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he led me on
There's this guy I've liked for a while now and he took me out on a date Saturday night. I had fun and so did he. Yesterday I thought I might as well tell him that I liked him because everyone was under the impression that he liked me--not only did he take me out, but I went over his house and met his family and he picked me up, drove me home, payed for the date (it was a dance and he bought the ticket and went through a lot of hassle so that I could come), and walked me to my house and everything. When I told him I liked him, he told me that he liked this other girl and he was having issues and was unsure. I'm just really frustrated--how come he was sending me mixed messages? I'm really angry at him for leading me on like that and taking me out, just so I'd be there if things with girl #1 didn't fall through. I'd like to give him a piece of my mind but I don't even know where to begin. I wrote him an angry letter that I might give to him...and it's all about how he pretty much led me on and played little boy games with me and how he's an a-hole, but he's also a great guy, generally, and just because he didn't treat me right doesn't mean I'm over him yet. I even say that if he were to ask me out, I'd say yes. (Although I didn't write that I'd probably have to see a little more effort on his part, although it's true.) Should I give him the letter? (We don't go to the same school and we rarely see one another so I'd have to give it to a friend to give to him.) Or should I give him a piece of my mind someway else? Or should I just give up and leave him alone? What should I do? Thanks.
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~wow. That sounds just like a situation im in right now with a guy named sean. Anyways, in my situation, i just kept being his friend. give him time to figure things out. He's considering you. but at the same time, don't just sit around and wait. flirt with other guys too! let HIM know you are considering other people too and have just as much game as he does! throw it innocently back in his face~
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hey, that was totally rude of him. you have a right to give him a piece of your mind. i wouldnt recommend giving it to a friend to give to him because they might read it or just not even give it to him. if your going to say something to him you have to say it directly too him.
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If you don't see this guy alot then don't send him the letter. Like twistedlover said either talk to him over phone or face to face. He dosn't need to use you just because his girlfriend and him has issues and he needs someone to go out with! Lots of guys do that and you need to tell him your not gonna get stepped on like some doormat! Tell him what you wrote. You could leave it alone if you want to but if you want to give him a peice of your mind then tell him. I hope everything goes well for you!
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if you really dont see him alot the letter's a bad idea you dont want it getting in the wrong hands and he's just playin mind games like so many other guys do and most gurls let them so you should deff give him a pecie of your mind either face to face or over the phone or something tell him that you really do like him and your not his rebound bitch and he should respect you and your not going to be his door mat he eigher likes you or he doesnt theres no in between because your not gonna wait forever i hope i helped goodluck and if he cant make a choice than fuck him you dont need somebody who only wants you when its convient to him my inbox is always open if you need advice
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