I went to the doctors yesterday, im 5'6 and weigh 210 lbs(f) I know it's wicked bad. I know what i have to do and i am doing it. Im just really self conscious. I dont even look that heavy, cus im really muscular. Im just worried that a boy will never like me. Will they? please help
squirrell answered Saturday March 18 2006, 5:34 pm: yes they will like you! Just keep one thing in mind, guys hate if if you seem too desperate, clingy or needy and DON'T try too hard they hate that avoid this and they will. It just might take a bit and who knows maybe a guy is into you and just too shy to say anything. [ squirrell's advice column | Ask squirrell A Question ]
X0HMichelle answered Saturday March 18 2006, 1:23 pm: Hey. Dont think that way. 1st: If you let your inner beauty shine thats whay people will see. And its stupid to be self concious because there is a person out there for everyone and a boys will like you. If you continue to eat right and exersize regularly you wont have to worry =].
♥ Michelle [ X0HMichelle's advice column | Ask X0HMichelle A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Saturday March 18 2006, 12:43 pm: Sweetie, I'm 5'7 and weigh about 190. My doctor (who by the way weighed about 300 pounds) kept telling me my BMI was way too high... but I'm a Black Belt in karate! It doesn't mean you're unhealthy or too heavy. Don't worry about it, and NEVER resort to losing your muscles just so some silly boy will like you. Real men like you for who you are :) [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
girdy_goo15 answered Saturday March 18 2006, 12:42 pm: well im about the same 5'5 and 209 lbs. if you are yourself then what else can you be? well okay do you have like any quality that's not like other people's? are you good at sports or school? well also flaunt it. if someone makes a bad comment like fat "jokes" then just laugh, they won't keep doing it. and if you find someone you like just start making him notice you like if he looks at you look at him and then look away. kinda flirt with him!!!! if you need any other help my e-mail is girdy_goo15@yahoo.com
if you need anything just give me a holla. [ girdy_goo15's advice column | Ask girdy_goo15 A Question ]
lyssaxox3 answered Saturday March 18 2006, 11:40 am: dear weight,
dont worry about the guys....a guy that truly loves you will love you for you, not for how you look. its not all aobut looks ((sometthing i learned the hard way)) and acttually looks really arnt very import for mature guys...sure those shallow immature guys mught say shit but let them...there just jealous...if you know what you have to do then stick to that...right now guys dont have to be a big worry!!
DeadMemories answered Saturday March 18 2006, 11:32 am: I know how it feels to be over weight and muscular. I am 5'8 and I weight 219. But I'm also like you, big boned. Yes, boys will grow up and they will soon go out with you. My sister is short and fat and she has a husband. So things will work out, even if they don't seem to right now.
tasuki answered Saturday March 18 2006, 10:58 am: OF COURSE THEY WILL!
Stupid, shallow boys might think you're unattractive. But they don't matter one bit.
Some boys won't like you, and that's the way it goes. But some will! It's impossible to have EVERYBODY not like you. Just have confidence, and don't stand around waiting for a guy to like you. It doesn't work like that. You have to talk to guys in order for them to think anything about you. [ tasuki's advice column | Ask tasuki A Question ]
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