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hey im allisonim 14 and i go to WBHS.
i love volley ball and snowboarding and i love spending time with my friends.
im a dork and i love it...and i dont care what you think.
music just so happens to be my life.
i like most music...just as long as it doesnt include a BANJO!...eww.
other then music...my life is dedicated to my bestest friends amber conner rachelle michelle and linnea. they are my reasons for breathing. ive had my heart broken twice by the same guy. and it was just recently. i really want some one to show him how i feel. but im still in deep like with this kidd. i dont regret the things that i do...i regret the things that i didnt do when i had the chance. that would happen to be my motto. tee hee(btw...i use 'tee hee' WAYYYY too much!)i like school. but im not good at it. im ok at it. but im still on 'second string' if you will. finding song quotes or just random takes up most of my time. and i have about 3 notebooks filled up in the last 2 or 3 months. im also eager to get better at drawing. i just really like it. but im not that passionate about it. that is really it for now. tee hee...(see! i told you so!!!)
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hey, well my boyfriend used to have a bestfriend named marc. i used to be friends with marc too. like me, my boyfriend, marc, and lucy could hang out together. even any combination of people. but then marc went away. so to replace marc for being his bestfriend he made bestfriends with this kid named eric. now eric was from his football team and i dont know eric at all. but now my boyfriend is with eric every single day like no lie and has no time for me anymore. and its not like we can all hang out because i dont know eric. also my boyfriend has mentioned to me that eric doesnt like me, but what i dont get is i never even met him before. a month ago we broke up because we never saw each other, but that time it was my my moms fault because she didnt trust my boyfriend yet. so i called him and explained to him what happened. he understood and asked me back out again. but the last time i spent time with my boyfriend was not last tuesday, but the tuesday before that =/. but on last tuesday after football and cheering i saw him for maybe 5 minutes and we talked for 5 minutes, but i dont call that spending time togethter. ive hinted to him many times that we dont see each other and say that we should hang out soon, but he always says oh i have plans with eric and stuff like oh baby im sorry ill call you tommorow, but he never calls cause hes with eric. monday-friday my boyfriend and eric have football. monday-thursday i have cheering. so you think that monday-friday would be enough time to spend with eric. the only real time me and my boyfriend can hangout is saturday and sunday, but of course he already has plans with eric. i mean we could hang out before and after cheering but again he usually has plans with eric and if he doesnt its hard to do because of rides and stuff. when hes with eric he basically never calls me. sometimes there will be 1-2 days of him not calling me because hes been with eric for 1-2 days. if we do talk its only for 30 minutes and its 30 minutes of him yelling at his paintball game. before we used to talk for 3 hours straight and i felt some type of connection and now im not so sure if i do anymore. im starting to feel really bad about this and im getting sort of jealous that eric gets to spend more time with him then i do! schools going to start soon and me and my boyfriend go to different schools so summers basically the time we need to hang out, because of all the homework and football and cheering at night. also yesterday he actually did call me with eric, i was with my two friends allie and jillian, but that didnt make a difference. so he called and said lets meet on razon st. [ near my house ]. so he said to figure it out and call him back. so i did and i was like were not going to meet you there because we cant. then he was like good because me and eric decided that we didnt want to walk there anyways and they were already walking to somewhere else. i foudn taht rude. so today he actually called me and was like hey. i was like oh where did you go yesterday. he said to this girls house. i felt hurt and im usually not this sensitive. i was like oh was it erics friend or yours. he said mine then he said you dont know her. i was like how do you know, i wanna know who it is. then he said too bad. today we only talked for 30 minutes and it was yelling at his paintball thing again most of the time. please help i just dont know what to do anymore. thank you os much for reading!
im sorry but this kid is a dick... you need a new boy that appreciates you and acctuially wants to spend time with you. that is probably the saddest thing i have ever heard. you need to punch that little bitch in the face..AHH! that kinda makes me mad. dump him and find someone who will willingly make time for you. not because you ask him to, but because he wants too. he obviously loves eric more than you so dump the queer and find a new one.
