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two guys tried to rape my gf when we were walking from a party. so i was in a fight with them, i knew it was a stupid move; i was out matched and out numbered, but i had to. well i manage to take one down and the other i guess just give up, but i took a good few hits, my ribs and face is like bruised up, and now my gf feels really bad about it, like it was her fault, how can i make her feel less guilty, and tell her that i dont care about a few hits in exchange for her safty? shes really sad and i that hurts more then any physical injury (link)
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Wow. That's completely heroic and totally sweet! Wow! Just tell her that you love her, and you'd gladly take a few hits than see her get hurt. Let her know that you really care about her, and would rather be beaten up than have her sexually assualted. WOW! That's so awesome. You were (as you said) outnumbered and the odds were against you - but you took that chance anyway! That's super sweet! Tell her exactly what you told us: "You shouldn't feel bad, it wasn't your fault. You don't need to fel guilty. I don't care about a few hits in exchange for your saftey. You being sad hurts more than any physical injury." I think that'll help her understand. You could find a funny poem, or write one, make up a cute song or just tell her straight up how you feel - that it wasn't her fault. But she sounds alot like me. If that happened to me, I'd feel guilty FOR SURE! I know I would... simply because the dudes weren't out to get my boyfriend, they were tryin' to get me, and my boyfriend stepped in. I'm sure that's how she feels. I betcha she's really, really, really grateful and thankful to have a sweet boyfriend like you. Tell her that you love her ♥ (or like her alot) and would gladly take a few punches for her. It's the gentleman thing to do. :) Stay cool!
-FunnyCide
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ive had 20 boyfriends. does that make a slut. im a 14/f (link)
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Erg... well, it depends on what you did. I know there are 12 year olds that have had 50 boyfriends. I think that's slutty, yes. If you didn't do anything at all with them, no, you're not. But if you kissed them and such ... maybe. It just depends on how you act.
You are much too young to be having that many though! I prayed for ... gah, what seemed like ages about having a boyfriend, and I know that God is okay with me right now. But, I am not going to do something stupid. I don't think that I ever want to even kiss a guy. Maybe that will change, but I don't know. It depends on how God leads me. (something I'm praying about. Very hard.) It's all in how you act. But you're only fourteen. You have a long time before you're going to get married... why do you want to bounce around like that? I don't want to, I know that much. I want to have very few boyfriends and have a lot of very close guy-friends. I'd rather go out with ... one (if possible) or two, maybe three guys, and marry one of them. That'd be nice.
Back to your question: That is for you to decide. It depends on how you acted etc. But I wouldn't say so, because, like I've said, there are 12 year old girls who've had 50 + boyfriends.
-FunnyCide
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can some one give me step - by - step how to do those cute little hearts i know its &hearts but it never works (link)
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Type & hearts ; without spaces. It should look like ♥ when you're done. It doesn't work if you use caps though. It also doesn't work on AIM. (which completely smurfs) It's very important that you don't use spaces and you don't capitalize the "H" in "hearts".
-FunnyCide
♥ [ lol ]
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welp, im going to ask this really hott guy out tomorrow and im so nervous...but i kno this isnt a question but i just wanted to tell people, wish me luck. *if we do start a relationship, our annaversery will be June 2nd! lol) WISH ME LUCK! i dunno why, but whoever wishes me luck, will get a rating of 5. :) (link)
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Awesome! That's sweet! Be confident! Have confidence in yourself! Think only positive thoughts, you know you can do it! I leave for camp tomorrow, so June 2nd will be a big day for both of us! I hope - for your sake - he says yes. Don't think about it TOO much, or you'll sound ... like a robot or something, and you'll be wayy too nervous to follow through. C'mon! You can do it! Good luck!!
