My name is Heather! I love to play basketball, softball, and A LOT of other sports. I love school because I get to be with my friends and I hate being without friends. I couldn't live with out friends. I love to talk! My parents are always like shut up Heather and I always annoy them...haha I think it's fun. I've made straight A's in school my whole life and I think this year it's gunna change. I might skip a grade one year because I am able to now. When I was little I missed the cutoff in Pre-K by like 1 week and they wouldn't let me through to kindergarten so I ended up going to pre-K twice. Now I am older than most of my friends. I have blonde hair, blue-green hazel eyes, I'm 5'4, I have a foot that is size 11-12. Well...that's about everything!
Gender: Female
Location: Evans, Georgia
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
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I tried out for my school play, but I didn't make it. I had to sing The Star Spangled Banner and I did good, but I can do better. I was in a Christmas play and did a solo. I did really good. When I'm in front of people I get really nervous even though I'm really good and people can't tell I'm nervous. I can only sing when I'm alone! Imagining people aren't there dosen't help either. :(
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I'm sry it took so long for me to answer but I sing and do all that stuff too....you need to just calm down and maybe stare at your friend to make u feel better or if youre in a band and have other people on stage with you hang around with them and dance around then and pretend ur practicing. Just pretend like no one's listening. I dont kno anymore to help u
xo Heather ox
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Hey i really need your help.. okay i like my ex again and weve gone out like 20 times and i think i broke up with him last and that was like 2 weeks ago and he told his friend that he didnt wantn to go out becuase ive broken up with him like 20 times... what do i do ?
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i have no clue
im sry i couldnt help
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ok i was thinking about taking up fast pitchpitcing. ive been practicing amost everyday for a couple of weeks... i play 15&under how do u think i could ever be good enought to be in a game? what could i work on to make me good? (link)
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I play softball and when u get in that league you have to be really good and if it's your first time playing it's gunna be a little harder than it is for everyone else. If you want to be outfield you have to kno how to run and catch balls and things likes that. If you wanna be 1st base you have to have awesome reflexes and you haev to be able to tag...play the game...and catch. 2nd and 3rd same as first. If you are the catcher you have to have good knees and be able to catch balls and move quickly. if you wanna be the pitcher you need to take lessons and be able to do everything! It's a bit harder when ur the pitcher and you have to kno how to ignore the audience. I'm the pitcher for my team...IT"S HARDDD...ignore the other team when they try to make u mess up because it works...just pretend that ur the only one there!
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I cut myself. I've been cutting for about half a year. I've never had a problem hiding it or anything. Just recently I've been trying to stop. I know its bad. My problem is that I have P.E. starting 2nd semester (in January) and I don't know how to hide the scars (I'm going to have it 2nd period if it helps). My parents don't know, and I don't want them to know either. We have to wear uniforms so I don't know how I'm gonna pull this off. Also, bracelets and jewelry aren't allowed. Any ideas? Thank you (link)
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I know it's hard to stop cutting yourself because I think I know what you have but i don't know what it's called.
You cut yourself and it relieves the stress and pain and stuff like that..
Go to a theripist or whatever it is...*blondes*
you neeed help because you can end up killing yourself!!! THAT WOULDN"T BE GOOD AT ALL.
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Ok: so i love scary movies... spook houses, and doing the ouiji board. I live down in the basement all alone and after seeing freaky movies... like Saw I can't sleep. I think that there in my basement gonna come kill me.. and even though I'm 16... i still sleep with my t.v. on all night... even though I can't stand a speck of light in the night i LOVE watchinng scary movies... but i get so scared I sometimes cry! What can I do? (link)
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It's normal to have like flashbacks of the movie...it happens to me also..and i have other things that happen too but im not going to talk about it while im alone...scarrryyy...lol! well dont worry!
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I already saw someone with an ADD question, but I'd thought I'd make my own. Lately I haven't been concentrating on anything in class. I don't have THAT much stuff on my mind, and when some people get bored, they're still able to concentrate--just being bored. I can't even do that. My question is, what are the signs of having ADD, and what is it exactly?? I would tell myself in class, "Okay, I need to concentrate..." seriously like 10 seconds later, I'm off in space again...and I won't realize it until like a minute later, and even then I won't concentrate, I'll just keep thinking about other things. And that same pattern just goes on and on again...