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Ok well over the summer i have been hanging ouy with this guy named Pat and like at first i went to his house and we were just like friends but after a while he kinda started holding my hand when we were watching tv and stuff and were not even going out and he is not allowed to date till school starts and im starting to really like him but i no its wrong to do stuff and were not even dating yet but its really hard to tell someone u like to stop. so what should i do please help.
ok swetie
TELL HIM!
he should know
until school starts...
keep it on the DL.
then you should start telling people after about a week of school has gone by
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God should not love what everyone does. that means that he loves when people sin. he doesnt like when people sin. i too believe that God has a plan for everyone. and a lot of times it involves bringing other people to the Lord. im not saying that i would not befriend a gay person. i make friends with people who i think have good character. i am not saying that they should be discriminated against because they have sinned, everyone sins. if God didnt care if a man was with another man, then why did he create a woman?
i ubderstand what you are saying. but if you were to ask my best friend conner the last question it would be to make man a sandwich.
i saw what you said relating to gay relationships..and you said "god lied". i dont think that statement is true. God is perfect. he doesnt lie. if you are christian you would know that. God has never made a mistake. it says in the bible that homosexuality is wrong. "a man should not lie with another man as with a woman; that is abomination" im not saying that he doesnt love gay people. that is what a lot of people think that christian are trying to say, but its not. all we say is that homo. is a sin. God loves everyone he just doesnt love what everyone does.
yes i am a christian. i believe that jesus died for our sins and all. and i believe that god loves all of us...gay or not. but he sounds like the father of the pregnant girl that throws her out because she couldnt have him keep it in his pants. homosexuality is not wrong. they cant help it. i support gay right because i think that every one deserves a chance to love. it doesnt make me any less of a christian for it. i go to church every sunday. god should love what everyone does. my father always told me that god has a plan for each and every one of us. well if that is true, then god must have put homosexuality in the plan for the worlds gay people. why dont you take a walk in gay persons
shoes. would you like to be descriminated against just because of your sexual preference. no. you know inside that its wrong. you just dont want to admit it.
allison
how would i go about becoming a stripper for panic at the disco?
im not sure. but once you find out please tell me!
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Hi, my name is Shiloh and im 16. Im about 5'4 and i weigh around 90 pounds i believe. Everyone always asks me if i am anerexic. People even say behind my back that i am. Iam not though, thats the thing. I mean, i eat pretty healthy. like i dont eat a lot, but iam not starving myself or anything. i also dance, so thats probably part of it. i dont really care that people say these things about me, but i dont want to be unhealthy. does this seem unhealthy to you, and what should i do about these bitches saying iam anerexic?
it is probably just you being so active. if it starts to bother you just ignore it.
okay so im 13 and im pretty flat chested. KIND OF. is there any type of cream or product that can make make breast bigger like at least 3 or 4 inches bigger?
sweetie..you dont need any enhancement. that is just stupid to think about. you are only 13. you still have plenty of time to grow. you should wait until you are atleast out of highschool before you start thinking about those kinds of things. i know a girl who is a freshman. she is kinda wealthy. and she was unhappy that she was still an a cup. so she convinced her parents to buy her breast implants. then in the middle of her sophomore year her boobs grew. she ended up being a d cup abd needed to have them taken out. those creams are just as bad. good things come to those who wait.
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Ok so when I dont blow dry or straighten my hair.
[let it air dry]
It dries sorta wavy,
but is there anything I can spray on it
or something to make the waves more defined, or even curls?
and shiny, so it doesnt loook all dull?
thanks.
try scrunching your hair. towel dry your hair so that its still a bit damp...flip your hair over and scrunch your hair with some strong hold moouse. works for mee!
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F/UK
I've seen a lot of questions about emo's on this site, but what exactly is this? I don't think it's an expression we use in the UK. Thanks.
emo means emotional...and its not a fashon statement...its a lifestyle.(just so you know:])
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Me and my boyfriend got in a huge fight over nothing last night. We got eachother so pissed off we decided to break up. I miss him so much. I want him to know that I'm sorry for what I did. The problem is, I don't know what to say to him!! Also, he blocked me on aim, he won't answer my calls, and he won't answer me on myspace. How can I talk to him? We really loved eachother. He already has another girl friend, but I know he's just trying to make me jealous with her. What do I do??
GO TALK TO HIM!!!!! nothing can be worse then losing the love of your life...i should know i just lost mine. if you go appoligize and suck/kiss up and realize that this fight was just stupid then everything can go back to normal. best of luck!!
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ok im 17 and want a kid. ok i do see that its gona be hard and that is probly not best to have a kid yet. but do you think it might help me change my mind bout having a kid if i speak to my boyfriend.
what could the out comes be? im scared if i tell him that he will get worride and leave me. but i dont want to keep something like this from him.
please help me some one.
thanks
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you should tell him. and if he reacts baddly then he wasnt worth your time or your body.
