my boyfriend who ive been with for a very long time wanted to finger me today..but im on my period! hes already done it many times before so when he started to go for it and i took his hand away he was like whats wrong? i didnt want his hand to touch that he'd be DISGUSTED! so i just said"not now"but he kept trying to later on! i wear pads most of the time but even when i do wear tampons..i still cant tell him im on my period cause thatll make everything so awkward! how do you tell a guy without being embarassed and it is it gonna make them freaked out?? cause frankly, its the only thing thats stopping me from doing it and i have no idea what to say.
Every girl goes through it and Im sure by now, your boyfriend knows that.
Dont just blurt out, "Im on my period" that may gross him out, instead say something like "Its not a good week for me"
And if he gets freaked out, hes being immature about the whole situation.
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ok whoever has a promise ring.. type thing.. i dont know if thats what everyone calls them.. if you have one, how much did you get it for? and for anyone wheres a good place to get rings?
thx :)
Well, you can basically just use any ring that you have, it doesnt need to be specifically a promise ring.
I got mine 4 years ago and I rarely take it off.
I think I got mine at a Christian store and I think I paid $15 for it.
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Okay this is really embarassing....I went to the movies with my boyfriend last night and we decided to see Nacho Libre...well halfway through the movie I had drank a large soda and I really needed to go ut I didnt want to miss the movie. So then this really funny part happened and I laughed until I peed my pants...I was SO embarrassed and I couldnt get up because I was afraid he would notice to when we went to leave the movie I just rapped my jacket around my waist. On the car ride home he put his hand on my thigh and squeezed...I was so happy! I've never really be touched by a guy (I know I'm a weirdo) and I'm really excited and like a a crazzed fan touched by their hero I'm not sure if I want to wash the pants. I know its gross...but would it be too weird to not wash them and keep them for sentimental value? I wanted to ask my friends but I was WAY to embarrassed to ask people I know. Oh my gosh pleaase help!
Ew thats nasty! Wash them!
Talk about germs!
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I'm thirteen and I am 5'4", and i weigh 100 lbs. I used to be really thin with a nice, flat stomache, and i only weighed 87 lbs. I think the reason I weigh more now is because this year was kind of rocky so I started eating more and mroe junk food to get my mind off of it. I'm much happier now, but I can't get my body to resist the cravings for junk food 24/7. Please give me advice on how to stop junk food cravings.
Well in my opinion, your weight sounds perfectly healthy for your height.
Im 5'3" and I weigh 110 pounds.
But, I guess only you know how it actually looks.
To keep junk food off your mind, try to get rid of some of it in your house. Make sure you get lots of varieties of fruits and veggies, and even some healthy "junk food". And only eat when you are hungry, dont just eat food because you are nervous, or bored.
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My best friend just called me from her cell phone and said she was running away!! what do i do????
Talk to her and try to calm her down. If she doesnt listen, go to her parents.
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How do you get those little heart tattoos right above your pelvis? They aren't tattoos, but you know how cows get branded? Haha thats what it looks like..
People get it when they go tanning at a tanning salon. My friend always gets the playboy bunny. I dont know if its a sticker of if its just a piece of paper, but they lay it wherever they want it, go tan, and then when they are done they have the shape where they placed it.
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I have dirty blonde hair that falls a little past my shoulders. It's naturally wavy & frizzy. I straighten it with an iron, but in a matter of minutes it goes wavy and frizzy! I've tried different conditioners and frizz control products. I really want my hair to be touchable soft too, because it sometimes feels like straw after I straighten it. Any tips or products you suggest will be appreciated.
I have the same problem. My hair is thick and naturally wavy. I tend to straighten my hair in sections. I make a half pony tail, straighten that first, and then straighten the top layers. I also use something made by VO5 called Miracle! mist. Its in a red bottle with a gray sprayer. And to keep your hair straight, you can mist on a little bit of hairspray as you are straightening the layers.
I really hope I helped!
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My one friend was being very mean to me on the phone, and I didn't do anything at all! Well this is how it started (sorry this might be long)...
Well my one friend usually calls me about everyday, and I noticed she hadn't called all day yesterday or today, so I thought I'd give her a call. Everything was fine until I asked her if she was gonig to an amusement park for our school or something. She said that her parents would never let her. So I started making these little crying noises because I did want her to go. Then she gets all mean telling me to stop making those squeaking noises. I told her I was just kidding, and she said that it gets annoying sometimes. I couldn't believe that she said that! I mean we're girls! We all make weird noises, especially squeaking ones! After that it was quiet for a while. Then she was talking to me like nothing really happned.
I was trying to figure out why she said that. I thought maybe it was because she might have been jealous because she couldn't go to the amusement park, but she didn't sound so dissapointed about it. Also, it was very hot outside today, and I know they don't have air conditioning, So I thought she might be hot, and irritable. I'm not sure. She seemed like she was in a bad mood, but then she didn't. It was very strange. Maybe she was moody, but I really don't know.
