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Hey everybody ! I'm Callie. I'm from St. Louis Missouri.. yes yes SoCo,Mo. I'm 16. sophomore at MHS. 2010 bitchesss. I'm involed in a whole bunch of shit at school .. I'm class president for the 2nd year and a StuCo officer. StuCo is more than a club, it`s a passion. I`m in Paws & Peace, STL, yearbook, A+ tutoring, Sophomore Executive, cheerleading. I`m an over achiever and I love it.




I LOvE to give advice; if you ask me a question you will get an answer. If you ask a dumb question, you will get a dumb answer. Easy as that. You can ask me about anything; I know what I should for my age, maybe more. I've been through alot.. maybe not all personally but I've seen alot of shit happen with my friends and just people around school. I'll help as best as I can. Any question you ask I will answer it as best that I possibly can.. even if it's just and honest answer of " I don't know. "



Don't rate me bad because you feel like it. If I don't answer your question the way you wanted me to, then don't rate me bad.. just don't rate me. If you honsetly think that my advice to you was absolutly horrible then okay rate me bad. I don't mind. Please comment when you rate me thought :)


If you wanna want to ask me anything at all, I have an AIM screen name. Don't send me messages on here saying ILY or HAPPY BIRTHDAY or THANKS or anything like that. Send me an IM or comment. Advicenators gets mad if you send it in my inbox. I also have facebook that I'm compleatly addicted to, it's kinda sad. But if you have a question that you want answered right away, send me a message on facebook. I'm on there atleast twice a day.. not on here so much. If you're not old enought to have facebook.. I also have myspace. I'm on there about once a week. But still.. more than this. I'm really gonna try and start this up again. I really enjoy giving and receiving advice so I'm gonna try hard. My screen name is on the bar along the side. If you IM me I'll tell you my usernames for myspace and what not.


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i dont know where to put this so i decided here... any ways. i have small stretch marks on my hips and i was wondering what can i do to get rid of them and how long will it take

thanks

cocoa butter! thats what alot of women use after they have kids.
--KALIE

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I decided this year to skip over the bikini for a one piece bathing suit because I have a chunky stomach...but I have no idea where to get a cute one at!! All the one pieces I see are all ugly. I really dont want to wear a bikini because I feel self-conscious but I may have to resort to that if I cant find a good one-piece, something cute and sexy. So please help me! Thanks everyone who helps!!

no offence, but good luck finding a sexy one piece!
--KALIE

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month and a half. One time, he just kept telling me how he wanted to kill my friend Dan because he flirts with me and always asks about hooking up.He's also really mad because I'm sleeping over my friends house and Dan's sleeping over too, but not in the same room or anything.I'll tell my boyfriend to STOP and all he does is keep on talking about killing him like I didn't even say anything in the first place. Then, I told my boyfriend some things and I told him I only wanted this to be between us. So he just goes to school (we dont go to the same school) and he goes and complains to two of his friends about it. Then one of them calls me and starts interrogating me about the situation. What can I do? He barely even listens to me.

tell him that yes, dan does flirt with you but you DO NOT flirt back and that he is the only one that you want to be with and dan is just jealous and that he shouldnt be getting mad.
--KALIE

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Hello there i'm having problems getting pregnant, we've been trying for over a year and i still have had no results. i don't don't understand what is wrong with me. i do have irregular periods and when seem to be ontime i always watch my fertile days and all but still no luck. What can i do to speed things up? please help!!

talk to a gynecologist.
--KALIE

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Ok, well, my friend...RG, I have known him since kindergarden and we're in 7th now. And he's in my 2 longest classes ((We have blocks at our school)) and sometimes we have pe together.Well, everyone thinks i like him. I supposively act like i do...but secretly i do. I don't know why. I just got over him, because i knew he'd never like me but here i go fallin for him again. I don't know what it is that attracts me to him so much. He's tall, ((6'1)) he alwayys smells good, and makes me laugh. He smiles whenever I laugh or laughs at me whenever i giggle because he's tickling my ears. He's gotta girlfriend. I guess he seems to be happy with her. Everytime I see them hug I just want to rip her hair out. Yeah jealousy I know..I guess it's hard for me too move on i just don't know what to do..

