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I know what alot of you are gonna say, but.......
In my opinion, I don't think I have a bad personality. I'm not stuck up, I don't cause any drama, I'm honest, I can keep secrets, and I'm nice unless someone gives me a reason not to be. I mean, I can be "mean" sometimes with guys except I'm kidding and they know it. I'm not shy, but I'm not incredibly outgoing -- I'm just normal there. Plus, all of my friends say I'm hilarious. Most of my friends, who are girls tell, me I'm pretty and I've had some of my guy friends tell me I'm "hot". I'm not stupid, but I'm not a genius. Since pretty much everyone but me cares about this at my school...people say I'm popular (I hate that word and I don't care about "popularity" just to make that clear). The thing is, I've never had a boyfriend -- NOT ONCE. I don't get it. Every single one of my friends has at least had ONE boyfriend sometime in their life, but me. No, I don't only want one cause "everyone" has one. In your opinion, does it sound like I'm doing something wrong? Why can't I get a boyfriend?
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Oh goodness, your doing nothing wrong. You cannot let a guy know your desperate, they'd want you in bed on the first night. Keep doing what your doing I bet you someone likes you but is afraid of what you would say.You should be awsomely nice to everyone so people like you more and guys are like "wow she's awsome!" and then you should get a boyfriend. I dont think your snotty what so ever, there is nothing wrong with so dont let the guys get the best of you just dont become one of those slutty girls who wear there shirt down to there belly button just to be noticed. Guys actaully dont like that cause it makes you look easy. Stay a virgin till your married because guys want something no one else has had. Ok i dont know how I got on the topic of sex but it doesnt madder what your friends have had or have now. Be yourself cause someone out there likes you like that.
:)I hope i helped:)
Katie
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Great. You're humble. I wouldn't really worry about having a boyfriend, because most guys just raise hell anwyays. That's my outlook on it. But anyways, just because you have a good personality doesn't mean no guys like you. That's most likely NOT the case. Just because you're friends all have one? Big deal. Does that mean if your friends jumped off a cliff, you'd feel the need to do it too? There's someone out there for you, and no matter how long it takes, he will find you. Or, you could always find him.
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no actually it sounds like your on the right track.you shouldnt do anything to get a boyfriend thats what alot o girls dont understand and half of those girl if not all i guarantee are faking something or doing something because they feel they have to. You should stay true to yourself and the right guy for you will come around. The thing is about you and the few is that your not runing around confused. Alot of people are. alot of people arent sure of who they are and what they want so that separates you from it in a way. Its better to have a few boyfriends that are actually good ones or the right ones that click with who you really are then to have alot of boys who are stuck in the land of confusion(wheter they realize it or not) and really dont care and turn out not right for you anyways. I realize you havent had any yet but it doesnt mean you wont either..the right one just hasnt clicked or arrived or you've only been exposed to one genre of people which you will be. Its best to stay true and not do anything or change to suit others needs when it doesnt feel right to you. if your comfortable with who you are then stay that way.At least your not trapped in falseness,or a dual of inner and outer lies. The right person will come there is that old saying that your prince charming is coming he just took a wrong turn. If you really pay attention to other people and think about it you'll see what i mean.
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Sounds like a guy would be lucky to have you. Sounds like your personality is pretty tops. It may be that more guys see you as the friend-type.
There's nothing wrong with that at all, but you need to make a statement to the ones you want to go out with that you can be more than just a great friend, because you can be a great girlfriend.
Of course there is flirting, and then there is outright asking them on a date. From the way you present yourself, I think guys would accept a date more often than not.
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hey, well i think it might be one of two things. a) they see you as more of a friend or b) think your too popular for them and that your way out of there league. actually there is another possibility, they might think that your too flirty and that you arent girlfriend material.
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you can't obtain a boyfriend because what you described is average. you are everyone else.
you also aren't reaching out and trying to get a boyfriend. this isn't the fifty's, so if you wait around for a boy to make his move, you'll get nothing. don't wait.
also, by the way you said most of your friends were girls, i'm guessing that, all of your friends are girls.
unless you do something to make a guy become really into you, you won't dazzle them by sitting in a corner with all the other girls waiting to be asked.
**EDIT, i know what you meant, i was just saying you were lying.
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Sometimes guys just see girls as a friend. do u joke around with them alot in a buddy kind of way? u should let them kno you're interested. try flirting with them a little more. hope i helped
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Don't take this personally. I bet you snything that you have definitely come up in many conversations from guys, but even if they have a crush on you, they may think they don't have a chance in hell with you becuase you're "popular" and think more popular guys than them like you and have a better chance. Maybe you should make the first move on who you like to get the point out there that you are available. Good luck!
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