Why is love so hard to understand when you think he's right at the begining you find out you were wrong at the end... but if you can get him of you mind and you try so hard to does that mean it's love and what should i do if we are not together anymore should i tel him how i fell that i still really do care, But how could i say that with out making it so ovious he's been on my mind ever since we broke up it's just so hard to say. It's hard to move on from him.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? geegollyHOLLY answered Friday January 19 2007, 12:20 pm: You can tell him that you still care about him, but it may not change what has happened between you. But then again, it may make all the difference. You need to really think through what you're going to say and make sure it comes out exactly how you want it to s ound so that he wount take it the wrong way or anything. He may still have feelings for you, too, so that may make things easier. Even though he's on you're mind, doesn't mean it's love though. He was your most recent boyfriend and you cared for him when you were together. Those feelings don't go away over night. It may take a while to get over him, but in order for that to happen, you may want to make some sort of closure between the two of you. Tell him you still care for him. If he doesn't respond positively to that, then tell him you will always care for him and you will be there for him, but you feel you can move on. Once you make that closure, you'll feel more secure in putting yourself out there again, knowing you wil lfind the guy for you and he's looking for you too. Good Luck, and remember:
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