I'm getting kind of worried because I'm affraid she might call our other friends and tell them, which I don't think she will, I sure hope not! But I don't think our friends would get mad, because we all make weird noises for fun. Maybe she was just annoyed and not in the mood for talking, but then again, she didn't seem like it. Like she talked to me on the phone how she always does, but it was different in a way. I don't know, I'm very confused. So do any of you know why she was acting this way? Thanks!
I know exactly how you feel.
Except I was the one doing the snapping.
About a month ago, one of my friends really got on my nerves. I didnt really want to talk to her. We got into this huge stupid argument and I refused to talk to her. The next day at school, she acted like nothing happened! I told her that I wasnt going to talk to her until she apologized to me.
In the end, she never did apologize to me, I just decided that it was stupid for us to be mad at each other.
If it has really been bothering you, dont let your friend get away with it. Sit her down and talk to her about it. Its not really fair to you if she is using you as an outlet to her anger.
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How often should I change my razor? I have the pink venus and I shave like 3 times a week. Four at teh most, 2 at the least. But in the winter, I only shave like once a week, sometimes two. So how often should I change it?
Change it as soon as the blade feels dull. A dull blade is actually more dangerous than a sharp blade.
Also, I just learned this recently...dont keep your razor in the shower. It rusts the blade and then if you cut yourself, you have a risk of the rust getting into your cut, putting you in danger of tetnus.(sp?)
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I need some inspiration.....Its embarrising to get a friend to help me lose weight im 5'2 and i weigh 117lbs please tell me how to get in the mood to lose weight!!?!?!!?! Thanx XOXOX
5'2"...117 Pounds? Why do you need to lose weight? Im 5'3" and I weigh 110 Pounds. Your weight is perfectly healthy for your height.
But if you are dead set on losing weight, do it safely. Eat healthy foods and take walks/runs with a friend. Ask them to help you keep an eye on what you eat when you are with them.
But seriously, you dont really need to diet...you're fine how you are!
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Hello, I'm a girl and I'm 14. I have a lot of fat around my buttocks, thighs, and my stomach. I'm actually had a woman at an amusement park ask me if I was pregnant! (If I was she wasn't going to let me ride a certain thing.) I didn't think I looked that bad until that day so now I'm worried about losing weight. I'm 130 pounds so I figure my goal will be to lose 20 pounds, but more importantly lose the fat. Has anyone got any tips, rountines, and exercises I should try? I like in the country so I haven't got any good places to run and it's so hot here. I can't swim, btw. Anyway, please help me lose the extra pounds so I can feel confident again!
Well, can I ask you how tall you are?
Your best bet is to exercise: Situps, pushups, weights, and walking/running.
And if you diet or anything make sure you do it safely!
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This is going to be super long...
Me and my boyfriend of about 7 and a half months broke up at the beginning of the week because he's leaving for a 9 month missions trip to Africa in 2 months. We were taking it way too seriously emotionally, contsantly disagreeing on things and just generally not doing too well. The breakup was mutual because even though we agreed the decision sucked, it is what's best for both of us right now. We resolved to be friends until he returned from Africa and try being together again when he gets back. So I turned around my claddagh ring (an Irish promise ring that kind of shows what your status is in relationships, I got one from him for Valentine's Da), put everything he ever gave me (cards, roses and other flowers that were now dead, poems and a few other things) away where I couldn't see them and basically cried until it was time for me to get up to go to work the next day. The next day I felt just kind of numb inside. Two days later he called me and then came over for a few hours to just hang out. We were having a great time, laughing and acting like the kids that we keep forgetting we are, like we used to. But the whole time I kept getting those painful stabs of missing him and I had to keep reminding myself that we weren't together anymore and that I couldn't randomly kiss him anymore. Everytime we've said goodbye since the breakup he kisses my cheek or my forehead or my neck and it hurts even more. There will be those moments where I'll catch him staring at me or vice versa and we both know what the other one is feeling and thinking, still even then. Since we've broken up we've hung out two or three times and the whole idea of being best friends again is going really really well. I have no problem with it at all I guess I just need help with getting used to it. Anybody have any suggestions?
Well, hmm...you know who I am...or at least I hope you know who I am.
Surround yourself with friends. And tell yourself that when he comes back, you can be together again. 9 months may seem like forever, but once he is gone, it will go by pretty quickly. Even though you think its obvious that he knows how you still feel, let him know anyways.
Now if you do know who I am, you know that I suck at giving relationship advice, and now you can see that I suck even more at having to type it out. Theres a lot Im thinking about saying, but Im afraid that if I type it out, you may take it the wrong way and get mad or something.
So if you are who I think you are, talk to me on AIM, or call me if you need me.