-FunnyCide
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I have 2 kids no husband. I have made alot of mistakes in the past escpecially being premiscuous. I have compltly turned my life around now. Is it too late for or will God forgive me and except me into Heaven. Please someone who belives in God or is a Pastor or something help me. (link)
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It is absolutely NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER too late to be forgiven by God! I am a devout Christian, and I know people who have been in your situation or have made similar choices. No, I can't say that you made "right" choices, but you can be forgiven. You've made a serious step towards that! You've recognized that you made mistakes. You know you need God's forgiveness, and you're asking if it's too late. It's NOT too late. God will forgive you in a heartbeat! Jesus once walked, talked, and forgave a prostitute for her sins, He will do the same for you. I have made mistakes, too. No, I don't have children; but I've sinned nonetheless. God wants to forgive you. You must accept His free gift of eternal life by asking Jesus Christ to come into your heart and be your Savior. If you're not already a Christian, please pray to God and ask Him to come into your life and be your Savior. Once you've done this, ask Him to forgive you. I'm sure God appreciates specific and detailed pleas, but He knows your heart - you are entitled to be as vague as you wish. If you're not a Christian, please pray the following prayer and mean it with all your heart:
God,
I'm a sinner. I know I've sinned against You. I'm sorry. Please forgive me. I want You to send Your Son to live in my life and be my Savior forever. Thank You, Lord.
Amen
If you prayed that prayer with all of your heart and soul and mind - you are a born again daughter of Christ. If you've done this, I welcome you into the family, Sister. If you need a bit more time, please pray and think hard about this decision. You never know when your life will be taken from you. Don't wait! This is a free gift of eternal life! You will go to live in Heaven with Jesus when He ressurects the Church. I wont go into details, because it's very confusing (at least for my simple mind).
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. But in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight. - Psalms
I wish I could remember the reference for that verse, but I can't. I've memorized it, though.
A good idea, if you're a new Christian, is to begin studing God's Word - the Bible. Begin reading Matthew, Mark, Luke or John and pray on what you are reading and let God take control of your life.
I am praying for you, friend. Do not hesitate to ask if you have any more questions.
In Christ,
-FunnyCide
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What's the best way to tell a girl how you feel about her? School's over so I can't tell her there. I could get her screen name from one of her friends and tell her over IM but I'm not sure if that's a good idea. Please help. I'm 14 and a guy. (link)
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AIM is a super idea. and E-mail. You've gotta tell her how you feel, man! Get her SN from one of her friends and IM her. Tell her! Wow, you're so sweet! That's awesome. She'll really appreciate you telling her, and if you go about it the right way, she'll be really really really happy.
Don't tell her you love her though. That might scare her away. Be gentle and just say, "You know, I really like you. As more than a friend..."
Even if she doesn't like you back, it's always nice to know that you've spoken your heart and mind and told the truth.
If you don't want to IM her, get her phone number and call her. Or you could get her address and write her a letter.
-FunnyCide
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i am in love with like the most perfect girl and we've been together for a while and i want to keep making her happy. any ideas how i can keep doign that?
all answers would be appreciated. i rate highly. (link)
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She's probably already happy because you sound like such a sweet guy. :) That's awesome that you care so much about her. Keep it up!
Well, a gift every now and then for no reason is sweet, but don't overdo it. What I mean by that is: don't go buy her a $120 jewelry set for no reason, because she'll fell really bad about not getting you anything. Some small gift ideas are: teddy bear, "I love you" on a squishy pillow, a white rose (which means love), a bouquet of flowers (doesn't have to be big), a card, a ring/necklace/bracelet (not too expensive!), a love letter/note/E-mail, a poem (if you're not poetic, find one online and type it in a nice font on a pretty card), cook her dinner or take her out, tell her you miss her etc.
She'd really appreciate it if you did something really special for her birthday. You could surprise her by taking her to a movie and out to eat, and give her a special gift. If she works, and is working on her birthday, go see her at work, right before she quits and take her somewhere from work. (Make sure she has clothes to change in to so she's not wearing a uniform)
Tell her that you love her, compliment her, give her small gifts, write her letters, hang out with her, comfort her when she's down, and most importantly - listen to her! If you're her boyfriend, with the emphasis on "friend", and you do small things that show you love her, she'll think she's the luckiest girl alive.
Stay awesome.
-FunnyCide
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i have a numerous of scars on my arms and i was wondering if anyone has any ideas to hide them. (link)
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You could wear long sleeves, as was suggested already, but that's not a great idea during the summer. If you have open cuts, put Neosporin or Pollysporin on them. Pollysporin works alot better than Neosporin, but is more expensive. Band aids and Pollysporin for open cuts, for scars that are already there - try and find some scar creme. I can't give you an exact name, but I'm pretty sure that Allmay, Cover Girl, Maybelline, and Avon make a lotion that help hide scars by restoring the damaged tissue. For the stubborn scars, use makeup. This plan also has holes in it. Makeup will sweat off, rub off, and when you're swimming it comes off. But, on a date or something, it's not a bad idea. Fishnet sleeves are a good option, too. But they can be warmish in the summer time.
