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I am all about Drama! Theater questions are my specialty. I also do know some love questions. Ask me a question and I will answer to my best ability. I hope I help!
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This guy I had a date with kissed me on the firt date. Is that werid? I have never kissed someone on the first date before. Do you think he just wants sex? (link)
Maybe he felt a real connection, and that's why he kissed you. After the first date, I wouldn't jump to conclusions that he only wants you for sex. I wouldn't take it too seriously. I mean it was only a kiss.


hey every1
k well i went out with this guy last year, his name is ben. then we broke up over the summer but now for like a month i have liked him again and i found out that he likes me too cause he asked me out tonight online, but as soon as he asked me out and i said yeah he had to go football. im worried that tomorrow at school it will be akward and i really don't want it to be akward cause we have been like really good friends like forever. please tell me good ways to flirt with him tomorrow so it isn't akward! thanks so much I RATE WELL! (link)
Talk to him like you normally do, except now that you're going out, drop anything involving other guys. And you can hold hands now, and grab his arm and put it around you. That's definately an ice breaker.


If god knows that we are gonna do something bad, like look up porn, why doesnt he try and stop us. I dont really understand it but, i am a porn addict and its getting harder and harder for me to stop. why would god let me do it if he knows its wrong? (link)
Maybe because there might not be a god, or the kind of god you picture. Besides, free will. I do believe god wants you to make your own decisions. That way you can learn from your mistakes. Besides, don't blame god for not stopping you from doing bad things. You have a mind and can stop yourself anytime now. And isn't whether something is wrong or not based on perspective. Not everybody considers the same thing wrong. There's just too many factors to blame this on god.


I just want to know what are some things you can say to a girl to charm her and make her like you. Such what are some things i could say to the girl i like to just slowly make her like me. Are there anythings that girls like to hear that charms them. Thanks any help is pretty much appreciated (link)
Well, if you get them alone. I like it when a guy compliments me on like my eyes or something like that. I also like it when guy's compliment me on my personality (ex. You're so nice, funny, etc.). I had this one guy one time tell me I was worth more than a million dollars. It was kind of an inside joke, but I totally fell for him because of it. You could also play off her interests. Find out what she finds funny and tell jokes or showing off sometimes make girls notice you. I don't much about the girl, but those things should work if you know her pretty well.


I have been dating this guy for 2 months. We say "I love you" all the time. It's our Spring Break and we call a lot. Here's the problem: He always has to go. And when I ask him why, he just says he has to go and basically hangs up on me. Do we talk about it now? Or should I wait until the break is over? (link)
Do it now! When problems occur in a relationship, resolve them as soon as you can. Just tell him how you feel. 2 months should show that he cares about you and he'll listen. Hope I helped. Hello Maygen. You need to tell me how it goes.


okay im 13/female. and i have BIGG mood swings. like even when im not on IT. like one sec. i will be all happy and laughing w. my friends. and then the next i will be crying.. or i will be talking to peole online.. and my mom asks me to do something.. and i go totally pissy. and it seems like my parents dont want me to be happy. like every time im happy, they make me pissed off. and i NEED diet coke to keep me hapy. so..here are my questions.. 1) what can i do to prevent these mood swings 2) why do i feel like my parents dont want me to be happy and 3) why do i need diet coke.. and drinking diet coke, can it hurt me? thanks to all who answer this! (link)
You might want to go see if you are bi-polar. Do you ever have a normal mood or are you always extremely a certain mood? If you answered no to normal mood, definately go see if you are bi-polar. The medication will help with the mood swings. Bi-polar could also explain the parent thing. And too much of anything can hurt you. Diet Coke can hurt you but you'd have to be drinking it as much as you breathe air pretty much to hurt you.


what is a bikini wax. and im a girl. am i supposed to shave the hair off.. down there?
please hellp! (link)
A bikini wax is where they wax where your bikini lines are down there. Guys like it shaved down there if you're planning to have sex. But if you're not planning sex, just keep it under control and shave around the bikini lines.


Ok!
My friend always texts me on my phone! And we were on the phone w/ a boy the other nite! So yesterday i got this text from my friend saying that the boy we were talking to ( that i like ) said i was annoying! i was like no! She then texts me saying i was jk! I was like ooooo! SHe does it a lot and it is really annoying is it normal 4 me to be mad at her! cause she does it at least twice a day!

