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(sorry I have not been on at all, I had other activities to use my time on)

Hello, You my ask me anything.
About me:
I am 14, Christian, uhm, I started playing the guitar days ago.

Note:I had an older collumn I can not access due to the fact I forgot the password and I cannot access the email adress I had put for my address in this site.
(I used to be under the sn of Caden)


Disclamer:
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Use good grammar, or atleast ok grammar. I will reject ones Where u typ3 lyk3 dis.

advice

I'm 15 and female and my b/f is 20, but I'm fixing to turn 16. My mom likes my b/f but my dad doesn't. They are currently filing for custody of me even though i don't want to live with my dad. The thing is that I may have made a huge mistake. I engaged in sexual activities with my boyfriend with my consent because I love him. We have been dating for nearly two years. The thing is that my mom has just informed me that the only way the can take me away from her is if we have had sex. I don't know what to do. Please, I need advice badly.

Well, I would kep it a secret, i wouldnt tell anyone else either because it could reach to your parents.

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This is probly a really stupid question but.

Im a level 1 moderator. Amd i read that we rake the question by choosing one of those faces. Do we do do that for all the questions? And if we do, do we have to answer the question also?

thank you.

you do rate all the questions, but you dont have to answer them all.

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Okay im 14/f(i just turned 14 MAy 6)And ive been talking to this guy (He just turned 16 like last weekend) Well i think our relationship is moving to the point of b/f g/f .... but like i need to find out a way to tell my mom about the ages without her flipping because my mom is very strict and i mean strict.. i mean ive never really had a boyfriend befor so i have no clue what to say and i cant not tell her because one of my sisters will tell her and i will be in deep crap... so how do i tell her about this guy without her flipping out... like exsactly what do i say???

hmm, why dont you have your mom and this guy meet, and afterwards tell her his age, and that you are concidering going into a deeper relationship with him, and that you will be careful

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im going away soon for vacation and i never been on a plane before this will be my first time. i dont know what to expect here are some questions i would like to get answered

should i be scared
alot of people say to chew gum should i?
willl i get sick?
what should i do to keep busy?

1No, flying in a plane shouldnt make you scared.
2 Chewing gum help with the pressure in the ears.
3 If you have alot of motion sickness, you may get sick, and you may get a little off balance during flight, if you stand up while in the air.
4, to stay busy, you could bring a couple books to read, bring a portable game system and some games, bring some cd's and a portable cd player, and you could play games with a person
{if your going with someone}

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someone said;

"I got my permit"

what does the person mean? thanks..
I rate

They passed drivers ed but has to drive with someone who is atleast 21

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im 15 almost 16/ female alright well i dont kno y but i dont really ever get guys i go to a small private school in california. well, im thinking it may be my personality. im not drop dead gorgeous but i know im decently pretty cause guyz tell me i am. anyway this year i really want a boyfriend. so what are guys looking 4? and what are their turn offs/ons

It really depends on the guy.
Looks are not everything, if theres a gu you like, just start off as friends with him, and be a good friend, build up a strong friendship, then hopefully you and they guy wil date.

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So im 15/f and i so far have never took any chances! Ive never even kisseda boy for crying out loud becuase i am scared. I think my parentals made me this way. Anyways All my friends ONCE in awhile get together and drink. Now i dont want any rude comments but would it be all that bad to try it once? I am sick of being called the good girl, or princess! I meen i wouldnt get attatched to it would i? Is it as bad as grown ups make it seem?

Well if your 21 and drink responsibly, I hear its not so bad. Although, you shouldn't binge or drink ntil im 21, or else it would make you an addict, and you'd have serious problems.

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13/m
For the second time, i develoed a crush on my best friend, who is almost4 years older than me, should I tell her? I am hesitating because its a bit redundant and hopeless, and the last time i was in love with her, and was rejected, i was sent in a depression to the point i wasn't like myself, and our friendship was a bit f a mess {from my point of veiw} Is it still a good thing to confess?

