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Flirting
All you girls out there...
I am kind of shy, but am trying to be more outgoing, which I am finding easier and easier. Usually when I like a guy, they have no clue, but I would like to change that. What are the best ways to flirt? If you could tell me some of your favorite flirting moves I would appreciate it. Any little flirty gesture or something that always works for you?
And for you guys out there, what kind of things do you love when a girl does? What is the best ways for a girl to flirt in you opinion? How do you like a girl letting you know she is interested in you?
Please keep in mind that I am kind of reserved, so please don't tell me to go up and grab his butt or something, thats not really my style. Thank you so much in advance for your advice!
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Smile and make eye contact when you talk to them, and say their name. Also, touch is important. I don't mean butt-grabbing, but just hold his arm while you're walking.
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when you are walking by in the hallway, dont be afraid to give him a hug! i do it all the time..also say they are so cute. :) i think my bf likes it when i play with his hair and just smile at him. have fun! x0
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So you are reserved -- I think that's great!
The best way to get a "good" guy's attention is to make sure he always sees you smiling at him. Kinda like you have a secret that no one knows about. Keep it up, and he'll eventually be so curious that he'll approach you.
Also, never NEVER chase after him - always keep your self-respect - if you don't, he'll never respect you - he'll just use you, conquer you, and then throw you away and move on to the next challenge.
The harder a guy has to work for your attention and affection, the longer he'll stay around trying to win it. If he is just looking for a booty call, he'll get impatient and move on -- in that case, let him go, he isn't worth your time and attention anyway.
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Personally, I always love teasing them. Like saying they're smart asses and stuff. I also like telling jokes, especially gross ones. I feel more open when I add humor, and so far quite a few guys are really flirting back. So I hope I helped.
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alright grasshopper, I will teach you everything I know... bows first* :p
1- eye contact: always make eye contact with target
2- make the target feel comfortable around you by rolling stuff in your fingers,like a pen, twirling your hair on your finger. That way you look less threatening, you look nervouse even if you're not.
3- whispering: if you wanna get a guy flustered, whisper in his ear, like "I like your jacket" for example.
4- touch his arm or shoulder lightly, like brushing off dust. Heres a great excuse "you got a piece of string on your shoulder" you pretend to get it off then"there" and flash him your best smile.
5- posture: when a guy is talking to you, dont cross your arms , its like saying "GO AWAY!" so you can lean on the wall or something, its like saying "welcome handsome" and smile, dont 4get to smile!
6- Drop it! Say youre carrying a book, a guy you like is around. Drop your book and see what he does. If he helps you then maybe hes interested too, start a conversation. If he doesnt, he doesnt care.
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Flirting is an attitude and the easiest way to convey your thoughts is through the eyes. Remember the basics of non-verbal communication. If you meet him, perhaps as part of a group, look at him when he speaks and hold the gaze if he looks at you. Turn your body towards him. If sitting next to him, cross your legs towards him, not away. But most of all, make and hold eye contact when you can.
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Since I don't know your specific situation, I'll tell you what I did to snatch my boyfriend. There's a Borders Cafe & Bookstore a block away from my high school. One Friday, I flirted by jokingly whining, "Oh no, I'm going to Borders after school and I'll be all alone by my poor lonesome self. What am I going to do?" He got the hint and agreed to come with me and that was our first date.
You could also poke him to see if he's ticklish. Ask him his sign and then say, "Oh man, I'm so sorry!" If he tells a joke, laugh normally and casually, then snort like Erkel (from Family Matters, remember?).
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anonymous -
What you do is first get to know the guy. Strike up conversations so you two can feel comfortable around each other. Smile a lot (guys fall for great smiles) and when you've become pretty good friends tease him and play hard to get. I'm not suggesting mind games, but like playfully joke around with each other and leave him wanting more of you when you get that vibe from him.
I'm not sure if this was a ton of help, but I'm a shy girl myself and good guys tend to fall for good girls, not flirting that is REALLY obvious! I'm sure you know what I mean! :)
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When i like a guy i make eye contact. Thats my thing. Looking him in the eyes kind of lets him know. Looking him in the eyes,smiling,complementing him. A good thing to do is to say "i like your eyes." (i guess you can see im an eyes person lol) While doing this i always stay myself. I like this way of flirting..because your not throwing yourself at him..like rubbing up on him...but its giving him the point that you llike him. If he doesnt seem to be catching on..have a close guy friend say to him "you know..i think 'put your name in' likes you"
Hope that helped
-meliss
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