <3
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Yes it is normally for it to hurt, Because you have not had anything loosen the tissues, the more he loosens them to less it will hurt so each tiem you do it the less it will hurt. And when you have sex for the first time, your heimen will be ripped, or your cherry will be popped in other words. Then you may bleed otehr wise you may not.
--Syd
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it's completely normal. eventually, you'll get to a point where you won't bleed and it won't hurt, but for now, the pain will get less and less.
hope i helped!
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hey dont even worry about it. its because you vaginal area is really tight. probabley because you've never done anything before? but the 2nd time it probabley didnt hurt as much cuz you're loosening up. dont worry about it, just relax, and if it really hurts to the point that you are in pain, tell him to stop
he'll understnad, he won't want to hurt you
<3
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Yes it is normal for it to hurt.
you can bleed but its highly unusual to bleed on just fingering.. if you bled having sex, then that is totally normal.
hope this helped
xoxo blonde911
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the only time you'll bleed is if you tear your hymen. and if it's like your first couple of times fingering yes it will hurt so it's normal because 'it's' isn't used to it
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