Well, because its honest, it is a good thing to do, but, first, think to yourself if your really in love? or is more of a pride to have such a good friend feeling? Then if it is a crush, i might hint it to her, to see her reaction, and if its not the best reaction, do not tell her or hint her anymore.

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i have been friends with tisha all my life and suddenly she got mad at me. she got mad when kyara and i were over at her house and i was planning to spend the night. i later found out that kyara wasnt allowed to sleep over b/c tisha's parents wouldnt let her. i figured that i would go home and kyara could stay and spend the night. this turned into a big ordeal and tisha got mad at me for inviting kyara over. when i invited her over, i thought that she was allowed to spend the night b/c tisha didnt say anything when i told her that kyara was spening the night. so they were both mad at me. so i left without saying goodbye. kyara forgave me that night, but tisha is still mad at me. i have tryed saying sorry but she wont accept it. what else should i do?

Well, if you give her some time, she will eventually calm down. she may be mad because you didnt offer her to sleep at your house, as well as kyara.

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summer is here and i live in a really small town.my friends always want to hang out, but theres only so much we can do on a limited budget. what are some fun, creative things we could do?

you and your friends could
-invent some sport
-have game nights
-start up a band using homemaid instruments.
-make home movies that can be watched on a specific day of the week.
-start a summer job that can be done as a group {such as a car wash}

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is it true guys think its hot when girls kiss/ make out?

most men find it attractive, like I do, while some do not.

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okay today was the last day of school for my school. okay to keep it short, i like this guy and we are also friends. how can i stay in touch with him over the summer so he doesn't forget all about me? IMing him doesn't work because all he ever answers with is 'lol' or 'yeah'. and there is NO WAY i'd ever call him. that would be too weird, because we are more of like school friends. we talk in school and everything but not out of school.

thanks! i rate high =D

He wont forget you, im pretty sure he wont forget you so easily. Some ways you can talk to eachother is that you can invite him over, or you could ask i he as myspace, etc, so you two can comment eachother.{if you dont and he does, you can always make one}.

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ok on this survey it asks your heritage.....is your heritage like if your german or like italian or irish..etc? or does it mean like your race? i know dumb question but ill rate high.

thanks!

heritage is the culture of your ancestors. Like if your ancestors were into the greek culture, your heritage is greek

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how can i get a guy who used to go out with a popular girl and who is just friends with me go out with me?
i am 15, a girl, from america, and speak english.

you should get to know him better, flirt with him, be a good friend to him, and after a while, when you two become really close, you can ask him if he would like to go out, and then later you could tell him how you feel. Also, an important tip, be yourself!

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im a 13 year old female. my mom is very strict about "getting enough sleep" and i have a VERY early bedtime. i have to be off the computer by 8:50 pm and i have to be in bed and be watching a half hour tv show from 9:00 to 9:30. i HAVE to be sleeping by 9:30 pm. even if im not done with homework or want to read a couple more pages of my book, I HAVE TO BE SLEEPING. so i go to sleep at 9:30 pm and wake up at 6:45 am. I think i don't need that much sleep. my friends go to bed at 11:30 and they are still wide awake at school. and what makes it worse is that i have the SAME exact bedtime as my 9 year old sister. thats 4 years apart!! i don't think it's fair and i don't think its neccessary to be sleeping by 9:30 pm i feel if i went to bed at 10 or 10:30, i would still get the sleep i need. what time do you guys go to bed and do you think my moms being fair? how can i get my mom to change my bedtime? and shes very strict so i need some good ways to pursuade her with.

I WILL TOTALLY RATE.

the bestthing to do is to show her you are responsible. Try helping her with chores, get your homework after school, etc, eventualy she would let you live a little, and then you can ask to stay up later. ot works for me :)
Good luck!