have you tried telling him how you feel? because maybe he thinks thats just how you are; flirty. but he doesnt know thats how you really feel. it seems like he likes you too but has a girl friend so hes not putting himself out there for you. but idk. i just think you should tell him that you like him and see what he has to say about it.
-- KALIE

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ok, i have a laptop and recently one of my keys came out, the | and \ key if that helps, is there a way i can put it back in without sending it out for repair? and if i send it out for repair, how long does it take and do they turn on the computer? becusae i really dont want a strange person going through my files...thanks ♥

keys on a keyboard can come off so you will be able to clean it. try to push the key back in. why not do it yourself if youre just gonna do the same thing the repair person would, and you would have to pay him!
--KALIE

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I went to the doctors yesterday, im 5'6 and weigh 210 lbs(f) I know it's wicked bad. I know what i have to do and i am doing it. Im just really self conscious. I dont even look that heavy, cus im really muscular. Im just worried that a boy will never like me. Will they? please help

boys around this age either care a whole lot or they dont give a flying pickle. boys will definatly like you but dont let things get to you if a boy doesnt like you because of your wieght, you deserve better. there will be more then plenty of boys out there that want to be with you.
-- KALIE

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Prom is coming up fast... and at first i wasnt even going to go. But my friends convinced me. But now im dateless. There is this one guy i wanna ask. I've liked him for awhile but i have no clue how to ask him. i asked my friend who knows him if he knew if he was going. He said prom wasnt really his thing. But then i asked does he think if i asked him would he go... he said he would. Im soo confused... what should i do??? Ask him to prom??? Or should i leave it alone???

Lost Angel

ask him! he said that if you asked then he would go! definatly ask him! see im only in 8th grade so i havent totally gone threw the whole 'prom' thing yet and 8th grade social is at the end of may so yeahhh sorry.. i dont have suggestions about how to ask him except to just flat out ask him face to face!
-- KALIE

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Let me start off by saying that I'm taking a very hard class. An AP class in high school. Anywho, I've been extremely stressed/overwhelmed/depressed because of it because of the ridiculous workload and amount of material to study. So, I started seeing a psychologist. All he tells me is that even if I fail the class, my life won't be ruined. And I know that, but truly believing it is hard. People keep telling me to do my best and that's all, but how do I know what my best is? Studying all day every day and getting no sleep? I don't know. I want a life, too. So, I told my teacher everything and she said that I should see a councelor. I did and she said it was too late to drop it unless a doctor says my health is at risk. I told the psycologist that and he said he'd talk to the school if it got worse. Well I hadn't told my mom ANY of this, and when she found out, she said I can't drop out. That devastated me. She said that I can only study for a certain time every day and that's all. But there's SO much. For example, this weekend I have to study for a test and read 60 pages of a textbook (I read about 1 page in 5 minutes. I know, I'm a slow reader :[). I also have to color a map and label every city and every country and it's just...flat out ruining my whole social and mental life. I can't study for other classes anymore, and the grades are slowly but surely dropping. Also, there's a 100 article project where I have to summarize 100 newspaper articles pertaining to different topics and give my opinion on 50 of them and back up another 50 with historical analyses. I have 18 done. It's do May 1. I just don't know what to do anymore. Please help.

woahhh!! that totally sucks! the only thing i could think of is schedule a meeting or gathering where you, your counciler, teacher(s), psychologist, and your mom can talk about the situation. i had the same problem with algebra this year. i went from a 'b+' to a 'd-'. i did extra credit and im currently trying to get a tutor. talk to your teacher about things like that too.
-- KALIE

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i need teens to answer this only please!!
anyway so i have this perverted frien who likes to look at you know pictures and sites and stuff of women and he is only like 15. He is my really good friend but he is getting really perverted. I don't not want to be with him and i've already talked to him about his "habit" what should i do?

by "i dont not want to be with him" do you mean? maybe i just read it wrong or something... but anyways.. hes a guy and you cant really do much about it. i mean... boys will be boys! hell grow out of it sooner or later, but for now just ignore whatever he says.
-- KALIE