Also, if you for sure have ADD, what are you supposed to do about it? Do they give you medicine or anything? (link)
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I don't think you have ADD because if you did u would lose your topic on this question but...if you have it you will notice it at home also. They don't give you medicine but you have to have therapy or something like that. You might be paraniod because people are talking about it also...
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Hey, i'm a 15 year old girl turning 16 n a few months. I'v never had confidence in myself and to be conpletely honest i kinda hate myself. I think im fat and ugly and i try to lose weight but nothings good enough.I'v never had a boyfriend in my life let alone had a guy tell me im pretty. My friends are pretty and they always have guys asking them out but i juss feel stupid hangin with them sometimes, like i dont belong. For the past few years i have resorted to cuttig myself. I'v only done it 3 times but i dont wanna go to counscling or anything cuz my parents and every1 will think im crazy i dunno what to do can you help me? (link)
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Well....you might think you're fat but if guys walk past and say ur pretty..believe me ur not fat. Just because you don't have a boyfriend now...it's not the end of the world..when all ur friends are losing their boyfriends you will get one...there is always someone out there for you. I promise. Stop cutting your self though..you will get scars and they're not pretty and people will think ur a lunitic..Im not trying to be rude..but it's true!
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hey its X Lissa X ..Okay ive felt like crap all day. you know that feeling you get in your stomach when you havent ate anything all day or your really really hungry? well ive had it all day, even now and ive ate stuff too but it still wont go away and it HURTS! idk what could be wrong. does anyone know? and how cani stop it cuz i wont be able to sleep.. thanks a lot. (link)
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I dont know but i think it's normal because it happens to me a lot and nothing's wrong with me..ur hungry but when you try to eat it hurts like **** but...just wait and if it continues see your nearest doctor!!
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I like this site and I goto to this site to try and give helpful advice or even to receive some, why is that people are such jerks on here? They give bad advice or stupid comments to someones advice!! And there will probably be a whole bunch of people who will give a dumb remark to this question! Why do people come an give stupid advice like "go kill yourself" or "your a loser" or some stupid comment! Honestly do these people get a thrill out of making fun of someone ? Why do these people sign up for this website if they are just going to give horrible advice? Does anyone agree? Doesn't it seem stupid and pointless? (link)
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Ignore all those jerks and try to ask questions to people that actually try to help you...they just sign up to annoy people..how rude..
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Hi, i went to skewl at a catholic skewl, but we lived with my grandmom so we moved away, far away. I like my neew house and all but now i live really far away from my best friends. I miss them a lot and i call them a lot. But i keep getting scared thinking that in like 1 month we wont be friends anymore. Its a scary thought and we probably wont be friends 4ever. But i'm 13 yrs old and it would be great if we could be friends till we get our licenses (driving). Does any1 kno how we can be friends that long? (link)
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Yeah you can..I have a friend that moved to Pennsylvania and we're friends still...I do miss her bunches!! But if you keep in touch with them and don't lose them you will be okay..then when you can drive you can visit each other!! YAY!
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srry if this is long but
there is this kid in my school and he is shorter me and not very good lookin but i still lik him alot and no one understands and ppl always make fun of me for likin him and i already went out wif him lik 3 times b4 and he dumped me all the times but i still rely lik him and alot of ppl make fun of me for it and i hate how no one understands mee
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If you just ignore what the people say and act like it doesn't bother you..they might stop..I have the same problem, I'm going out with this guy and I like him but my friends are like WHY HIM? They make fun of me...it bothers me..but I try not to let it show. And if he dumped you that many times...i think you might need to find another guy..
