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fingering
so my boyfriend wants to finger me
but im not sure
because one, i can only fit one finger in my vagina
is this normal?
two, i shave all my pubic hair off but it grows back
does it bother a guy if theres stubble?
please help
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First of all never do anything you are not completely ready for. Things like this may seem right when they are not yet you need to have a talk with him and only decide to do what YOU are ready for. when you finger yourself it will not be the same as when he does it because when you get sexual aroused with your boyfriend it will become much easier for more to fit. Pubic hair will always grow back its perfectaly normal and guys have it too so the understand most guys arent worried about that anyway
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1 if the guy wants it saved then he has to deal with the stubble and i have not heard any complaints about a little stubble any way and 2 one finger is completely normal . your vagina is new at sexual things . so it will stay like that at least till you have sex and after that it goes back unless you have alot of repeated sex.causing it to be loose
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it shouldnt bother him and if its uncomfortable then u tell him to stop ok *****gossipchic
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Don't let him do anything your too uncomfortable to do. The best way to handle things is to talk to him. Tell him that you can only fit one finger and that he'll have to start with one. And pubic hair doesn't matter. If he really loves you and wants to take this step in your relationship then he wont care.
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If you and your boyfriend feel that you are both ready to move on that you should its human to want too. And yes its normal for you to only be able to fit one finger in as you do it more it will become bigger and let more in. As for the pubic hair, lots of girls are nervous about there pubic areas. Discuss it with him and let him know that you shave, I'm sure if he really cares about you it won't matter.
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You should never go along with doing something before you feel emotionally ready--or until your body is ready either. If you and your boyfriend are at the stage in your relationship where you are comfortable enough with each other to be that intimate then there shoud be no doubts in your mind. You should also feel comfortable with him seeing you just as is. If there's any question, you just aren't ready. If your boyfriend respects you he won't do anything that may hurt you, so you need to speak up if something doesn't feel right. :)
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