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This kid who might like me sits behind me in one of my classes. I was talking to my friend and I was saying something about him loudly so that he could hear (It was supposed to be a good thing about him) and it came out all wrong and sounded really stupid. Like he's 6'1 or something and what I said made him sound like he was a midget! I was saying the other kid was a midget, not him! But, it came out so that I had said the 6'1 guy was short and weird and the midget was really tall and cool. Then, I wasn't having a good day because of this kid next to him and I was glaring at him then they guy who liked me looked at me and to him it would have looked like I was glaring at him for no reason! The teacher kept calling on me and I answered the wrong question or said the wrong thing about four times! I really don't want him to think I'm some retard now. Do you think he'll still like me? How do I let him know I'm know THAT stupid all the time?!
TELL HIM!!!if he was really worth your time then he would know that NO ONE can make that many mistakes purposly in one class hour.
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My best friend and I have been best friends for ABOUT A year now. the year b4, he was best friends wit my otha best friend. At that time she was his numba 1 and I came about second or third..maybe...then they fell head ova heels for each other, then they fell out and they started hating each other, all during this time, We got closer, not in spite of her but because he is cool, and we just got closer.So when they werent best friends anymore...I guess I became his numba 1, well now Me and him are closer than eva, and the girl used to tell me I was just bait until they became best friends again. Well now they are going to the same high school, and Im not going to there's, and Ive been away alll summa.....They have obviously gotten closer, but just recently they have started talkin on the phone again, and I have this horrid feeling that maybe she was right. Becuz they are going to the same high school, so naturally they are going to become closer, and we all go to the same church, and his sister is friends wit us both, ( I think she likes her better tho) Im afraid she was right and they are going to become #1's again...and we will naturally be as close but now Ill be his second pick..and I am afraid that she is the better friend so he deserves her..We are just so close, I dont want to loose him at all, and please dont tell me he can have 2 #1's, because even if he can, one will still dominate the other..and I dont know what to think and how to prevent it??
just because hes got a new friend...doesnt mean that you are less important...i had the same problem with 2 of my bestfriends. i was friends with one of them wayyy before the other. but i saw the new one way more durring school. so just try your hardest to keep in touch and make plans frequently.(just not like everyday...you will get tired of eachother)dont worry about it,things will fall into place.
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Ok, I'm 14/f, and you know normal teenagers are usually fighting with their parents and stuff over stupid things.. well, that's the case with me. I dont know, but I seem to lose my temper easily. It's not always me, I mean I'll say something back to my parents that ticks them off until the point where I get so angry that I.. well I've scratched my mom before. And not that long ago I got in a fight with my dad and hit him. It's not like I intentionally want to hurt them that way, I just can't control it. And I feel like now it's gotten out of hand. I'll tell you exactly what happened with my dad before.. My family was watching tv in my family room, and I was thirsty so i went to go get something to eat and some jello lol. Well there's this little stool kinda table thing that I used as a table. It was off to the side so I used my feet to drag it over to the couch since my hands were full. It got caught on the rug and my dad, i dunno what he said exactly but he made a remark about it and I was like, "What am I supposed to do? my hands are full" And he was like.. well.. blahblahblah, I don't even remember what he said, all I remember is I ended up hitting him, and then he flipped out and took the jello and drink away and yelled at me and threatened that I didn't have to get a new cell phone, etc. See how stupid it is? But I really can't control this. Idk what I should do. I really want this $88 hair straightener, and my mom said if I was good during the vacation we are going on next week then I could get it. But I'm gonna be with my mom dad and brother in a hotel room for like 4 nights, and I have a feeling I'm just gonna get mad at them for the stupidest thing and end up ruining the chances of getting that straightener. How can I control my anger? I feel really badly about everything now, I really don't mean it.. I'm just.. i dunno, everythings changing. Sorry this was so long.. please help.. thank you
i tend to blow up at my mother occasionally. (my father isnt around to scream at)so i think you just might be overly stressed. you should take up a contact sport. volleyball REALLY helped me!
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I didn't know what category to put this in sorry..
but anyway.. sometimes out of random, I'll just be like breathing normally, then suddenly I'll feel like I have to take a really deep breath. I've noticed this a lot when I'm laying in my bed too. I think half of it is just me thinking about it though, because when I'm laying in my bed and like zone off into a little world, it doesn't bother me. But the more I think about it, the more I'm like breathing really deep. Also I've found out that when I yawn, it goes away. lol. This sounds so stupid but it's happening a lot now and I don't know why. I don't know if this has anything to do with it.. but my parents said when I was born I had a heart murmur.. but it closed up.. What exactly is a heart murmur and could it of opened up again and possibly be causing this? Also, I think my dad has asthma, could it be that? Why wouldn't I have known I had asthma before though [I'm 14]. I'm not overweight. I don't get much exercise however, especially since it's summer, I'm usually on the computer. Does anybody have any clue why this is happening? Sometimes when I'm lying in my bed too, when I take a deep breath in, it sounds like something cracks or something.. lol not like bad but like if you cracked your knuckles, like a sound like that. Ahh, what's wrong with me??? Sorry it was so longg. Please help. thank youu
i have the same thing. i dont think that this is abnormal of anything.
