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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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okay well i ahve like this guy for 2 years and i sware he is like the only guy i wnat and i have been through a lot just for him to notice me and he is on my mind 24/7 well not literally but you gt the point i kd what tothink am i obseesed or do i really like him....my friends say i'm obsessed but idk

It could be an obsession, or maybe you just really like him. The only person that knows for sure is you.

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I just recently realized I like my friend, Chris.

Tomorrow we have school & I want him to know that I like him.

What sort of things can I do to let him know?

What flirty actions or things can I say to him?


Thanks in advance!

ps. I NEED TO KNOW ASAP

Just come straight out & tell him you like him. There's no better way to tell himn than that.

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this guy and I have been talking for a while. We have gotten real close and he asked me out today.

Okay, that's all good until he said 'Love you'
and that he wanted to kiss me.


How do I tell him that I want to slow down?

I'm used to waiting months for a first kiss.

I may be old fashion.. is this how relationships are .. nowadays?

I want to say it in the nicest way so he doesn't get embarrassed.. because I think.. he might take it as rejection. "No, I don't want to kiss you."

It's totally up to you. Let him know how you feel about the fact that he said it, and that he was already going in for a kiss. Let him know that you're old fashioned & would like to wait for those things. Usually, that's how girls are nowadays, but if you tell him how you feel, he should understand. And if he really likes you, he'll respect your decision.

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Yesterday the weather was horrible.It was a few degrees below zero and the wind chill was pretty high,and my district was pretty much the only one that decided not to close down.Today was much better than yesterday,and they closed.How does this work?

The person who closes school & what not probably got some pretty pissed off calls. I live in NY and on Monday we had school even though it was freezing out. Tuesday we didn't, and today we have a two hour delay leaving the whole school pretty confused. We're not sure if we're supposed to go to our first block class, or if we're to go to the block that's going on at the time we go in. We've never had a delay before.

So, honestly, I've got no idea how it works. But I think he had a whole bunch of phone calls sounding like: "It's fucking freezing out & you're not closing the school! My kid walks!" or "It's too cold for kids to stand at their bus stop & you're not gonna shut down school!?" Shit like that.

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Clothing pretty good quality?


i know the style is somewhat like forever21's and delias, sort of.

But is the quality better? because.. i was not satisfied with forever21s.

I've bought a lot of things from Wet Seal. And I've honestly liked them all except for like 1 thing. I bought some tanktops there & they were built for a super thin person. I'm not fat, but I'm not twiggy either. So, besides those tanktops, I've liked everything I've gotten from there. =)

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ok so like. i like this guy and well today my friend told him..again. lol and hes liek i dont believe it. and my friends liek what? and hes liek i dont believe it that she likes me. and shes liek but she does! and hes liek no she doesnt and shes like why do you think that? and hes like because she likes my friend "richie". ok. what do i do know?!? i dotn like richie i liek him!

Go up to him & tell him that you like him, NOT his friend Richie. I'm sure if he hears it from you, there's more of a chance he'll believe it.

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tonight i smoked pot, it wasnt for the first time, and it wasnt close to it. but i got it from a new person. i knew him so i didnt care. when my friend was breaking it up she noticed there was little bits of white things.i said who cares. and we smoked it. i had about 10 - 13 hits. usally i have more, but i didnt want to. 15 mins that, i was really high. i never been that high before. i was tingaling inside. when i blicked it was like talking a picutre, it flashed. then i started moving very slowly. does any one have any idea what was happening to me? was there any thing in the weeD?

There could've been something mixed in with the weed that was probably just raping your body completely. It's another reason NOT to do drugs.

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ok so this week im going to florida. and i found out the guy im going wiht is also!!! and his room is liek right next door to me!!! what do i do to get his attention?? with out like walking outside in my bra? lmao.

Yeah, don't go out in your bra. Buy a really cute bikini, or start talking to him. Flirt him with, play fight with him. Anything. =) Just...no bra, k?

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STORY: My friend Tricia has direct deposit for her paycheck into her bank account. Every month she gets a statement (that tells her what she has taken out as cash, what checks she wrote and the deposits) which is mailed to her home every month. Instead of taking out money for the week she takes out $20 to $25 a day. Yesterday when the statement came Tricias mother helped Tricia reconcile her bank statement and saw that Tricia wasnt taking out for the week but taking out $20 $25 every day. Her mother said; Tricia you have to budget. You really should take out for the week. You are spending more than you make; They argued about it a little bit. Later on Tricia said; mom are you telling me not to buy the jewelry I buy; Her mother replied: no I am not saying that. I am telling you to take out for the week; She told her friends the story and her friends said: Tricia your mother is not saying she doesnt want you to buy the jewelry she just doesnt want you to take out $20 - $25 a day, she wants you to take out for the entire week. MY QUESTION: DO YOU AGREE WITH HER FRIENDS?

And Tina said that these questions are rediculously stupid. These fucking questions should be banned, seriously.

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okay, so my gf and i are pretty much getting married, we already agreed to it, however for the last few months, we have been talking about having sex.. but there is so many things that say we shouldnt, but none of them seem to be against us, such as diseases; i dont have any, she doesnt have any, future marriage; well, if we're the people getting married wouldnt it bring us closer? and im aware of pregnancy, but we really have no idea what to do... we have been going back and fourth for a while, and i really dont want to tear this relationship down if we do end up having sex...so please anyone who can give me a streight up answer, you will be more than helpful! thanks!!

