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so i bought these jeans at abercrombie in a mall in ny and im going to a diffrent mall tomorrow in ny.. can i return them at abercrombie at the diffrent mall or does it have to be the same mall you bought them from?? (link)
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You can return them at any Abercrombie you want; it doesn't have to even be in NY. Just make sure you have the tags (preferrably attached) and the receipt. :)
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Hey my boyfriend well im his first girlfriend and i want to know how to act around him and what not to do and when i should push for other things like a first kiss and write him a love not etc please help me and tell me what is right and wrong (link)
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Well, all you can really do is be yourself. That's the best thing. Don't try to force anything that may make you or hi incomfortable. But, you can slighly initiate some things or drop hints so he knows if you want to kiss or something. Just make sure you're always honest with him and tell him how you are feeling, in time and when he's ready he will too. Make your choice from what you are picking up on him. And instead of a love note, you could start off with just writing him a simple note or text or something saying "I just wanted you to know I was thinking about you, mauh!" So basically, don't force anything, follow his lead, but if there's nothing be patient and initiate a little something, be yourself, and HAVE FUN! :)
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so my boyfriend wants to finger me
but im not sure
because one, i can only fit one finger in my vagina
is this normal?
two, i shave all my pubic hair off but it grows back
does it bother a guy if theres stubble?
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You should never go along with doing something before you feel emotionally ready--or until your body is ready either. If you and your boyfriend are at the stage in your relationship where you are comfortable enough with each other to be that intimate then there shoud be no doubts in your mind. You should also feel comfortable with him seeing you just as is. If there's any question, you just aren't ready. If your boyfriend respects you he won't do anything that may hurt you, so you need to speak up if something doesn't feel right. :)
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does anyone know if an AB540 student can turn in FAFSA after the deadline?? (link)
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You can file and complete a FAFSA anytime after the deadline; however, you may not get all the funding or any at all. Funds are allotted on a first come first serve basis until they are exhausted. So, the earlier, the better, but you can always file late. :)
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How easy is it to get pregnant off pre cum? I was having sex with my boyfriend And the condom TOTALY ripped while he was inside of me and im not on birth control.
What are some REALLY early signs of pregnancy (link)
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Well, you o have a chance of getting pregnant everytime you have sex; precum included. However, the percentage is lower slighly.
Some signs of pregnancy would include:
-Late period
-Spotting/Bloody discharge
-Morning Sickness
-Headaches
-Cramping
You may want to take an at home pregnancy test close to your period and go to a doctor and get on birth control to always have a back up in case that happens again.
But remember, the only way to totally eliminate your chance of getting pregnant is to not have sex at all. :)
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So beginning of April will be and my boyfriends 1 year. Honestly, I have no idea what to get him. I know so cliche, but I seriously need help and I don't have alot of time either. I want to do/get him something special and/or something meaningful. I know yall don't know him or whatever but I need some cute ideas.. that would be greatly appreciated. He's a cute white boy, not too preppy not too boyishh? lol he can be a nerd as well. We've been through a bit and I love him to death. Thank you if you contributee to my question. (link)
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Here are a few ideas:
Make a snow globe with y'alls picture in it.
You can go to the website luvopoly.com and make your own custom game board with y'alls pictures and favorite places together
Clothes
Cologne
Gift Certificate for couples massage
Cook for him
Shadow box with some of your memories
Pictures
Recreate your first date
Buy him a star
If you need more, let me know. :)
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So my hair is naturaly wavy. well i just want to leave it alone one day let it dry by itself and have it be curly not frizzy and not huge! for some reason i cant do that anymore. i used to now i cant. and it will not dry like that like with a hair dryer so yeah. any ideas? thanks. any home potions that actually work where i dont have to go out and buy anything. i have herbal essences gel stuff for scrunching, i dont think its working. (link)
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Well, I have naturally wavy hair that can become frizzy if I don't watch it, so I can relate. Here's what I find works for me:
I would do this at night:
Before you take a shower, brush through you hair to get out the tangles.
