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What is a good lanuage to take in high school that isn't like impossible to learn.
I DON'T want to take spanish though, because everyone takes that.

most schools only offer spanish or french and some have german and mandarin too.
in my biased opinion, i really think you should take spanish. since everyone is taking it, you'll have a lot of people to practice with & lots of people to help you with homework. there's a reason everyone takes it... it's because it's spreading and it will be useful in the future. butttt if you want to take something easier or that you will enjoy more, go with french. you can only speak it in about 4 different places in the world but it's cool.

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im 12 years old and i didnt get my period yet im worried but u know all my family got it at 13 but im still worried and i cant stop getting scareed
help

just because they go it at 13 does not mean you will. my mom got it at 13 & i didn't till 14 and a half. don't worry about it. when you first start it's not like it'll be so much that it'll stain everything.
PS-- you're not supposed to be on this site. until you are 13, just use www.beinggirl.com.

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what are some good quotes about being like young and crazy or living life to the fullest or always having fun(that arent too cheezy) that i could put on my myspace? or quotes about being young? thanks

my favorite one is
you can't be
old & wise
if you were never
young & crazy

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what is the normal age for a girl to get her first kiss? and when did you guys have your first kiss?

because i'm 15/f and i've never been kissed before.

A lot of people get it at like 12-13 but it's stupid because they don't really care about the person & regret it later.
It's better around 15-16 when you know who you want to be with and what you want your relationship to be like.
I got mine at 15 and a half (almost 16) and it was definatly worth the wait.
I was anxious and everything and was always hoping it would happen and how I would do it and say... but when it happened, i didn't expect it and all the thoughts i had about it just kinda dissappeared so really, don't get desperate.

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what is something wich you can taste or anything after drinking alcohol so your parents, police can't tell you drank because of your breath ?? please tell m something that really works not like ..halls or anything lik that

There's no way to cover alcohol from a breathalizer.. they did an experiment on myth busters and there's seriously no way.
as for parents, just don't get too close, eat something.. anything. i tried tic tacs once and it worked for me. chug a bottle of water.

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My most boring class in high school is English. I cant stand that class at all. My teacher is sooo boring. Im not even kidding. It feels like we are learning history actually. We cant talk, we're separated by our friends, I sit by in between my most 2 worst enemies. Its freaking horrible. I just hate it so much. And then I always walk out to go out to my locker so bored. Im seriuos its so hard to survive that class. My face just drops and my lips just stick out. I cant do anything but listen. The question is HOW CAN I SURVIVE SUCH A BORING CLASS?

bring a 50 pack of markers and color away to your hearts desire. make sure you look up at the teacher and pretend to care so you dont get yelled at. bring food, puzzles, cell phone or anything to keep your hands busy, other homework or hemp twine and make necklaces. trust me, i've been in boring classes my whole life.

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I'm doing a show at my high school & I'm getting a personal mic. Whenever I see I high school show I always hear them breathing really loud into their mics, and then they sing way to loud and it hurts my ears. I don't want to be like that haha. Does anyone (with expierence, don't just guess please.) have any tips to avoid these things while singing and dancing? Please help and thanks!!

oh wow... usually the sound crew does their job and keeps it from being obvious. i think theres a certain way to put the mic on to make it so it wont pick up breathing. i had one that was basically an earpiece and i didn't have a problem with that at all. there's nothing you can do (besides practice and be in shape so dancing doesn't wear you out) because that's the crew's job, not yours.

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I'm in my high school show choir, and for our homework we're supposed to pick a song and say either what it means or what we think it means.(Which it practically the same thing) Anyways I picked the following song. Can anyone tell me what they think it means verse by verse or just what they think the whole song means? I want someone elses opinion on it. Here it is:

The prayer By: Celine Dion

I pray youll be our eyes, and watch us where we go.
And help us to be wise in times when we dont know
Let this be our prayer, when we lose our way
Lead us to the place, guide us with your grace
To a place where well be safe la luce che tu hai
I pray well find your light
Nel cuore rest
And hold it in our hearts.
A ricordarci che
When stars go out each night,
Eterna stella sei

