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I'm 5ft4 with dark blond hair I'm medium built and have blue eyes I'm very bubbly and am always up for a laugh I have loads of mates and a loving bf who I love alot I will answer any questions that you want answering as I'm like an agony aunt
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I have been on my period for a year and a half. And my boobs are still pretty small. Does anyone have any idea when they think my boobs will actually start growing? cuz i need to kno. If you are helpful. I will RATE YOU HIGH! PROMISE!!!!!
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your oviously a late develeper don't worry the first sign of growing up is starting your period the next step is your body changing so it won't be too long before you boobs start to grow


I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 15. I know that it's ok and that I don't need a boyfriend to make me happy, but I really want one. I see how happy my friends are with their relationships and I just want to feel that special feeling, you know? I don't wanna sound conceited but i don't think looks are the main problem. My friends tell me that I'm not flirtatious and outgoing like them. Its just that I feel awkward being flirtatious and always question myself like omg he doesnt like me and stuff. How do I become more flirtatious and outgoing to get a boyfriend? thanks so much (link)
ok you need to get some self-respect and love yourself believe that you can be different forget about what your friends say it's you who makes the decions so you need to get up and go flirt your hardest if your postures good then get out there and kick some butt lol what I mean is have faith in yourself your unique and have girl power so go show them boys what your made of hope i helped love sophie


i really like this guy and i cant get him off my mind. EVER i really do love him more than anything in this world but he just doesn't understand that. we were in one of those perfect relationships where he would call me at 3 in the morning just to see what i was doing or just because he wanted to hear my voice. !! one night he called me and asked me about my ex who was killed a few months ago, he didn't know that he was killed but he thought that i was still with him. but an hour later he broke up with me and i still dont know why. its been weeks and i still cry over him all the him. i dont think i could stand to cry over him one more time. he likes all these other girls now. i just dont know what to do or how to get over him.im sorry this is long but please answer me fast !!!! thank you !!
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ok he oviously doesn't understand you need to talk to him tell him everything you feel and explain that you weren't with your ex and that you love him he'll understand but if he doesn't then he's a tosser most boys are like this so try and maybe it will be ok


really weird problem - really need help. been with my bf for about 10 weeks.. everything is fine except the kissing. ever since we started going out hes know i've got a problem with it - i don't even know what it is myself but I just hate it! im really nervous and want to kiss him but... don't... at the same time! i get really worked up over it... once he got annoyed but he tries to be understanding... i really want to talk about it but what is there to say? what should i do?? (link)
Well it's natrual to be scared of kissing it's quite a big step to take but if you don't feel ready then talk to your bf about it and he might understand also if your not ready then it doesn't matter you've got plenty of time to get prepared


I*ve been going out with this guy for a little over 2 months now, and i really like him...but we dont ever see each other. We go to different schools, and we live one & a half hours away from each other. I see him when i go to my moms, every other weekend..but i dont think thats enough! Summers almost here and i*m gonna be at my moms house all summer, so i*ll be able to see him but people tell me that hes cheating on me and lying to me. I dont know what to do!!...... (link)
You need to talk to him and sort things out get things straight with him


I've been hooking up with this guy for about 3 monthes now. His birthday is in a few weeks (he'll be 17) and I have NO idea what to get him. We're not going out... just hooking up. His style is preppy and he's into sports too. Any ideas for gifts? I was thinking maybe a good cologne... any of you know anything that smells amazing? (I'm willing to spend up to around $35-$40)Thanks!!! (link)
you can never go wrong with lynx deodrant and showergel boys love it


18 and F, y'all and needing advice with a boy. Same thing.

Long story short, I've got a guy friend who's a big flirt. This wouldn't bother me if it wasn't for one thing -- he's really physical about it. He does stuff like rubbing my back and kissing my head, weird stuff that my other guy friends, even the flirts, don't do. And the worst part about it that he's got a girlfriend and god knows what she thinks.
This all makes me a little uncomfortable, but I don't know if I should bring it up with my friend, because I don't want things to be awkward between us -- and maybe I'm overreacting (see, I used to like this guy way back when). Plus, since I'm going to college this summer, I probably won't be seeing him as much and it won't be such a problem...so I'm thinking maybe I should just shut my trap about it, but I'm not sure that's the best idea. What do you guys think? (link)
if you feel uncomfortable then tell him so he a'int gonna stop if you don't tell him is he you got to be brave he's got a girlfriend thats bad just tell him straight then see what he has to say


My GF and i have been together for 8 months now and every once in a while she will get kinda upset at what i do sometimes but we always work it out. there are somthings that she does that bothers me too but i never bring it up i always ignore it, do you think i should bring it up or not? i need some help (link)
Yes in a relationship you should tell eachother everything


oh well my friend has this really great boyfriend. and i think i might be jelous..but i dont know. she knows that i thinks hes cute/hot and i promised her i would never go out with him jsut for her. but im knida jelouse of her. what can i do? thanks! (link)
Well I would just tell her that you have feeling for him and that you might be jelious


okay so I've been dating this guy for like well 2 weeks and i care for him with all my heart! and i think it might even b love! and i kno that he feels the same way i mean he tells me everyday how much he cares for me and stuff so im hoping he means it! well today my best friend just told me a bunch of stuff that i think is totally wrong about my bf like that he does drugs! and that he still is in love with his X! and ive talked to him about all this b4 and he told me that he would never do drugs and he loves me more that n e one! but then again most guys would say that right? so please help me! i dont know who to beleive (link)
Oviously it seems like your mate is jelous