After you wash you hair leave it in a towel to dry for about 15 minutes or so. Don't brush your hair. Then, take your gel (and if you want to purchase something for only about $3 or $4, herbal essences make a great mousse)--it would give your hair tons of volume and not make it as stiff as gel does. So whichever you choose to use--gel or mouse take about a dime to quater sized amount (depending on your hair length) and put it on a wash rag or small/thing towel. Use this to "scrunch" your hair. Make sure to scrunch not just the tips but the roots of your hair. Using the towel instead of your hand whil create a lot less frizz. Do this scrunching for about a solide 3-5 minutes. After that take a rubberband and twist your hair in to a messy bun high on top of your head. Sleep on it like that and when you wake up in the morning or when you are ready to leave the house take it down. Your hair will be wavy/curly and not frizzy. Just remember the more you scrunch the curlier and wavier it will be so if you want it to be less don't do it as much. Also when you take your hair down don't brush you hair. If you are worried about the poofyness of it at first keep in mind it will fall throughout the day and as soon as you walk outside. Enjoy! :)
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Ok I just called a friends phone, and it said while you're waiting for this party to answer, please enjoy this music... and instead of ringing it played a really awesome song! ... how did she get it to do that????? it was like super cool! (link)
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Several months back (almost a year) several cell phone providers started offering this feature. It basically, as you heard, allows anyone calling you to hear music you select instead of the usual ring. Verison offers this as does AT&T and a few more might. You just have to add it to your plan for a few extra dollars. If you check with your providers website you will be able to find more information about that. AT&T calls it "answer tones" and on their website it lets you buy the songs straight from there. With Verizon I know there is a way to do it straight from your phone, so depending on who you have it will vary a little bit. :)
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Hey I'm the same person who talked about peiricings and keyloids... but my other question about is.. does anyone have keyloids but have their lip peirced? because i want my lip peircd but it would be horrible to get a keyloid there.. so woudl that happen, could it happen?
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When you have keloid type skin, you always run the risk of developing a keloid scars from acts of "trauma" like that of a piercing. That's not to say that you will have one every time; however, bear in mind it is possible. If you get your lip pierced and you do develop a keloid scar from it, the only way it will go down or away is if you remove the piercing. If you were to get your lip pierced you also run the risk of it hurting badly there, so that's something to consider. Just remember, even if you do it there is usually a way to get rid of it (i.e.: removing it), but it's your call. :)
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My roomie had sex with this guy that i like even though i told her not to. She didn't know i liked him at the time but still i don't think it should matter. I think that girls should never have sex with guys that their friends have had sex with and she disagrees.. what is your opinion on this? She also says that she would never do this again and i kind of believe her but she already did it once and i feel betrayed, and i have told her this and she says our friendship is way more important than a guy, which is true. She also said that she can't control what she does when she is drunk, but i can and i know what i am doing even if i am drunk. I think this is just an excuse because when we moved in together she was sleeping with a different guy almost every week, anyways i was just wondering if it would be wrong to move out after our lease is up if she did anything with him again since i have talked to her about it and she knows how i feel.
I am sorry this is so long but Thank you in advance!! (link)
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Well, first of all, you have a right to be upset. It's like an unwritten rule that you don't get involved with someone your friend likes. It's good that you confronted her and told ehr how you feel. The best thing to do now is use your judgment and see if she really doesn't do anything like that again. If she doesn't then you know that it was just a one time slip up. But, if she does it again, then that tells you that she doesn't have as much respect for you or your relationship with her as you thought. Using the "I was drunk" excuse is true to an extent. It does impair your judgement, but if you know first hand you are going to do things you are normally never inclined to do--control yourself and don't drink so much. As you have described her habits of sleeping with various guys frequently, it SOUNDS like this could be habitual but only time will tell. In the mean time, you will just have to sit and pan it out. If you feel like this is something you really can't look past and is going to further deteriorate the relationship, then maybe moving out would be the best better. But on the other hand, if you think both you and her are mature enough to work things out and try to get past this TOGETHER, then try that first. I would suggest talking to her a little more and let her know you are considering moving out --see how she feels. Then decide. Either way, you are going to be you and she will be her. Everything will work out. :)
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I've had a bad head cold for about a week now (stuffy nose, cough, sinus pressure, sore throat) and tonight I noticed my discharge was slightly resembling the texture of cottage cheese. I remembered that texture was a sign of an infection or problem. I'm wondering if my cold has any connection to a possible vagina infection? I'm planning on seeing a doctor but I wanna know what to tell my mom I'm going for. (link)
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Every girl's discharge varies in consistency and texture slightly from time to time. This can be for a variety of reasons: food and drink, daily routine, cycle, etc. Typically, a common cold does NOT cause that kind of discharge.
Usually, cottage cheese indicates a yeast or vaginal infection. You'll want to go ahead and go to a doctor ASAP and they can prescribe the proper medication to treat that.