The light you have
I pray well find your light
Will be in the heart
And hold it in our hearts.
To remember us that
When stars go out each night,
You are eternal star nella mia preghiera
Let this be our prayer
Quanta fede
When shadows fill our day
How much faith theres
Let this be our prayer
In my prayer
When shadows fill our day lead us to a place, guide us with your grace
Give us faith so well be safe sognamo un mondo senza pi violenza
Un mondo di giustizia e di speranza
Ognuno dia la mano al suo vicino
Simbolo di pace, di fratern
We dream a world without violence
A world of justice and faith.
Everyone gives the hand to his neighbours
Symbol of peace, of fraternity la forza che ci
We ask that life be kind
il desiderio che
And watch us from above
Ognuno trovi amor
We hope each soul will find
Intorno e dentro
Another soul to love
The force his gives us
We ask that life be kind
Is wish that
And watch us from above
Everyone finds love
We hope each soul will find
Around and inside
Another soul to love let this be our prayer
Let this be our prayer, just like every child need to find a place, guide us with your grace
Give us faith so well be safe
Need to find a place, guide us with your grace
Give us faith so well be safe la fede che
Hai acceso in noi,
Sento che ci salv
Its the faith
You light in us
I feel it will save us

i love this song!! my dad understands italian (that's the language if i remember right) and all the stuff is translated in the other part of the song. anyway, it's a prayer and to me it means like how a couple or just people i guess are praying to god for guidance and safety and faith and all the things people need to live a happy life.

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I have a friend who is a girl and she wears a "promise" ring from her boyfriend on her right ring finger. So I figured that a ring on the right ring finger meant that a girl was taken. Now I have another girl that I like but we're only friends now. She wears a ring in the same place and has been for the 3 months i've known her. Today I find out she doesn't even have a boyfriend! What is the ring for? Why would somebody wear a ring to purposely take themselves off the market if you'll excuse my analogy? And for future reference, what is the significance of girls wearing rings? Thanks

there's 2 different kinds of promise rings... the one the girl got from her bf is basically like a pre-engagement ring meaning that yes, she is taken. the one that doesn't have a bf is probably waiting for marriage, not to take herself of the market. (haha). anyway, a lot of girls just like wearing pretty rings... don't rely on the rings to tell you things, asking them is better.

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Me and my boyfriend have only made out so far. If we were going to do anything further, would it be weird to do it at the movies? I just mean him fingering me or me giving him a hand job. The movies is the only place I can think of that is possible for us to be able to do anything like that. Any other places?

I'm not saying it's a great place to do things but a lot of people choose the movies. if you do, don't do it at a crowded movie. bring a jacket so no one gets a show.

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I gave my boyfriend a handjob and when he cummed, it got on my hands and on his hands too. Then my boyfriend fingered me. Could I get pregnant from this?

there's a chance but i highly doubt it. sooo many people have done that and freak out when they miss their period (which is from freaking out about it) so don't stress. just have him wash his hands next time or "ladies first" from now on.

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Do you have to use lubricant or lotion while giving a handjob?

No, you don't have to use it.

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I don't know whether or not this fits here, but here I go.

My friend's parents have gotten divorced in a rather messy way, causing her mother's almost mental breakdown and constant crying. Her father, on the other hand, is being overly nice to my friend.

Due to her sister's influence, my friend started smoking and drunk some alcohol. Now, my friend regrets this, and hates that she is now addicted to cigarettes. She's trying to stop, but it doesn't seem to be enough.

Recently, her mother found her sister's birth control pills and some drugs, and now suspects both my friend and her sister. The mother then proceeded to say that they would be kicked out of the house if she caught them taking drugs. The mother then told the father, who said he would not allow them in his house if they were kicked out, either.

So. What can I do to help my friend, and what advice can I give her?

That's a bad situation to be in but if you want to give her advice, tell her she's better off staying away from drugs and drinking. the drinking she isnt addicted to but the ciggs she's gonna have to make an honest effort to quit. tell her that drugs wont change things and they could just bring more stress into her life. i think she knows what shes doing to herself if she regrets things but she doesn't know how else to handle it. don't be too harsh with her but do keep an eye on her. if you need anything else, lemme know & i'll edit.

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14/f

Ok well every since i was little mayber like 4 or 5 i have never wiped after i went pee, i would never get any infections and it wouldnt bug me, and atually it would bug me more if i wiped, so my question is, is there anything wrong with me?

there's nothing wrong with you but it's never too late to start doing it.