What if someone said something offensive about you and you had a disablity, and ur friends and family didnt do much to defend you? I have the right to be mad right? I have the right to be mad at my family for not defending me right? what should i do? (link)
Stand up for yourself confront them and show them how they've made you feel


Are girls scared of erections? I mean if you're making out and they feel one, would they be freaked out? (link)
No my boyfriend gets loads of erections that rub up the side of my leg it doesn't bother me it kinda turns you on


13/f well i just found out the other night that my boyfriend (also 13) had sex a couple months ago at a party with a girl thats 15. we wernt together then but we were a couple months before that. i really love him and i know that i always will because we have such a good friendship but should i except this? so far i convinced myself that im okay with it but im not sure if i really am. i think that since hes already done it then hell try to pressure me into having sex. well what i want to know is should i except it and how? (link)
If he asks you if you feel ready then go for it if not wait don't let him pressure you into having sex with him most lads are like that


I had a first date with this guy Jack last night. We have been talking for a while, and so I asked him out, and we went to the movies, and to a friends house afterwards. The date itself was good, no akward silences, kept the conversation going, and he held my hand, which I wasnt expecting him to do, because he is quite shy. At the end of the night, he walked me to my door, and gave me a hug. I almost kissed him, because I thought he would be too shy to make a first move, but he turned away, so I ended up kissing his cheek (and I am so embaressed about it) He said that he didnt want to get me sick (he has been sick for the last week, or something) Do you think thats the real reason, or did he just not want to kiss yet? Is there anything I could say to him to fix this? (link)
perhaps he's to embarrased or mayb he doesn't know how too


im 15/f. ok, please dont judge me but i seriously need help! my boyfriend went away for a week and i was at home bored. but then one of my mates was having a party so i went. but i had a lot of stuff going on in my life so i started drinking to forget them. i know i shouldnt have but i did and i got really drunk. i dont really remember much but i do remember sleeping with a lad at the party. i dont think he used a condom either because he was really drunk too. should i tell my boyfriend or not? do you think he will forgive me because i really do love him? it was just a mistake!
Help me please! (link)
If your boyfriend loves you he'll forgive you he might be upset but he'll come over


Help! I making a CD mix for me and my boyfriend to listen to and need some names of some good romantic songs (aka good make out songs) Please help, I'll rate 5's. Thanks so much.
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What about love is in my heart
or your kiss is so tender
Tender kisses and loving hearts


I have a boyfriend that I love with all my heart but I'm bi.He doesn't know it. There was one time that he accidently called me bi and I fussed at him.I said he would probably like it if I was. He said he would never like that because she would be licking and then trying to kiss him.He said bi girls were nasty as hell. Because of that I haven't told him I was bi because I'm scared he is going to break up with me. What should I do? (link)
You got to tell him the truth it doesn't matter how he reacts and if he does break up with you then it's because he's shallow and he's not worth it


Hey gals,
to any of you who arent very close to your moms, how did you tell her when you started your period and how did she react? (link)
Well I'm not close to my mum and when it came i just told her


ok...so there is this guy...anyways i REALLY REALLY ThInK i like him and i ThInK he likes me 2 but i dont know! Every time i'm with him he's always like holding hands with me and trying to kiss me but we're not even going out! BUT, when some1 comes around it is like he doesn't want to be seen WITH ME WITH ME! like...as a couple...! i don't know what to do or how to tell him how i feel...do u have any ideas?
ThAnKs A BuNcH!* (link)
I know the feeling the same thing happened to me oi just told him upstaight that i'm not happy with all the fickleness just ask him why


aight im with this girl we've been together for 5 months. I really love her and care a lot about her.The last 5 months have been the best. she goes on spring break. She tells me on the phone one night while she was on spring break that she meet this girl and 2 guys. She told me that they hang out all week and they want out to eat one night and had some drinks. she told me she didn't cheat on me that these guys are just friends. She comes home and shows me pics and i see pics of her and just one guy. their were other pics of the other ppl but she was in pics huggin this guy. She told me again that they were just friends. But this guy calls her every night. Yea they live far apart but it bothers me really bad. I told her that it bothered me and she said she wouldn't talk to him anymore becasue i was more important but they next day she did. then she lied to me and tried to say it was sombody else. then i finally looked up the area code to show she was liein to me. I was hurt that she lied to me so i told her we need a break. we ended up gettin back togheter and she told me again she wouldn't answer his phone calls. but she did and she called me and told me she talked to him. But she says that im bein controling which im try not to be. I finally told her she can talk to him and do what she wants. But it bothers me and i don't know what to do. (link)
Just let her go oviously she doesn't give a toss about you find someone who you can trust




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