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ok so im 16/f and for some reason my ankles pop everytime i walk up stairs and sometimes just taking steps make them pop really loud!! its really embarrasing in class when it's dead silent during a test and i have to walk across the room and my ankles pop!! is there something wrong w/ them or what? also my wrists and knees pop whenever i bend them back and forth but it hurts usually when they do pop. should i see a doctor or is just a weird thing that's normal? o ya im a cheerleader if that helps any!
sweetie...go see a doctor or something. this certainly isnt regular.
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17 years old/female.. so this may be kind of long but, I'll try to give you the briefest version.. so there's this guy, let's call him jay. and so like a month ago me and jay spent a lot of time together, and we ended up making out and such. and like we still talked and everything, and saw eachother on weekends, but nothing seemed to progress from that, like we were just friends, but my friends and including myself thought he was totally into me, since I was like kind of into him. well, we stopped talking for a couple of weeks at the beginning of the summer, so I ended up making out with this other guy, lets call him mike, when I was drunk the one night. it didn't mean anything, just an innocent make out, and I still talk to mike, as friends. well like two weeks after that, I ended up seeing jay at a party, and I starting like him again. and since I drank a little too much, I told his best friend, and his other friends, that I really like him and such. well the next night I threw a party, and he ended up coming with his best friend. and everything was going great, we were flirting like usual, and we ended up outside me and him making out again, and I guess my friend had a bit too much too drink, and came outside, and bluntly stated that I had made out with mike. well jay totally flipped and was like "get the f*** off of me" so I was like got off, but was like what's wrong blah blah blah. and he just got so mad and like wouldn't talk to me, so I started drinking with his best friend, and got a little drunk, so started flirting with his friend cody, just to make him jealous. (yeah I know it's not cool that I used his friend, but his friend was totally into it, so whatever.) so jay just got more mad, so my bestfriend talked to him, and was like whats wrong? and he's like nothing, and she's like well like why'd you get mad? do you like her or something? and he's all like I don't know I'm confused. so I started telling him I hate him and such, while holding onto his friend cody, so he ended up getting so mad, and leaving, and told his friend "to go for the gold" (aka get some action)which is so mean, but I know he was just super mad. and like I'm just totally confused, and it's been a week since this happend, and I have no idea what to do. like do I talk to him? and apologize for being a jerk? or do I wait til I see him, which will probably be on this weekend, and talk to him in person? I just don't know what to do. and does it not seem like he likes me, like if he got that mad just because I kissed again, when we weren;t even dating, let alone talking:S? please help :):) thanks in advance.
i think you need to try your hardest to fix what happened before you have to face him again. that would most likely be the most awkward moment of your life if there is still tension between the 2 of you.
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I have a guy friend that I really like, and I think that he wants to ask me out. The only probelm is that I'm now allowed to date. Now, I'm sixteen, and my parents don't want me to date until I'm in college (which I think is unreasonable). I'm not even allowed to have guy friends, so I have to sneak around to hang out with him.
Now, I know my parents wont understand if I ask them if I can date him, but should I still persue it behind my parents backs? And if so, how could I manage that without them finding out?
you need to talk to your parents...(i sure you have tried tho) college is a bit unreasonable...but, yeah. just try setting a specific time that you will be home and actuialy get home at that designated time. they will most likely gain more trust in you then the had before and probably allow you to keep seeing this guy. oh and a little sucking up before hand never hurt!!
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ok i get like sweat bumbs between my boobies and do u pplz know any way to get rid of them cause the only way i know is popping them and then it leaves sares???
the 'sweat bumps' are just another form of acne. face wash or astringent will clear it all up in about 1 or 2 weeks!
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i am so new to this period stuff, i have had mine for 3 months now and pads are becoming a hastle. i don't have a mom any more, so how do i put a tampon in??? i would really like your help on this information, and i don't want to talk to anyone where i live. Thxs
im pretty sure that many people are uncomfortable answering this...so i recommend you go to a local pharmacy and buy yourself a box of tampons. they usuialy have instructions and a diagram.
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