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ok....this is hard to talk about but im going to try to get it out best i can.im in college, and i really like this guy( ill call him rob) for a while. we never hooked up or anything, but talked dont the phone here and there.sometimes he use to joke around about things he wanted to do with me sexually,but i always just thought he was kidding because we were kinda friends.so this one day, i was really drunk and he called me to come over to his apartment. i was so excite because i really like him and he alwasy told me what a great girl i was and how he liked me alot. i thought one day he was really gunna get serious with me. Anyway, i went there and he told me he wanted me to listen to some song in his room, i went in and when i did his roomate was in ther and i kind aheard him tell him to leave, then he left rob locked the door. i started to get nervous because i wasnt really expeting to hook up with im or have sex, but i just went with it because i was so drunk. we end up starting to hook up and then it just got bad. we started to have sex, which was ok with me because i thought he really like me and it was going to be so great.it ended up be the most hurtful thing i have ever gone through, pyshcially and emotionally. he was having sex with me really rough, and it hurt really bad, i was very drunk but i managed to say your hurting me, so he would stop, but then he would just do the same thing again. he was throwing me around the bed like a rag doll, and i was crying inside.i said stop it hurts, but he took that as "stop for a sec then start again" this went on for a good 20 mintues till i fianlly made up some excuse to leave.when i left i cried the entire way home. i got home and i had bruises bewtween my legs already.i was so hurt because i though he like me and he treated me so terribly....but what i always wanted to know was...is that considered rape or something close to it???sorry so long, i just pushed it out of my mind for song long becauseit really screwed me up in the head to the point i cant trust guys anymore and talk of sex with a guy totally scares me...advice please what do you think??im i blowing this out of poportion? because i didnt exactly say or scream stop like i was being raped....i dunno please advice

yes, it is considered rape, if he doesnt stop at command. I would be scared too if I was treated like that, and I dont blame you for not trusting guys, but not all guys are rapists. It is not your fault, it was his fault for starting the rough sex. For what he did, he should be in prison, because it uis unacceptable by law.

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okay you know those things that are sent to your house and i guess there was an ad for proactive and it said it was only 19.99 +tax. okay well i have a couple of questions.. well its regularly 45.00+tax but why is it 19.99 now? like is it on sale or they just lowerd the price? and also one more question.. you know how when u buy it and it like signs you up into the program and will send you proactive for like every other month or something, what if i dont want it? what do i do?

Well, because yor bying it from a company, and not by retail{ in wich workers earn money for putting them on the shelves, ect, the price is lower.

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My mom & I are really close. She loves my dad and they've been together over 20 years. Her very first love has recently passed away. They had a serious relationship when she was 17. (She's 48 now) She saw his last name in the death notices and she's been severely depressed for awhile now. She had a very involved connection with this man and I feel so bad for my mom. They hadn't talked in years & she doesn't know what he died from either. She really wants closure, but I don't know how to help her. What am I supposed to do in this situation?

Well, the best thing to do is to comfort her, and show her your there for her. And tell her that the stress will pass.

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What are some good songs that kind of describe 8th grade graduation? Recent if possible, like the last 10 years or sooner. NOT GRADUATION BY VITAMIN C - too common. Any thing that would have to do with it. Like, describing change, moving on, friends forever, graduation, "i will remmeber you", good times, etc.

Easy Five if you give me good ones.

hmm, well, time of your life by green day is a good one.
Another one is graduation song from saved by the bell.

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I've realised I have depression and I desperatley need to talk to someone.
I know who i can trust (its a teacher) and I'm so scared because Im not an open person, I cant talk about my feelings easily.
I've tried to go to the counsellor at college but I cant walk into the room.
Anyway, how can i talk to the teacher?
What do i say to begin the conversation?

well, maybe you dont have to verbally say whats going on. If you write i down, either in a note form, or as a poem, you could have your teacher read it, and then help you with whay is going on.
If not, just walk up to her after class and you could say " I was wondering if I could talk to you about something?" and if she says she can talk, you can tell her what is going on.

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