If you're a cutter, seek help and guidence. If you were a cutter, praise the Lord you stopped. If you're just kinda clumsy, just be careful.
-FunnyCide
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does anyone know any websites with color codes and that has alll shades of black and gray? (link)
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Yep.
http://www.december.com/html/spec/color.html
http://www.hypersolutions.org/pages/rgbhex.html
That should do it.
-FunnyCide
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how do u do the rating thing?
it cunfuses me im new so.. be nice (link)
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Okay. I'm not sure if you're talking about question rating (if you're a moderator, you rate questions...) or if you're talking about rating answers that people give you. I'll outline both.
Answer Rating: When someone answers a question you've asked (like this one), you'll have the option of rating the answer on a scale of 1-5, 1 being really bad advice, 5 being totally teriffic advice. There will be five numbers lined up at the very bottom of the answer given, just above the columnist's name. I think it says something like "rate this answer". Click on the number you feel is appropriate for the answer given. Basically, the way admin lined it out, the ratings mean this:
1 = pretty bad advice
2 = not harmful, but not helpful either
3 = decent enough advice
4 = good advice
5 = really awesome advice
Once you choose your rating for the answer in hand, click on the number. You will be redirected to a new page, where you have the option of leaving feedback. Feedback is where you're given the option of saying something about the advice that was given. If the advice was really bad, you might say "that wasn't helpful.." or if it was really good you might say "thanks so much!" etc, etc. Just whatever you want to say. Columnists typically enjoy and appreciate kind feedback. This link will help you understand it even more:
http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=5
Question Rating:
Once you've been a member of Advicenators for 30 days, you've answered a certain number of questions and have a rating average over 3.8, you can be a moderator. You start as a level 1 moderator, and you rate questions. This link tells you all about it:
http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=11
I hope this has cleared things up! If you have any more questions about anything, feel free to drop one in my inbox!
-FunnyCide
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LOL, i know, i was just giving u a hard time! haha, lol. But, since u answered that, i have another ?.......
whats the best way to sleep?
because obviously, laying in bed doesn't seem to work for me...
thanks!
~KT~ hey and my sn is mysandwichworld!
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Hmm... obviously laying in bed is not working for you. Okay. It used to be reallyy hard for me to fall asleep, too. I'd lie in bed for HOURS waiting for sleep to come. If you're taking a shower in the morning, it might help to take a shower at night instead. A warm shower makes me sleepy, so it's good for me to take a shower at night so I can go to sleep easily. If you're already taking a shower at night, start taking a shower in the morning. Showers wake some people up more than they make them sleepy. Try listening to some soft music when you're going to sleep. Classical music is really good to listen to at night, but I like to listen to the Bible on CD at night. Classical music is calming, but I listen to the Bible because it is the Word of my Lord and Savior. Some people find it good to listen to nature's sounds at nighttime, too. Most music shops, CD stores, Super Centers, or Nature stores should sell a CD or tape that has nature sounds on it. Other people find it easy to listen to a fountain while sleeping. You can buy a small fountain at Target, Wal-Mart, K-Mart etc. Some people have to drink warm milk to sleep well; others drink water. Personally, this is what I do:
- Write in my God Journal
- Read my Bible
- Shower
- Read a book until I can't keep my eyes open
I almost always go to sleep within ten minutes. If I'm not feeling well, like I'm sick to my stomach or something, I'll sleep in our big easy chair with a movie on and a cup of Sprite. I have very vivid dreams, and sometimes I wake up from them, and when that happens it's hard for me to fall back asleep. I normally would have to read my Bible some more.
If none of those suggestions help you at all, maybe you have a sleep disorder. My grandmother has Sleep Apnea, and though she falls asleep quickly, her body constantly wakes up in order to even breathe. If you're having a lot of trouble sleeping, consider going to the doctor.
-FunnyCide
PS - my SN is frequentflyier91. Feel free to IM me. :)
PPS - do you have a column?