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Well my grades have been slipping alot latly and i am trying my hardest and my parents dont seem to get that they think that im just being lasey i dont know what to do to try even harder to get my grades were they used to be! The next grade card is in 2 weeks!ahhh HELP PLEASE


Alyssa/13

talk to your teachers. see if there is a time for tutoring or studying or getting help after school. check and see if there is any opportunities for extra credit. but dont stressed over it because that will make you slack off. show your parents that you are being responsible, let them know that you are seeking help and really dont understand things and that you are trying your hardest.
-- KALIE

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sorry if this is difficult but im 13 (almost 14) and have never had a boyfriend. My firends tell me all the time im beautiful and i dont think im ugly or anyhting. the thing is ive had offers and stuff, but never really felt like i should be doing it. maybe its form my parents influence but up until now i didnt see anyhting wrong with it. whenever i think about it makes me feel as if no guys want me and that something is wrong with me and then i start to cry and feel really bad about myself?
what im asking is 3 questions

1. is there something worng with me?

2. should i be doing something to help me get a boyfriend

3. what things do i do?

theres nothing wrong with you! you said that youre beautiful and youve had offers. if you arent comfordable with having a boyfriend right now then dont force yourself just because "everyone else has one" or "youre 13 now and its that age" . just wait til the right one comes around, and in the mean time it wont hurt to mess around with a couple of the 'wrong' ones! lol!
--KALIE

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Hey, I'm getting my haircut tomorrow and I know I want something a little different, but I have no idea what! I was thinking of maybe short layers in the front and long layers in the back, but I'm not sure. Right now, my hair is about 3 inches below my shoulder, and I want just 1 inch off. I also want it to be straight. If it helps, here's a picture of me: http://www.myspace.com/go_weasel

Thanks, I'll take any suggestions! I'm really bad with hair, so please help!

angle your hair! it would look really cute!!
i would give you a link to see what it looks like but my computer is being really gay and not lettin me open the website! so i say google it or something! sorry!
-- KALIE

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What's a site that I can make my own web page? I need something like geosites but without having to use all the HTML.

maxpages.com
i dont know how easy it is to use or not, but my pom squad has thier web page on maxpages and its pretty cool!
-- KALIE

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I need you help guys and girls.
Ok,,, Well the problem is that I don't know what to do next. I can't seem to find the right type of guy. The ones who really like me are the ones im not really interested in. There's one boy who loves me alot. His name is JD. He's ok. He loves me ALOT. I DONT feel the same way about him though. Should I just keep searching for the hotties or settle down in the commitment relationship thing? Im so frustraited that I can find love. HELP! I RATE! ..
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it would help if your age was included because if youre somewhere around my age then it shouldnt be something on your mind, and if youre somewhere around my moms age then dont settle for someone whos not what you want and dont give up hope either.
-- KALIE

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is there a way that i can delete everything off my computer. i want to be as fast as it used to be when i first got it. can someone tell me a good way and is there a way where i can my written documents on a cd (not a floppy disk because i have one in my computer)? thanks. i will rate

i recently just had everything on my computer deleted because it was slow. my mom hired someone to take the computer for a day and take care of it. my mom had things saved in folders on a kingston card (one of those small rectangle things, teachers at my school wear them on thier ID keychain). they plug into the same thing that you would plug your ipod in to charge it. mine holds 128mb, you can buy them with different amounts. they really come in handy especially if you dont have a floppy thing!
--- KALIE

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okay, well my friend got fingered for the first time the other day and now she's been worrying about it. she think's that she is pregnant but i'm telling her that she can't be because it's totally impossible because she didn't have sex or anything. and she hasn't gotten her period and she's 2weeks late. i told her that i think it's because she doesn't have a regular period, because she hasn't had it for over 2years and normally that's when it starts getting regular. her boyfriend only fingered her, she didn't do anything to him so i'm really not sure what to tell her except that she isn't pregnant. what do you guys think?