Taller (link)
It is perfectly fine to be mad at a friend. I've been friends with this one girl for like 9 yrs. She drives me absolutely nuts sometimes and I get really mad, but I'm still friends with her. And you should tell her how you feel. She should except your feelings, otherwise she's not worth being friends with. Rate Me!


Ok I kind like this guy but he's my friend I can't tell if he really likes me or not so should I akk him out or not? (link)
Ask him!!! What's the worst that can happen, he'll say no. Sure rejections a bummer, but he's your friend. He ain't gonna be mean about it. If it doesn't work out, you can still be friends. You'll live if he says no, and if he says yes well....need I tell you what's gonna happen. Rate me!


All you girls out there...
I am kind of shy, but am trying to be more outgoing, which I am finding easier and easier. Usually when I like a guy, they have no clue, but I would like to change that. What are the best ways to flirt? If you could tell me some of your favorite flirting moves I would appreciate it. Any little flirty gesture or something that always works for you?

And for you guys out there, what kind of things do you love when a girl does? What is the best ways for a girl to flirt in you opinion? How do you like a girl letting you know she is interested in you?

Please keep in mind that I am kind of reserved, so please don't tell me to go up and grab his butt or something, thats not really my style. Thank you so much in advance for your advice! (link)
Personally, I always love teasing them. Like saying they're smart asses and stuff. I also like telling jokes, especially gross ones. I feel more open when I add humor, and so far quite a few guys are really flirting back. So I hope I helped.


Ok, this might be kind of long but here goes...I have been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months, and we are really getting on eachothers nerves, we fight over little things a lot and its getting old. He's always by my side and following me, hes really clingingy and hes just getting annoying. Don't get me wrong, he is the best boyfriend I have ever had--literally--and the longest relationship, but I just want to be friends right now. I don't want any boyfriend at all, but I have issues with breaking up with people. I don't like to hurt people's feelings I hate makeing people feel bad or cry, and I need some ideas as to how I could break up with him, but let him know I still love him, we still have a very big chance, I just need a break and want to be friends for awhile?

I rate high to answers that don't offend or piss me off.

Thanks for you help. (link)
I bet he might feel the same way. He could be getting annoyed just like you. You just need to start by stating exactly how you feel. Emotions can't be helped and he should understand that. He loves you very much and he'll totally understand. And I'll be your shoulder to cry on. But you should tell him you love him and just need a break. It's not the end of the world and if you tell him that he'll be fine. Just be totally open. You may dread doing it and hate yourself for a bit afterwards. But if its driving you nuts, you're hurting him more staying together with him and not explaining your feelings. I hope I helped.


There is a girl I know and she thinks of me as a brother or a friend more than a boyfriend. But she used to like me as a boyfriend, yet I didn't see it. I feel really attached to her now through some stuff we have done(no, probly not what youre thinking). Do you think she will go back how she was? I don't want to lose her to someone else. What can I do to get her to like me more?
M-15 (link)
A girl never really loses her feelings toward someone, they usually go to sleep. If the guy's a jerk then the feelings goes in to a long sleep, but since you guys are friends I'm guys the feelings are probably still there, they just haven't woken up yet. You should definately tell her that you don't want to lose her to another guy. That would definately help the feelings wake up.


Would you risk your career for what you truly believe if the two were different? (link)
How are they different? If it is completely different, there are plenty of other jobs out there. If you can take it, I would jeopardize my finances because of a few problems with beliefs.


For health class i have to pick an anti-drug..like yeah kno...sports.. my anti-drug, but i can't think of any. I don't wanna use sports cuz sum1 already has it? does any1 hav some ideas? thnx (link)
Family, Friends, School, Any Extra-Curriculars you are in (ex. Debate, Drama, etc.), Religion.


ok well heres the deal..i REALLY like this guy and hes sooo sweet! he told me i was hott and hes always talking to me and leading me on..and if he askes me out..i would have my first boyfriend ever. thing is, one of my best friends supposedly "loves" him and she doesnt even know him and they never talk..unlike me i have talked to him lots of times. and now my best freind and him are starting to talk like online, but he ignores her a lot so he can talk to me..and shes making it seem like a competition and always rubbing things in my face whenever they have sumthing in common. another thing it, she knows that he likes me, but she doesnt know that i like him...its really confusing. if she found out she would be soo upset..she even said "if u ever liked him i would hate u" and i dont know what to do cuz shes had tons of boyfriends and i really want this guy to be my first bf. pleas help..ill rate everyone. (link)
A real friend would be happy for you. Go out with the guy. If your friend can't get over it, then I guess she's not a very good friend. And the fact she rubs it in your face is an indicator there'll be friction even if you didn't go out with him. Besides, it's not like she's gonna end up with him. Most guys don't go after the friend.