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sry, i got another one...
lol
ok, OMG!! i have a boyfriend named Marvin, and i keep on telling my friends that he hasn't called me and that he has been avoiding me... but their excuse is because he is imaginary.. which is true, but i still don't c the point! WHAT SHOULD I DO!
sincerely- RELATIONSHIL AT STAKE! (aka, KT) (link)
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*gasp* Your imaginary boyfriend is avoiding you, too!? WOW!! So is mine! I can't believe that! Your imaginary boyfriend's name is Marvin? Mine's named Melvin! Sooo scary!! =]
I think you should talk to Marvin. You call him up on the telephone. Say, "Oh, I miss you babe! Soo much!" Over and over and over and over and over. Well, maybe only twice. Write Marvin a card. Tell him that you love him soo much and would die without him. Give him a present for no reason at all. Make it something special... like a picture. Take a picture of you and Marvin, put it in a totally wicked cool frame, and give it to him. Does Marvin drive? Give Marvin a gas card. :) Or, if Marvin doesn't drive, but is on the romantic side, give him a white rose. ( the symbol of love ) Basically, tell him how you feel. He'll appreciate it. A lot.
-FunnyCide
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o......um for cute girl baby names, did u forget Katherine... because that is EXTREMELY cute, and i found that supprising that u didn't have that there.
sincerely
~KT~(ohh and kt isn't bad either...) (link)
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You're right, KT, I forgot Katherine. It WAS late at night, and I don't know anyone named Katherine. Though that is a pretty name. KT is a cute name, too. But, you'll also notice that I did not put my name, my mom's name, my sisters' names, or my cousins names in there - simply because it seems a bit ... biased. But, here's a list of names that I didn't include in the first list for whatever reason. I don't promise that I've gotten every cute girl name in the world on this list, simply because there are SO many cute or pretty names.
- Katherine
- KT
- Jordan
- Celia
- Erin
- Stephani
- Alicia
- Michelle
- Alice
- Chelsea
- Taylor
- Samantha [ or Sam ]
- Candace
-FunnyCide
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what does a damp hot rag do for your face?
I have a open pour, is that going to always be there or is there a way to get rid of it? (link)
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Putting a damp hot rag on your face makes it easier for you to wash your face because the pores are open. When they're open, your face wash or toner can get the dirt, oil etc., etc. out of your pores easier - making your face clearer.
You probably have more than one open pore, you just have one that is more open than others. After you wash your face, put a cold damp cloth on your face and that will help close up the pores. Your skin "changes" every twenty-eight days, so you wont see true results until then, but if you don't put a cold rag on your face now, there wont be any results to see.
Cold water closes pores; hot water opens them. Before you wash your face, place a hot damp rag on your face for about two minutes (at least). Then wash your face as usual. Once you've done that, place a cold damp rag on your face for about 3-4 minutes to close the open pores up. If you leave your pores open, it is easier for them to get dirt and oil in them again - thus causing more acne to "pop up".
-FunnyCide
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i really really like this guy, so how do i get him to ask me out?? (link)
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Ack, one way NOT to do it:
Sit on AIM and tell him over and over that you know he's got something to ask you.
I have a friend who did that ^ to one of my good guy friends, and he was ... more than confused and uncomfortable because he didn't want to ask her out, and she wanted him to. Don't do that - it's funny for me now, but I wasn't the one being put on the spot nor was I the one who was rejected.
Drop hints. If he doesn't know you like him, tell him. Don't go all romantic on him, that'll scare him off. Don't go tell him you love him the moment you tell him you like him as more than a friend either. That's scary, too. Just tell him that you like him. On AIM, E-mail, in person, on the phone - whatever works. Start hanging out with him. Go to the movies with him and some friends, (or just him!) go mini-golfing, go to a park, an amusement park, some gardens, the beach (if you live near one) etc, etc. Just hang out. If he likes you back, then he'll probably ask you out. If he doesn't like you back, just hang out with him. Maybe he'll like you more after he's gotten to know you better.
-FunnyCide
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What should i do if I'm losing my voice and have to sing a solo for Friday Recidles?(School thing)
What should I take//eat//drink?? Reply me back A.S.A.P.! (link)
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Not milk or icecream. Orange juice, olive oil (it tastes nasty, but it works), bananas, oranges, apples and salads are good. Avoid things with lactose in them. (Milk, cheese, ice cream, yogurt etc, etc.) Things like that coat your vocal cords and they feel good, but they don't get better and it changes the way your voice sounds when you sing. Olive oil helps coat your throat without affecting your voice. Orange juice and fruit help your throat heal.
Happy singing!