It should clear up in a few weeks after that. :)
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From a guy's perspective, what would you want for your 1 year anniversary? Nothing sexual. My boyfriend is going to buy me a $200-$300 necklace. I'm afraid I won't be able to measure up with gifts. I was thinking of making a scrapbook but we don't have much pictures together, so i wouldn't know how to fill up the pages. i would only have about 5 weeks to put it together. is there anything else i could make or buy? i've made him a scarf and a stuffed animal bear by hand before. I was thinking of scrapbook and a striped scarf. But, what else? And guys, would you actually want those two things ? =/ I need some other ideas.. something.. meaningful, you know? No cologne or watch things.. He's not that type of guy. So I'm kinda at a loss with ideas. He's into hip hop and MMA. (link)
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Well there are tons of things you could do that I am sure your boyfriend would appreciate:
-Make a CD with all of the songs that remind you of him or songs that both make you think of each other
-Make him a cute card instead of buying one and on the front put a picture of the two of you
-Customize M&M's. If you Google it will give you a link where you can customize your own M&Ms in the color you like and you can pick the writing that goes on it. It could say "Happy One Year"
-A hot air balloon ride--that's about $400.00 though
-You could plan a picnic in a park and then carve your names into a tree with a heart around it; cliche, but cute
-Since it's the winter season you could buy a snowglobe that you can add a picture of the two of you to, you coud also do this with a cup or mug
Hopefully you think of something that works for you. But whatever you decide, I am sure your boyfriend will love it because it's coming from you. :)
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I saw this commercial a little while ago about a bank that makes a big deal about how they're open til 6 instead of 430 for their customers convenience. Does anyone know what bank that is? (link)
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Several different banks offer that. Usually it is just the drive through that remains open until that time, or often the banks inside grocery stores are open til 7 sometimes. Bank of America, Compass Bank, WaMu, and Washington Mutual all offer this. You could always check with your bank if you are unsure. :)
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Okay, I have a wonderful boyfriend. He's caring, nice, he always makes me feel so happy and he always cheers me up. I like him a lot. And, obviously, he likes me too. We are both really happy =) One problem. I have a feeling a friend might want things to go bad. She likes him, I can tell..she flirts with him a lot. He never really flirts back. I've talked to my friend about it, I told her to stop because the flirting is getting out of hand and it hurts me. She was totally understandable (after the SECOND time I said something). Now, she completely shuts down when he comes around. She stops talking and looks at the floor when he puts his arms around me. I know she's uncomfortable especially when I'm around. I have a feeling she doesn't like me anymore. She is in his history class and she goofs around with him. I've talked to him about it and he says that he's tried to get her to stop, but she won't. She told me the other day that she doesn't like to be in long relationships (so even if things don’t work out between my boyfriend and me...she'd most likely go after him and break his heart) I don't know what to do about her. I mean, I'm the kind of person who loves to see everyone happy, smiling, laughing. I can't stand people upset! My closest friends always tell me "hey girl, relax. You can't please everyone" I know they are right, but I can't help seeing her like this. She likes my boyfriend, I mean... a lot! She is always sending him IM of hugs n kisses and crap. (Note: he NEVER sends anything like that back. I completely trust him.) Okay, so basically, I’m hurting her, right? I’m definitely not breaking up with my boyfriend because she wants him because well...all that would do is break two hearts and fix one. She isn’t a close friend of mine, and I haven’t known her long. I like her and all but why does she want ME to be in pain? Because real friends don’t do this. She flirts still (and I understand that’s hard to control sometimes) but you would think she would try and control herself at least a little bit!?!? She isn’t only flirting with my boyfriend, she flirts with everyone’s boyfriend...and even more guys. So, I shouldn’t really worry about it then, because it’s normal for her...?? But it does bother me, I’ve talked to her about it but she doesn’t really listen. I realize this is really long, but I’m not sure what to do anymore. Talking hasn’t done anything and my closest friends are ready to freak out on her. I don’t want that. I care way too much! I’m told that all the time! I’m a bit of ‘weird-o’ you could say because I don’t even want my enemies to get hurt (I don’t have very many, but I still don’t like seeing anyone get hurt). So here is where I need help. What should I do about my so called ‘friend’? Any advice is helpful! (link)
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Well it sounds like you are in a bvit of a bind, but hopefully I can provide some words of advice that may steer you in the right direction. You can't control who other people are going to like, as I know you aren't, but you do have to be aware of it. It is good that you confronted the girl and tried to handle the situation. It is also good that you and your boyfriend have a healty and trustfilled relationship you can discuss this with. Not everyone is going to like you. She probably does feel uncomfortable around you and still likes your boyfriend and isn't getting what she wants so it is frustrating to her. Just tell your boyfriend to completely ignore her, instead of just telling her to stop. Also, you can try two other things. You can also completely ignore the girl which might make her upset, but may work. Or, you can try to do a good deed and introduce her to a guy that you know. Maybe if she has an interest in someone else or someone else has an interest in her, she will back off. Either way, know that you are a good person and this type of thing happens often. You and your boyfriend should go on with your relationship, becuase in the end it just comes down to you two. :)
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okay so i have really dark, thick hair on my arms, compared to other girls. Is there any way to dye it so its less noticeabe?