If you're having doubts about having sex, or if you're worried about it, you shouldn't be having it. And how old are you? If you're younger than 18, I don't really suggest that you do have sex. [I'm saying this if you're young, so if you're 18 & older, I apologize.] You're young & you probably don't know that you're gonna last forever. Usually those little high school sweetheart things don't. Honestly, I'd just wait until you're both fully ready, or until you're older & completely positive. I agreed to marriage with on of my boyfriends, and we broke up a few months later. So something you think is forever, usually isn't. Just wait it out.

And as for good/bad things about sex. The only bad things about sex is that there's pregancy & diseases to worry about. If you have no diseases, then there isn't a worry there. And as for pregnancy, if you have it unprotected, [which I don't recommend], have her use birth control or get the morning after pill. But I suggest a condom. It feels better without it, but a condom's a good idea. =)

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i had a rough night one night and the next day at school, i still wasn't too happy or perky like i usually am. my whole group all stands together in the mornings and my best friend was in the group and she didn't notice a thing. it confused me because i can always tell when there's something wrong with her. i put in my ipod headphones and just blasted my music. then this girl next to me was like "your music is really loud..are you ok??" and i've only known this girl for like 4 months and she is noticing.

so here's my question:
is my best friend tottally insensitive to others feelings? or is was she just not paying attention?

She might have not even been paying attention. Someone could've been talking to her & she was so wrapped up in that to notice. Or maybe she's insensitive like you thought. But don't overreact about it. Just talk to her about it.

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alright. i've been told that i'm pretty by guys and i do have a good personality, but the thing is; i haven't had a boyfriend since 7th grade. which was 2 years ago. what's wrong with me? i don't want to throw myself at a guy because that would freak him out. i'm just worried about being jealous of couples holding hands and being all lovey for the rest of highschool. should i just wait it out & see what happens?
(which will be nothing at the rate i'm going:p)

It's not that you're not pretty, or that your personality isn't great, but maybe the guys are too shy to ask you out. Or maybe they just don't see you that way. Think about it though, there's a lot more guys in high school. And they're a lot hotter too. =) Haha. Just be yourself, wait it out & I'm pretty sure a guy will ask you out.

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what does it mean when your with someone boyfriend/girlfriend wise and you feel completely safe like nothing can hurt you. you get major butterflys in your stomoch and feel all nervous around them. you think about them alot and when you kiss them it puts the biggest smile on your face. you want to see them all the time and it makes you sad when you cant. what does this mean? does this mean im in love? do i love them? i know i love this feeling but i dont know. is this what in love feels like?

You're in love. If those feelings go away, you just really liked them.

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On a scale of 1 to 10 how much does sex hurt a virgin? Specially if they havn't even used a tampon yet? Or even had ANYTHING up there at all? Be COMPLETELY HONEST please! I really need to know. Thanks.

For me, I'd say about a 5. Seriously, the pain's different for everyone, because everyone is different. Also, it depends on how big the guy is, how wide, how tight you are, and how relaxed you are. If you're tense, your pain will be about a 10. Ask him to finger you first so you're okay & at least a little looser. And then when you're finally okay enough, go for the sex. Remember to use protection. =)

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ok well my crush always flirts with me and talks to me. iusually plan what ill say but when i do the thing i wanna say doesnt come out. i dont really feeze though. we used to talk all the time like we were best friends (before something happened between us and hes starting it all over again) and i always knew what to say and i liked hiim then. i thought he liked me too untill this thing happened between us. short story is one day he just completley stopped talking to me. weird. never found out why. anyways like this morning he was flirting with me while i was going up the steps and i all i did was smiled and gave him a kinda flirty shove but i didnt plan that. i just forget everything. honestly i like when he does everything first but still wanna talk to him. so any tips?? i wanna go back to how i was used to being able to talk to him like before. its like i forget how but i dont undertsand why. so please help me guys so i can fix myself by Thursday when we go back to school. thanks!!!
im 13/f

Aww how cute, haha. =) Anyways, if you didn't plan your playful little shove and it felt good, don't plan it. Be spontaneous with what you say & do. Say what's on your mind. The more you guys start talking, I'm pretty sure the less stress you'll have to talk to him. Just don't plan anything, don't stress & just be cool about it. Don't try to be cool about it or it'll just be awkward. Act like you normally would when you talk a guy.

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heyy! are there any websites/chatrooms/anything where you can just talk to random people thats anonymous or you can make up a name or somthing? thank you!

www.habbohotel.com

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ive noticed a lot of people on myspace leave comments saying 'i'd tap that' can someone tell me what that means coz i feel so dumb not knowing!!

thanks :]

Well, it means "I'd have sex with him/her." in a bad way. If you see: "I'd hit it, bang it, switch it..", they all pretty much mean the same thing.

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does anyone know of any jobs that you can get at 14 years old ? or 15, cuz i`m turning 15 soon.

Well it all depends on where you live. Some places in Western NY hire kids at 15, but at most of these places you gotta be 16. So, I'd check with the places where you live & ask.

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how do i get glue off skin

Wait til it dries & peel it off. Or use nail polish remover.

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I have to do something for math that requires Super Bowl knowledge. Believe it or not I don't know anything about Super Bowl games.

Can anybody tell me about how many people go to the Super Bowl game [annually]? The average number that is. And how long a Super Bowl game lasts? Thanks =]

The Super Bowl usually lasts about 4 hours. And I couldn't find how many people that go a year, but I'd guess more than 75,000 people.

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