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I have never kissed my boyfriend before. We have only been dating for two weeks. I have only seen him 3 times. I talk to him on the phone everyday. But we have an age difference... 3 years! I really like him, but i'm not sure he completely feels the same way. I really want to kiss him so badly. But however i dont want to act like a little kid planning my kiss and sex. So should i ask him or should I just kiss him?
First off, let me just tell you...Im 16 and Ive never been kissed. My first boyfriend was way too shy and in my second relationship, I was way too shy!
Its possible that he is just shy about the whole kissing thing, so if you are comfortable with it, go ahead and ask him about it.
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Hey guys. I'm pretty pissed off. This guy I like hung out with this other guy that lives next to me, and they both came to my house and dumped a bag of mulch on my porch, just for a joke I'm guessing. Anyways, I'm kind of mad he would do that because my family has aenough porblems without him messing around with our yard. I;m just asking..is it ok to be mad? Or should I just be like oh right haha good joke? Will he think that I get mad over the stupidest things? please help.
Wow! How immature!
If you are mad about it, dont worry...I think I would be too. How rude of them!
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ok, my mom is obsessed with myspace. and it's not like she has her own myspace. i suggested she gets one but she doesn't want to because she thinks that she shouldn't have one and she says she only wants to play on mine. she spends her time there. she starts changing my music, looking at different layouts, adding music videos and putting pictures on it. and sometimes, she doesn't even ask my permission! she puts things on and says its a suprise and sometimes she even acts like she's not doing anything wrong. she says that she's my secretary and it'sr really making me more and more mad. she comes home and checks my myspace! i really need some advice! i'm 15/f
ok, no offense but thats a bit weird. I would be really mad if my mom messed around on my Myspace.
Sit down with her and tell her that you really arent comfortable with her being on your myspace. Suggest that she really should get her own account, even if she doesnt use it for anything besides playing around with layouts and music.
And as a last resort you could always change the password.
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for some reason whenever iam around one of my ex boyfriends I get nervous.when I was around my ex boyfriend jesse I was just like please don't let him see me and I hid behind my mom,but when I was around my ex boyfriend donnie I got so nervouse that I was shaking so bad that his mom had to tell me to calm down nobody was going to hurt me,the thing is I wasn't afraid of anybody hurting me so why was I so nervous?
I was the same way...I still dont really like my exes seeing me. I dont know...seeing them makes me feel really guilty and stupid. Just try not to worry about it. You guys arent seeing each other anymore, its really not the end of the world. If you try talking to them it may ease the tension you feel between you two.
I talked to one of my exes and it helped a little bit.
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I am a 14/f and I would really like to start babysitting. How can I find people with kids though who are in need of a babysitter?
I made up flyers and put them in my neighbor's mail boxes. I asked my mom's permission first if I could put our telephone number on it.
If a parent says that you can put a number on it, go ahead and make up a flyer and stick them in peoples mail boxes on your street.
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Ok,I'm 13(gal)and i babysit 2 boys 3 times a week for about 4 hrs. There 1-1/2 & 6 yrs. old the 6 yr.old will NOT listen, i tell him not to do something and he still does it. Every time i have a problem i tell the dad when he gets home,but he never does anything.I have been babysitting for around 3 years and I've never run into this problem before. I'm thinking about starting a discipline plan.If he acts up i will tell him to go to his room,if he doesn't do that I'll tell him were not going outside that day etc.(i say what i mean and mean what i say).Then if it still doesn't work after a few days I'll tell his mom i cant babysit him anymore.I just cant handle him.I just need to know if other babysitters like me think this sounds good. thanks.
My gosh, this sounds exactly like my neighbor! He never listened to a word I said and he even threw stuff at me.
Turns out, the kid had a learning disorder. I talked to his parents about how I didnt think that I could babysit for him anymore because he never listened to a word I said. Before this I constantly made up excuses. I hated having to do that. In the end, I just asked his mom what type of punishments they had for him.
So I would suggest talking to the parents...ask them what to do when hes bad and stick to it! If it gets really bad, just tell them that you cant babysit for them anymore. You shouldnt have to fight with a 6 year old, he should respect you.
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i have to get a cavity next month and the dentist said that they wont have to numb it because its gonna be small or whatever.. im just wondering if it will hurt if they dont numb it ..from a scale 1-10 and since this is not my baby teeth anymore, will the cavity stay on my teeth forever or will it like fade away?
Well the pain all depends on how big and deep the cavity is. At my old dentist, we never had novacaine no matter how deep it was. Just grip the arm of the chair and breath.
And because it is a permanent tooth the cavity will stay there forever, only it wont be a cavity anymore, it will just be a filling.
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if you go to a drug store/gas station. you ask to buy a pack of cigarettes. they want to see your ID, if you are underage, can you get in trouble for adtempting to buy cigarettes?
It is illegal for the store owner to sell cigarettes to a minor. My boss wanted me to go buy him some cigars and I couldnt because I was underage. I didnt get in trouble because the woman knew I was underage and she knew they were for my boss.
If you are underage, you really shouldnt be smoking.
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