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I messed up with a guy x 1000, please give me some advice/in
17 years old/female.. so this may be kind of long but, I'll try to give you the briefest version.. so there's this guy, let's call him jay. and so like a month ago me and jay spent a lot of time together, and we ended up making out and such. and like we still talked and everything, and saw eachother on weekends, but nothing seemed to progress from that, like we were just friends, but my friends and including myself thought he was totally into me, since I was like kind of into him. well, we stopped talking for a couple of weeks at the beginning of the summer, so I ended up making out with this other guy, lets call him mike, when I was drunk the one night. it didn't mean anything, just an innocent make out, and I still talk to mike, as friends. well like two weeks after that, I ended up seeing jay at a party, and I starting like him again. and since I drank a little too much, I told his best friend, and his other friends, that I really like him and such. well the next night I threw a party, and he ended up coming with his best friend. and everything was going great, we were flirting like usual, and we ended up outside me and him making out again, and I guess my friend had a bit too much too drink, and came outside, and bluntly stated that I had made out with mike. well jay totally flipped and was like "get the f*** off of me" so I was like got off, but was like what's wrong blah blah blah. and he just got so mad and like wouldn't talk to me, so I started drinking with his best friend, and got a little drunk, so started flirting with his friend cody, just to make him jealous. (yeah I know it's not cool that I used his friend, but his friend was totally into it, so whatever.) so jay just got more mad, so my bestfriend talked to him, and was like whats wrong? and he's like nothing, and she's like well like why'd you get mad? do you like her or something? and he's all like I don't know I'm confused. so I started telling him I hate him and such, while holding onto his friend cody, so he ended up getting so mad, and leaving, and told his friend "to go for the gold" (aka get some action)which is so mean, but I know he was just super mad. and like I'm just totally confused, and it's been a week since this happend, and I have no idea what to do. like do I talk to him? and apologize for being a jerk? or do I wait til I see him, which will probably be on this weekend, and talk to him in person? I just don't know what to do. and does it not seem like he likes me, like if he got that mad just because I kissed again, when we weren;t even dating, let alone talking:S? please help :):) thanks in advance.
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eeek, you definitely screwed up hun :(. but like, if you are really into this "jay" guy, then you should definitely talk to him, preferably in person. apologize to him x 1000, and ask him why he got soo mad, hopefully it all works out. explain to him that mike was just a mistake, and you were drunk and it didn't mean anything. and about the cody guy, you should prob explain you were just trying to make Jay jealous, even though he prob knows. well good luck, hope I helped a bit :). keep me updated, I have my fingers crossed:P.
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i think you need to try your hardest to fix what happened before you have to face him again. that would most likely be the most awkward moment of your life if there is still tension between the 2 of you.
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Oh wow. That took me about a bajillion mintues to read, and wow. Your life is messed up!!! Get rid mike. Keep Jay, wait to talk to him in person make up, make out, and say sorry over and over, and also. Say you were using Cody to make him jealous, hope I helped!
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It wasn't wrong of you to make out with 'Mike'. 'Jay' hadn't made an effort to get with you, & that's his own problem. I'd apologize anyway. You obviously hurt him & he deserves a "sorry". You should definitely talk to him in person, though. Phone & internet conversations are often misinterpreted. [:
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