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This girl
There is a girl I know and she thinks of me as a brother or a friend more than a boyfriend. But she used to like me as a boyfriend, yet I didn't see it. I feel really attached to her now through some stuff we have done(no, probly not what youre thinking). Do you think she will go back how she was? I don't want to lose her to someone else. What can I do to get her to like me more?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Just tell her how you feel. When a guy is more open, I think it makes the girl feel like she is really something special to the guy and it'll make it almost impossible for her to say no to you.
♥ Always,
Maria
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I have a friend like that! Welljust tell her! or say something to her that makes her feel special to her! Just hang w/ her! You know! Go skateboarding or go to da movies! Well if need more advice please ask!
~XoxAndRea~
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You have never lost your girl, only lost your turn.
Relax and let things happen. Don't get overly jealous if she starts seeing someone else. Just remain in contact and wait for the timing to be right. Only half the task is finding someone you like. The rest is timing. If you try and force the issue, you are only more likely to blow it.
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Probably not. Once a girl looks at you like her brother, it would be weird for you to be something else to her. The train passed you by...but thats okay, maybe you guys aren't ment to be. Stay her friend, and usually if you date your friend and it doesnt work out...it makes things akward afterwards.
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A girl never really loses her feelings toward someone, they usually go to sleep. If the guy's a jerk then the feelings goes in to a long sleep, but since you guys are friends I'm guys the feelings are probably still there, they just haven't woken up yet. You should definately tell her that you don't want to lose her to another guy. That would definately help the feelings wake up.
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I don't think you can make her like you any more than she already does. But I think you should tell her how you feel and how much you like her and find out just how much she likes you and if she likes you in that way.
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ok, you said my previous answer wont help, I really dont know. You only see her twice a week, and what i said is not possible. I think that you cant make a person like you even more, personally, I think shes playing "im so over you".It took me a year to get over one guy, so is she over you already ?! this is the question you should be asking. I know you wish you could read her mind, but you cant... Dont think what others would do in this situation, think "what would I do?" . If you like her, ask her out and try to win her back.
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Just tell her how you feel, tell her you like her now! If you tell her..she'll think about wanting to become more than friends with you! So yeah, maybe it wont happen...but if you get her thinking, maybe something will happen!
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