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13/f New boyfriend, we've been going out for about a week. I know a week isn't alot, but I like him alot. I mean, alot.

So yesterday I went iceskating with him, and these "a-holes that he goes to class with" were like, "makeout! makeout!" and we ended up not making out. Because who wants to makeout with everryone watching you?

So he asked me to go to the movies with him, and I really couldn't say no. So I told my mom about it. She was like, "Ill think about it" and now it turns out that shes not letting me go because I could "get into the wrong situation" or "earn myself bad repuatation" "I cant go to the movies with a boy!" So I asked one of my friends to go, but she still isn't letting me. I've been crying for hours. Yeahh, I know she's trying to protect me and all that, but pleaseee.

I really have no idea what to do, because if I blow that plans off I have a feeling I'm going to get dumped. Even if I don't, I'll still feel really bad that I didn't go with him because I know he really wants to go.

Is there ANY way I could convince my mom to let me go to the movies? Help, asap. ):

tell your bf what's going on and that you are not allowed to go everywhere so he doesn't think you're just blowing him off. don't be immature about it but not being available sometimes will make it more interesting when you are. if this guy cares about you at all (like he should since he's your bf) he won't dump you for it. most people aren't allowed to go out by themselves with a guy at 13 anyway. I mean, i don't know how things are now but it's still kinda young. make a compromise with your mom and go with a group so you won't get a "bad reputation". trust me, it will work out for you.

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Hey im a girl who is 16 years old. And i hang with a buch of preppy girl's. They are super nice but they have one prob. They smoke !! And now they want me to. I mean it seems real cool and stuff but i know its bad for you. so can you help ??? cuz i need it!!!

Love,
Under peer preasure

Don't give in... half of them probably don't like doing it and were in your place not too long ago. it's just not a good idea. there are other ways to entertain yourselves. don't freak out on them, just don't do it. I had someone smoking in front of me the other day and i made them move away and they respect me for it. so stand up for yourself.

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Hello...

I have a teen daugter she is 13 and she goes to the mall all the time which I don't mind.But she always brings home clothes and says their her friends or something like that and I found 1 price tag in her room...she has a history of shoplifting but do you think shes at it again ?

Signed,
Questioned

If you only found one price tag... that's kinda suspicious. she might be at it again. you should ask her how much she spent on stuff. i usually tell my mom if i found a good sale on something and i'm older than your daughter. ask for recipts... she might not have all of them (they are easily lost) but if she isn't stealing she'll at least have one.

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Ok..so..i went on a date with this guy tonight and he was soo sweet. But..the problem is..im a little wild..i drink sometimes..and i cuss sometimes..i mean im your average teenager. This guy never drinks..and he just seems sooo good. Its not attractive to me..i like the bad boy image. Should i ditch this guy..or keep him around?

I think that if you like being around the guy, you should keep him. I used to looovee bad boys and i would be all wild but then i found my current bf and he took me out of that and i thank him for it. if you guys are young, he might change in the future but really, bad boys usually make bad bfs... it's the good kids that treat girls right.

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Ok well if anyone has read my other question you would kno that i hav been daing someone for 3 weeks now and he wants to have sex with me. but i didnt know if he was using me or not.

Well he sed that he will wait but he wants to finger me and stuff. Should i let him or should i just want because im scared that he might get the idea that i want to have sex with him soon but i dont. Im going to the movies with him on saturday and he wants to feel my up my skirt and stuff should i let him do that or not? I want him too but idk if thats the right choice. Please help!! thanks

I don't think you should do that.. 3 weeks is not a long time at all. If you want to do something, feeling up is enough. sex is wayyy too far. do what will make you happy and something you wouldnt mind people finding out about... something you can be proud of.

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So I am mentally ill, battling with depression. I have looked everywhere for a Psychiatric clinic or facility that covers my insurance but there are none around (within 50 miles). And my parents refuse to get me somewhere where it does not support our insurance.

Are there any clinics around the Cincinnati, OH area I can go to for free or maybe to a price affordable?

Please try to help me find some clinics because I can't find any and I am desperate.

Thanks

I LOVE CINCINNATI OHIO!
[be happy you live there... i miss it!]
anyway, i've heard children's hospital helps with mental illness cases and a lady came in to talk to us about depression... i'll try and find you the link online and edit in a little bit.

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