-FunnyCide
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what do you get if you mix a apple with snapple
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You'll get:
-Snapple 2 (Snapple squared)
-A wet apple
-A big mess
-Wasted Snapple
-Interesting flavor
I don't know if it's not one of these. Why don't you tell me when you find out?
-FunnyCide
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My bf and i have a long distance relationship and i really want to call him but i dont want to be clingy. Would i be clingy??? HELP!!!
i rate high!! (link)
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Definitely not. Your boyfriend will probably be glad and thankful that you took the first step and called him. If he sounds... offset or touchy, keep it short and sweet - you know, "what's up? How are ya? I miss you, talk to you later, bye" sortof thing. But not SO short that he's offended by it. Don't seem like you wanna just get it over with and get off the phone. On the other extreme hand: If he wants to talk, talk to him! Even if he wants to talk about the most pointless things for hours and hours - it's a sign that he loves and misses you (and just wants to hear your voice!)
Of course, if you're calling him three and four times a day - that's clingy. I'd say, limit it to one call per day, two at the most. Maybe not every day. Chat with him online, too.
So, definitely not clingy... If you don't overdo it.
-FunnyCide
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What does emo mean? I am really confused...Everyone says i look emo in all my pics but i dont even know what emo is...can someone explain it to me? (link)
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When they say that you looked emo they meant that you looked emotional.
SMILE FOR THE CAMERA, SWEETIE!
It's not a bad thing really to look emotional. Some people try to look emo on purpose.
-FunnyCide
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Okay well, I'm going into 8th grade next year and I still haven't had a boyfriend! No guy even notices me! I'm not a dork, and people say it's just because I'm tall. Well, there are other girls in my grade that are tall and have boyfriends! I mean it's not just that though. I mean all of my friends have had their first kiss and everything but I haven't. So no one really understands what I'm talking about or how I feel. All my friends have had at least 3 boyfriends and have all been kissed. What could I do to get guys to notice me? PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
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This is very well typed, good job. :)
Don't worry. I'm out of 8th grade and I haven't kissed a guy yet. I'm really glad, too. Kissing a guy is not how you show that you love him. You show you love him by talking to him, telling him "I love you", telling him how you feel, hanging out with him - not by doing "things" with him. If you get into the physical part of the relationship, and for some reason your relationship is broken, you're going to be hurt more because you gave a part of yourself physically to that boy and you can't ever get it back. Make that first kiss really special - don't just kiss because everyone else has kissed.
Don't take this personally, but I kindof think that girls who are young and have done "stuff" (kiss, make out, french, "more") with their boyfriends and who've had more than one boyfriend are kindof... slutty. Believe me, I struggled at one time with this too. I thought that I was the only girl in the whole world who hadn't kissed a boy at the grand old age of eleven. Now that I'm older, I see that I'm not the only girl who is waiting for the right guy, nor am I the only one who struggled like that. Don't let yourself get swept away - it's not worth it. Wait for the right guy to come along, be friends with him, get to know him. Know the little things about him: does he have brothers or sisters? What is his favorite sport? Does he like ice cream? When's his birthday? Etc., etc. Then - and only then - should you consider 'dating' or 'going out' with him. Don't be like many of the questioners that ask for advice on this site - go out with a guy for two weeks then be found making out on a street corner or something. Wait! Don't give yourself away. You can only give your virginity away once; and once you've given it away, you can't get it back. Kissing someone isn't the same as having sex with him, but if you don't have the self control to keep yourself from kissing him the first two weeks of your relationship, who knows if you'll have the self control it takes to keep your virginity.
Don't try and make guys notice you - that turns them off. I haven't tried at all to get male attention, and three of my four guy friends like me. I have no idea what compelled these fine young Christian men to like me; that still ... awes me. But, I certainly didn't try to get them to like me. Be yourself. Try and be friends with guys. Not their girlfriend, just a friend. Guys are people too, you know. Do you like it when a girl is kindof flaunting and flirting, making herself look better than the rest of us? I don't. And I'm pretty sure that most respectable guys don't either. It's more appealing when a girl is friendly, smiling, happy and encouraging, right? It makes you want to be her friend. Guys are like that too. Once you're their friend, they'll start to "notice" you more. I'm not saying that every one of your guy friends will fall in love with you, but chances are that one of them will. And you'll feel more comfortable with a guy that you're friends with than just some random guy off the street.
Save yourself. :)
-FunnyCide
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