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I am 14 years old, and i like a guy that goes to my school. He is going out with the biggist slut ever.. & I like him alot! Everyone thinks they are wrong for each other. I need a way to win him over. I donno what to do cuz me and the girl hate each other. He won't listen to any of his friends and i know he wont listen to me. We would be the best couple ever! So if you have any advice please feel free to give it!!
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lol this is one one those moments where you and your friends have to think of a plan to totally piss her off. just charm him and do your thang
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wow i soo have empathy for you thats the same prob i have well id get one of my friends to talk to him and it turned out he started liking me but for his girlfriend hes on the urge of breaking up with her lol well thats what i did
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u need to like jjust tell him.
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Hi Sweetie,
I have a plan! It may seem evil, and rather viscious. But its your choice was advice you take. This is merely a suggestion.
First of all back off on the "Seriously, your girlfriend is a whore". Be like "I just think you can do better. But if you really like her then I hope you are happy." This will make him trust you.
Now phase II. Observe her. WHAT makes her a slut. Is it because she flirts with every gy she sees? Or... maybe she is capable to cheat on that guy.
Next, set her up. Maybe get a guy to flirt with her or something and manage for it to be at the same time that her boyfriend happens to "coinsidently" be walking by. Of course, you will have to plan this to make sure she seems encriminating.
After that no matter what the trust in her wil be over and the guy will start thinking about how everybody warned him... And hey, you'll only be sending some guy to flirt wioth her. If she flirts back or does something slutty... that's her problem. No body forces her to do that.
Good luck! ...And you should probably read other people's advice before this one. AND remember to onsider HIS feeligs. If he REALLY likes her... only he or her can change that. An if they did broke up... he might still not be over her. So please consider that feelings are hard to kill and to make up. He can't be forced to stop liking her (eve if they do break up) and he can't b forced to like you (even if he does stop liking her).
Hope you at least got a laugh out of my weirdness advice. Take care. P.S. ~Blessed Be...
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Well, if you're positively sure that you were meant to be with him and hes the one (at the moment), then use these steps:
1.Flirt
2.Flirt more
3.Flirt constantly
and if that doesnt work, he doesnt deserve you anyway!
Hope i helped!
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You probably won't like this advice, but hey, you asked....
1. You don't want such a guy to begin with.
2. You shouldn't be worried too much about guys at your age, because you and the guys are just simply not ready to deal with all of the emotional/physical realities that occur between the sexes.
3. Worry about the person YOU WANT TO BECOME, rather than the person you need to become in order to attract the attention of some punk who just wants to get into a girl's (any girl's) pants.
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did you ever stop to think what "He" wants? If you love him so much.. you should let him make his own descisions.. Just tell him if he ever realises she is wrong for him.. you would like to be with him.. but if you like him as much as you say you do.. leave him be.. trust me on this!
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ok! I'm free! anyways, I dont think you can sorta force this guy into liking you. You like him and you think you make the perfect match, but does he like you? He likes the slut hes going out with, thats his problem. All you can do is give him advice. When you do, your job is done, it doesnt matter if he listens to you or not.
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If he is going out with the biggest slut ever, then chances are he is just with her for the booty call.
Be subtle, and show him a REAL girl doesn't have to be a slut to be/or have fun.
Make it a habit of saying hello and goodbye to him, talk to him, show him you can be a friend first.
After that, tell him how you feel. If he runs away -- then you don't need him.
xXx Anjalynet xXx
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Well maybe you and your friends and his friends are all wrong. Perhaps they are right for each other. Or perhpas she is right for him now because he wants a girl that will bang him without been accused of ruining a nice girl that got very attached to him. Whatever the reason, I doubt you can change it. Unless you want to fight on her level and make it clear to him that you can be just a slutty as her. No, I didn't think you would either........
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argh! so many girls are asking how to gt a guy to notice them. if he hasn't nticed you yet then he aint worth it! his loss. and he obviously aint that great... he's with a slut. so either he is a slut too or he sees the nice girl in her. either way he's dating her for a reason so back of and let him live his life how he wants to.
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anonymous -
Remember that the decision to hook up with you is the guy's responsibility. You can't really "make him" go out with you, but you could give him little hints here and there. If you're friends with him, be a friend and show that you care for him and that you'll be there for him. Show him (without words) that you're girlfriend material!
But if he's happy being with that slut-girl, unfortunately the only thing you can really do is be happy for them.
Hope this helps and good luck!
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Firstly, there is no such things as the "best" couple.
If they're so "wrong" for each other, then they won't last long. Irregardless, find yourself a single guy to ask out.
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Im sorry if this isnt what you wanted to hear..but everyone has liked someone before who falls for the absolutely wrong person. Do you guys talk? If so..tell him "what do you see in her? everyone thinks we should go out..would you ever think about going out with me?" If he continues to show an interest in her..theres nothing you can do :( I wish we could just make a potion and make guys like us..if that were the case no girls would be single out there..and there would be no divorces..but it isnt reality ;/
Good luck with him..if he choses her over you..then let him. Hopefully he'll find out he made a mistake.
-meliss-
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