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Single or Destined?
I need you help guys and girls.
Ok,,, Well the problem is that I don't know what to do next. I can't seem to find the right type of guy. The ones who really like me are the ones im not really interested in. There's one boy who loves me alot. His name is JD. He's ok. He loves me ALOT. I DONT feel the same way about him though. Should I just keep searching for the hotties or settle down in the commitment relationship thing? Im so frustraited that I can find love. HELP! I RATE! ..
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Well, you didn't state your age, so if you're my age, 15, then you still have plenty of time. Find someone who you really like, who you want to be with. Don't settle just because you can't find anyone you want to be with. You will find someone, it may take some time, but it'll happen.
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it would help if your age was included because if youre somewhere around my age then it shouldnt be something on your mind, and if youre somewhere around my moms age then dont settle for someone whos not what you want and dont give up hope either.
-- KALIE
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You didn't state your age, but Im assuming your a teen. With that assumption, Don't even worry about a committed relationship. You just need to get to know alot of different guys. Think of it as going to a buffet, you taste all different kinds of food befor you know what you like best right?
Take the time to "date" different guys, learn what you like and dislike about each one. Then when it's time to settle down with the "Right" guy you'll know exactly what qualities you want in a man.
Good luck!
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Don't go out with a guy you aren't interested in. It leads them to think that you really have feelings for them when you actually don't. It ends up hurting the guy, and you don't want to do that.
Don't just look for the "hotties." Guys may seem different, but they are human beings, just like girls. There's so much more to someone than a pretty face or a hot body.
Don't feel like you need to settle down and have a serious relationship. You never said your age, but I'm guessing that you're still young and that you have many years of your life ahead of you. You'll meet so many new guys. Don't feel like you need a serious relationship now- In many cases, the best things come to those who wait. When you find that special guy, you'll know. :o)
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
-Manders
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Well, I mean I would suggest keep looking but maybe don't be so hard on the guy you choose, meaning settle more on personality than looks. well hope that helped!
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your still young you have time to find the right guy. I would say stay with the hotties until you find the right person. So keep looking but don't let yourself get lonely. And i think you should stay out of the really long relationships unless its someone you really care for because they will probally end up liking you more than you like them and it is hard to break up with a long term relationship.
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Hey, well its kind of shallow that you only like guys if they are hot. There are so many guys that like you but dont like them because they are ugly. I think if you really dont like them just keep searching. Youll find one unexpectidly =].
Good luck.
♥ Michelle
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