PS. when she got fingered after she bled alittle, and i told her that maybe he scratched her or something because you never know.

youre right. shes not pregnant. except if there was a sperm released out of his finger or something but i highly doubt that. and if shes late then its okay, even after 2 years it still isnt always normal. for the past year i have been 2 weeks late and ive had mine for over 3 years. so just keep saying what you are.

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What do you think is the average age to get your first kiss?

it really depends on the person. my first kiss was in pre school at nap time. but the my first kiss that really ment something was in 6th grade. alot of people wait and alot of people dont. but about the middle school-ish age.

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My ex and i havent been together for 18 mos. now.
Hes had a gf for over a year, but the relationship burned out as quickly as it started.(they had sex the 2nd night they hung out) Him and i did alot of stuff, but we didnt have sex completely>(I didnt let him go in all the way> we liked each other since 7th grade, but we didnt start going out until our soph. year)We grew to love each other. This last gf that hes been with is as easy as they come(she will have sex with any guy) Shes 16 and has had at least 6 partners that i know of. My ex and her fought all the time. She told me he was an ass to her, but she would always keep taking him back! Its just a vicious cycle. He told me they fell in love very fast. I told him thats not love and that love takes time to grow, and he told me not to tell him what love is because he already knows!!! His version and mine arent the same by any means!! Sex is very sacred to me and i take it very seriously. This girl he cant seem to let go of throws it around like it means nothing to her!
When we were together>he never wanted to be with anyone else, just the two of us. He didnt want to hang out or do anything with anybody>just us two!! He was the very same way with his last gf too, but way worse! All they did was screw all the time! He lost all of his friends because of it. I wanted him to spend time with his friends and he always took that the wrong way, like i didnt want to be with him.
Since hes had her, he looks at relationships so differently now. When he was with me, he told me that hes not like that, and he didnt care if he got any, he just wanted to be with me!
We've hung out 2 times now since they have been broken up. The first time was last Nov. In the 3 hrs we hung out, we wrestled, gave each other back rubs, then he started making out with me. I was cool with that until he asked me to let him "stick it in". I told him no! He asked me at least 4 more times after, and i just kept saying no. I didnt hear from him after that. He told me he made his choice and wanted her back! 3 mos. later after they broke up again...we hung out once again! This time we just cuddled. The things that he was saying to me, i couldnt believe that was him talking! He told me he wants someone experienced, and that he doesnt want a virgin. *Theyre no fun*! (well screwing his last ex must feel like a virgin because he told me she bleeds everytime they do it) Shes been with another guy and he brags to everyone what they do and he talks so much crap about her, but he told me shes easy and thats all he wants. She still calls my ex says she still loves him, goes to his house before going to this other guys house. He doesnt care that she has sex with other guys just as long as he knows she still loves him and he will wait for her for as long as it takes.(just as long as she still gives him what he needs) and im sure she does.
He told me that im not up to par. I have been known to "Kiss" a guy here and there. wow, "kissing" verses "sex".
I thought that guys wanted girls that havent been around! How could he have changed soo much, and think that sex is love?? He can tell me hes in love with her all he wants, but i know, and so does everyone else>that hes in love with the SEX!! If he cared about her, he wouldnt be treating her like shit, and calling her a slut!!
So if any guys are reading this>please help me to understand what love is to them!!
Will rate high! Im sorry this is so long!

wow he sounds like a loser for sure! one of my ex's that is like one of my closest friends now, tells me all the stuff that he does with the girls down where he moved to. i just dont let it bother me. you have to do the same. dont let it get to you. he doesnt seem like 'your type' so when you too hang out dont get so 'physical'. make a friendship with him and let him figure out the hard way that theres more to love besides sex.

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I can wear 32A or 32B, but most stores don't carry size 32, they usually start at 34. Does anyone know where I can get a nice push-up, cleavage-enhancing, curve-enhancing bra in size 32A or 32B for under $30? I've tried Target, Kohls, and Macy's, but I didn't find any I liked. and I'm pretty sure Victoria's Secret bras start at size 34. Any help would be much appreciated :)

target!! i get like all of mine at target and i love them all! theyre pretty cheap too!!

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