really weird problem - really need help. been with my bf for about 10 weeks.. everything is fine except the kissing. ever since we started going out hes know i've got a problem with it - i don't even know what it is myself but I just hate it! im really nervous and want to kiss him but... don't... at the same time! i get really worked up over it... once he got annoyed but he tries to be understanding... i really want to talk about it but what is there to say? what should i do??
LifesNoStoryBook answered Saturday July 23 2005, 11:47 pm: Its natural to be scared of kissing. Wait until you're comfortable with it. If you don't want to wait, just keep doing it. Maybe you'll learn to love it and won't feel so weird about it.
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wildNcrazy231 answered Saturday July 23 2005, 10:12 am: Its normal to be scared of kissing. Just tell him your not ready to kiss yet and can we take things slower. The most important thing is not to let him pressure you into kissing him. Your the only one who can decide when your ready to kiss him. Don't rush things go at your own pace. [ wildNcrazy231's advice column | Ask wildNcrazy231 A Question ]
ncblondie answered Saturday July 23 2005, 9:32 am: It's better to wait until you're comfortable with it before trying kissing. Just tell your boyfriend that for now kissing isn't really your thing and ask tell him you'd prefer waiting until you're ready. If he's a good guy, and it seems he is since you said he's trying to be understanding, he'll wait until you're ready and not push the issue. [ ncblondie's advice column | Ask ncblondie A Question ]
Orlandoxluva answered Saturday July 23 2005, 9:15 am: Well it's natrual to be scared of kissing it's quite a big step to take but if you don't feel ready then talk to your bf about it and he might understand also if your not ready then it doesn't matter you've got plenty of time to get prepared [ Orlandoxluva's advice column | Ask Orlandoxluva A Question ]
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