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Everyone has hair on their arms--some more than others, and that's okay. If it really bothers you, you can try getting them waxed. I would not try to do this yourself as it can become a mess if you don't know what you are doing. It isn't too costly and will last about a month. Prices usually range about $20.00. You can also get it threaded which is sometimes a little cheaper, but takes a little longer and lasts a week or two more than does the waxing. Lastly, as mentioned by the other columnist, you can use a depilatory like nair, but sometimes this can cause your skin to have a rash or some sort of reaction. Also, there is something called Nads that is like a wax but it does not need to be heated and is available at all the local drugstores for $15.00 and is similar to waxing but you can do it yourself easily. Hope this helped, and remember, being the natural you is always beautiful! :)
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I have small breasts, and when I wear bras with no padding, I like to touch my breasts. Never with no bra, and never with heavily-padded bras. I don't know why this is. It really bothers me, too, since I get this craving to touch and grasp my breasts during class, and around people. Does this qualify as masturbation? And why do I have this craving? I never get the urge to touch my genital area, just my breasts. Can someone tell me why or help me with an explanation at all? Any help is greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance! : ) (link)
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Don't feel strange. Numerous people are fascinated by their owen body as they should be--the human body is an interesting thing. Especially as you mature you will want to explore and understand your body and its components. Your urges can be slightly sexually driven; however, I would not classify it as masturbation. You probably get the craving to do it in class because you know it is not something that is really appropriate so it is kind of exciting. I am sure tons of other people have the same feelings at times. :)
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15/f
boyfriend and i been together 2 years.
love him DONT JUDGE OUR AGE. K THANKS =]
first time i was unprotected;
like two weeks ago and he did NOT cum inside me
he didn't even cum; i made him get out.
[he lost his virginity to me; && has been tested like i many times]
since last week or so, when i pee
light colored blood comes out; its NOT my period.
i also have to pee alot more too.
sometimes it hurts to pee.
what is this?
i cant ask my mom about this either.
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What you are describing sounds like you have either an urinary tract infection or possibly a kidney infection, or even both. Girls often contract UTIs from having sex, or holding in their pees and not drinking enough water. This can also lead to kidney infections, hence the blood. It is treatable, but the sooner you act the better. Left untreated, the infections can severely spread and cause internal infectious damage. There are some over the counter meds that help mild cases, but what you are explaining sounds to be more progressed. You need to go to a doctor to get antibiotics. In the mean time, pee frequently, even though it hurts and drink plenty of water. In the future when you have sex, make sure you are well lubricated and pee both before and after sex. This often helps reduce the risk of contracting an infection. :)
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I haven't had my period for 2 months. I just started July 1st and I know its not going to be regular, but 2 MONTHS! My mom said that I for SURE did start my period, but now I'm doubting. Gross, but I'm goin to tell you: it was in clumps and was almost black, very dark, not like what I thought it would be. I used a tampon because I was going to a lake and was fine, I had a yeast infection just about 2-3 days before I started too. I don't want it to just hop in at school, during class, or at someones house or something. What are some warning signs I might have? Please help!
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It is common for you to have an irregular period for up to 3-4 years of starting your period. So, I don't think you should majorly worry. As long as you have at least one period every 4 months, you're okay. Any longer than that, then you need to see a doctor so they can help you out. There is a pill you can take to force your period to come out if need be--but some doctors are hesitant to perscribe it. Also, when you get your period again, don't wear a tampon again. The first 3 periods you have you should stick to pads. One other thing, don't wear tampons if you have any kind of vaginal/yeast etc. infection because that can make it worse. In the mean time, try just wearing a pantiline or thong liner to school to be on the safe side. :)
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On MTV The Hills, what do Whitney and Lauren actually do? Like what is the name of their job? (link)
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Lauren and Whitney at one time both worked as interns for Teen Vogue. Simply put, that means they are at the bottom of the chain so to speak. Whitney recently got promoted to a coordinator for events. The two girls help models, organize clothing, select venues, and provide on set or on the shoot assistance when need be. :)
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If anyone has seen the Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz adult Halloween costume at iParty, you know what those shoes look like. They're very glitzy, with red sparkles all over them like the Wizard of Oz. Except, it's been mangled into these chunky heels. I say they look like stripper shoes.An acquaintance of mine, I'll call her C, recently bought this costume. The shoes are simply horrid. I have informed her that the shoes are rather stripper-esque but she seems undaunted. My friends joke and giggle about them. I really don't want her to give up the shoes because of what people think, but I really don't think that these shoes are quite... right. Any help? (link)
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Well, the best you can do is be honest with your friend. You told her once, and you did your part. You can try telling her one more time and just make a point to say that you are just trying to help her out and don't want others to hurt or upset her on what should be a fun night. Just be supportive to her when/if people do make comments. The good thing is everyone knows it's Halloween and it is a costume; people will know she normally isn't going to parrade around in that. :)
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