me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 3 months this guy jake all of the sudden starts liking me and all of my friends are telling me to break up with my boyfriend and go out with jake because jake seems way nicer and that he would treat me better. they say this because my boyfriend is kind of scared to make the first move and its fine im not in no big hurry but jake n i were talking and he said that my boyfriend doesnt give me what i want and he was talking about .. you know.. well c i dont know if jake only likes me for that or because of my personality and stuff and he said i was awesome n nice ? help (link)
Your boyfriend doesn't like making the first moves because he wants to be a good boyfriend. I had a boyfriend like that. He liked me controlling the speed so I could feel more comfortable with him. My suggestion through experience is don't break up with your boyfriend unless you have a really good reason to. Another guy is not a very good reason unless you like them way more than your boyfriend. But from past experience, don't let them go to soon. You'll regret it if you weren't 100% positive.


Hey! Im Roman Catholic...and over half of my friends are Mormon. Just wondering to Mormon people:
1.) Do you believe Mary was a virgin?
2.) Do you think the cross is a bad sign?
3.) Why can't you go out until you are 16?
4.) Why can't you have caffiene(sp?)?
5.) Why can't you do as much things of Sunday just because of church?
Just wondernig! :O) Thanks! (link)
I am soooooo in your position. I'm Roman Catholic, and I'm in Utah. Home of the Mormons. Alright, they can have caffine, but in moderation. Cuz, they are supposed to love their bodies, or something like that. The dating until 16 is kind of protective parents have a way to blame it on the church for their strict rules. I don't know much about the Mary thing. They tend to believe more in Joseph Smith than Jesus. At least they put more stress on Smith. And they believe the Sabbath (Sunday) is sacred and should only be used for holy things.


What are imaginary numbers?? I have heard of them before, and I know it is a really high level of math, but can somebody explain it to me?? I'm only taking Alg 1 right now! lol (link)
You know how square roots work, right. Well, then you know that it's impossible for there to be a square root of a negative number. Imaginary numbers are a way to explain how impossible equations have answers.


Ok I am freaking out right now and I really need help! Today During dinner I accedentaly spilled some of my milk on my MP3 player that I got for christmas and it was a lot of money! Well I just went to go turn it on and it's not working! What should I do! How do I get it to work! Please help me! (link)
What model is it? If it has a reset area then poke it with your pen. And how much milk did you spill on it?


Hello!! I hope ya'll can help me! I'm sorr its so long but its a long story!! Okay here is my scenario. My birthday was at the end of January, and my boyfriend had already been planning our Valentine's date. He asked me if it would be alright if he gave me my birthday gift along with my Valentine's gift because it would make it easier on him, so of course i told him yes. Well, On Saturday (which was our Valentine's day because i had to work Monday) he took me to dinner, then he blindfolded me and took me to... a hotel. BUT before you judge, it was very romantic. He had his friends come and light the candles he had set up EVERYWHERE and rosepedals, the whole deal. And we had planned to have sex for our first time, not necessarily then but we had stopped ourselves a couple of times because we wanted to wiat until it would be special. Which this was. Okay, well moving on, besides all of this, he didn't get me like flowers or a bear or even a card. I spent like $70 on him with gifts and whatnot. But i wasn't too mad because i assumed he had sent me a carnation at school (Our school has sales where you can buy a carnation for someone for V-Day and writea message and then we got them on Monday 9*) Well i of course sent him one, and i waited but he never sent me one. I went to his house after work and i brought over peanut butter heart shaped cookies (His fav!) and still nothing. This made me really mad because he didn't even get me a stinkin carnation!! I got pretty upset and left. Now am i overreacting? I mean he did spend money on me but i'm the type of person who appreciates little things like a flower or a box of choc, he didn't have to go buy a hotel or anything, i just wanted a carnation :( Lol, AND he still hasn't given me anything for my birthday!! Shouldi be mad? (link)
He probably just thought the hotel thing would cinch it. Maybe he thought that you were perfectly satisfied with the hotel thing and he didn't need to do anymore. Besides, I'm sure there will be other times that he'll do little things for you.




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