Gender:
FemaleLocation:
USAOccupation:
School&&Friends&&MusicAge:
13Member Since:
November 22, 2006Answers:
2Last Update:
November 22, 2006Visitors:
669about
I'm just a normal teenage girl. I might be able to answer your questions, but please, don't take my advice to heart. This is a warning. Don't come to me whining and saying that my advice ruined your life. It's not my problem then. :)
advice
This person that i thought i was my friend doesn't like me. i have been leading a fake friendship. My BFF told me but i have a MAJOR feeling since this girl always talks about me to my BFF that my BFF talks about me. I know she has said a lot of things. What if I'm leading a fake friendship? What should i do?
It's not worth it. Sadly, some people are just cruel like that. It's just not worth leading that kind of friendship and being hurt in the end. I almost got led into that - my BFF got me friends with her other friend, and it ended up that the girl didn't want me to be friends after all. So before she said anything to me, I ended the friendship. Sure, I know it's tough, and it got me in a load of fights with the girl. But I found who my true friends were, made new friends, and found that no one actualy liked my 'fake friend'.
It all turns out good in the end, but you need to have enough courage to break the friendship yourself first.
I went out with this guy last year on and off and we were best friends. We had become really close and could talk to each other about almost anything. This summer we hung out a little but talked a lot online, it was like nothing had really changed. Then school started and I went to high school and he stayed in junior high, still technically in high school though. We were still really good friends at the beginning of the year but then we started moving apart until one day he blocked me on the computer and ignored me completely when I went to visit people at the junior high. I gave him a CD i had made for his birthday and I had written him a long letter, but he never even said anything about it. Now he won't even talk to me but he still talks to everyone else. What should I do? I miss him, he was my best friend.
If you really think that he was a great friend, try and ask him if he is angry at you. Truely think of all the times you had, and if you had more good time than bad, then I say you need to talk to him. But, if he's treated you badly in the past, then forget about him and concentrate on the friends you have now.