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okay well i have this problem..there is this guy and i have been going out with him for about 2 months..and i went to a party with him last weekend..and for some really weird reason..it was really weird to be around him..like i didnt want to go out with him ne more..and hes really nice and all..but i keep comparin him to my ex bf..who is going out with my friend..and he was like my very first love..and i just cant get over him! and its irritating..well anyways back to the current boyfriend situation..he hasnt talked to me whatsoever this week..so im thinkin that i should breakup with him cuz i dont think he likes me ne more..and i dont think i like him ne more..
so here are my questions..should i break up with him? and if so how should i do it (like what should i say) and HOW CAN I GET OVER MY EX! lol cuz i really want to..but its just always coming back to haunt me (link)
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Welll....first you have to figure out what to do with your boyfriend...if he's not talking to you..then go up and talk to him and find out why he's not talking to you. Then your ex...well just tell yourself that you can't go out with him and then forget about it...I kno things do haunt you, but forget it.
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ok i have a rash on my back, it has little red bumps going all down my spine.. its really ichy and really red! im really scared because i dont know what it is!! PLEASE HELP ME IM SO SCARED!!!!!!
Thanks so much for all y'all who can help!
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it's probably poison ivy or something like that...if it doesn't go away within one week..go see your doctor!
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Ok I have my cartilage pierced and it's beel pierced since the end of May. I ran out of the cleaning stuff the store gave me and now it's infected and swollen. I was wondering what I could use to clean it. I have hydrogen peroxide and isperyl alcohol (not sure if that's what it's called). Would either of those work or should I use something else? Thanks! I rate! (link)
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yeah...both of them work... but if you want less string use the hydrogen peroxide...
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ok so,i play like every sport there is except rugby and football...cuz im a girl...all my friends say that im amazimg cuz when i get home from school iu do my homework get online then sports the rest of the night..but sometimes i goto basketball then to soccer then to lacrosse then to swimming. everyone says that i should quiet mayb 3 sports and only havge like 3 sports to do...should i quit? but i always have time for them...i rate REALLY high..*but it has to be good please!) (link)
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follow what you want to do..i do think that's a bit much to do at one time because you could overwork yourself and then get hurt and not be able to do any sports if you wanna do sports i would suggest doing about 2 or 3 at a time...but im not gunna make that decision for you.
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Our nice little group of friends is going through a bunch of crap. And, yes, I did in fact mean CRAP. The deal is simple. A lot of us have realized how extremely bad the school year has been going. We seem to be growing apart, and getting more and more agrivated with one another. The things is, we really really want to stay friends, but all of us want different things. Some of us wish that everything at school wasn't treated like one big joke, and need someone to talk to. Others wish things were like last year when we all were carefree and didn't have a worry in the world (meaning never did have serious conversations at school).
The biggest thing is that no one feels that they can talk to anyone. Everyone feels very alone this year. Especially because two of our friends moved away over the summer.
We want to have a good relationship with eachother, but are pretty much clueless on how to accomplish this goal. So, how can we bring our group back together?
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maybe you should give them a break and then maybe later you can come back friends again..ive had to do that before...it lasted 2 weeks!!! thats pretty long to break up with ur friends!
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Ok I've got a boyfriend who I love and who loves me but lately he's been really confusing me because he flirts with two of my best friends and it makes me jelous even if he's mine anyway he keeps smoking weed and injects himself with heroin but i don't who if he's telling the truth but he's got little marks on his arm and I'm really worried about him if it's true he could die and I know Id be really upset if he died how can I talk to him about it because he thinks it's cool and his mate does it to (link)
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seriously you should talk to him because he DOES need to stop the smoking weed and injecting himself because he's either gunna die or get REALLY sick...maybe he doesn't realized that he's flirting with your friends or maybe u just get paranoid because he's hanging out with other girls...
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does anyone know a website that can help me with translating french to english?!...or if there is anyone on this website that can help me!! (link)
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If you have AIM, add smarterchild to your list....say hi, then type in tools, then press 8, then type in french, and then type in whatever you need to be translated in english and it will be given to u in french!
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i feel like when im playing sports i have certain expectations to look up to cuz my sisters are all awesome at soccer and basketball and then there me and i think im not that good. but all my friends disagree. idk...wut do i do? (link)
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Maybe your sisters are awesome, but there is always going to be someone out there that is better than u whether it's ur sisters or someone else. When you play a sport play it to have fun, not to be better than them.
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