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okay yeah. im flat. like speed bumps. im 13 f and like... 30 A or what ever. im thinking about getting like.. those like gel things that you put in your bra to give you like. . . bigger looking boobs.
do you think i should?
like... are they natural and like.. idk like would they fall out or anything..?
please help.! any info on them let me know.!
like price etc. (link)
no, duh its not natural, and jus wait till ya boobies grow a lil, you probabaly just ent hit puberty :)


Does anyone know a site that I can go to to get the piano sheet music to "It Ends Tonight" by the All-American Rejects? It needs to be free and downloadable, as well as printable. Thanks in advance! (link)
e-chords.com guitar sheet music is from chordie.com if you ever need it. hope i helped


I really wanna tone up my but and upper legs right below my but and lower stomach. Im alright at the minute I just wanna be a lil bit more tonned.
Ive tried doing squats and lunges but it just seems to be toning my legs?
Please help (link)
swimming tones up the whole body, and i mean the whole dam thing! because you use all muscles, so, yer....hope i helpes


I really wanna tone up my but and upper legs right below my but and lower stomach. Im alright at the minute I just wanna be a lil bit more tonned.
Ive tried doing squats and lunges but it just seems to be toning my legs?
Please help (link)
lay on your back with legs straight. put your hands behind your head with your elbows bent (like doing a situp/crunch) slowly raise your legs, kind of bending if needed. bring them up to your chest. hold. slowly lower your legs, straightening them to abouta foot off the ground. hold. repeat.

lay on your side, propping up your head with your right arm. slowly lift your left leg. repeat on the other side.

stand up straight, with legs about shoulder width apart. straighten your arms, and have them hanging straight and touching your thighs. slowly lower yourself to a squatting position. your arms will slowly rub along you thighs until the get to your knees. stand back up and repeat.

the bicycle: lay on your back like you're doing a crunch/situp.. bend your legs (flexing/pointing your feet) and pretend you are riding a bike in the air.

-Armchair Stands (front of thighs, butt)
Sit on the edge of a chair (or couch) with your feet shoulder-width apart. Without using your arms, press into the floor with your feet, and stand, tightening your butt muscles as you rise. Keep your abdominals tight and your back straight. Hold, then slowly lower yourself. Before you touch the chair, stand up again.

http://www.prevention.com/article/0,5778,s1-2-87-137-2555-1,00.html#exer500750075007



I am always tired! I dont get to call my boyfriend until after 9:00pm and thats when I get tired. when he able to talk we talk till about 10:30pm then I say im tired and I need to get off. This doesn't happen every night. Sometimes he doesn't answer his phone. Also When I got o bed that late I dont want to get up in the morning for school. I am just too tired! It gets pretty hot in my bedroom so I sleep without covers sometimes. Whenever I am tired I try to fall asleep but I cant for some reason! I just lay there waiting and trying to fall asleep. I use the bathroom before I got o bed so I dont have to get up in the middle of the night. I want and need more slepp but I dont know how to get it with all of this!! Any tips?? (link)
hey

if i dont answer your question totally, please dont rate. i just thought you could use what i'm about to say so i can help you.

this happens to me sometimes. you gotta start going to bed a little earlier each night. like if one night you go to bed at 10 30 then the next night go to bed at 10 15. you'll slowly start going to sleep & getting sleepy earlier.

nap. i can't stress this enough. although you won't be getting the deep, REM sleep you get during a long period of time, it will reduce the tiredness. i'm sure youre a really busy girl who does lots of sports, but like even if you have an hour or half an hour to spare, just hit the bed. you'll feel grumpy & like a bitch when you wake up (like me =P) but just take a shower & it will help. it feels really good to clear out your mind on a wednesday afternoon.

go to a doctor to get sleep medicine. maybe you have a serious problem & need medication. a good sleeping medicine is lunesta. it doesnt make you fall asleep- it makes you relaxed & calms you down which, in turn, makes you go to sleep.

you might be really stressed out. make a list of everything thats bothering you and conquer them little by little. start a diary & release what you think is going on. you really dont know how good this is until you try it. - take yoga - this really releases stress & anger. it's also really good for you & makes you really lose weight too if that's an issue for you.

i hope i helped & good luck ♥


Does anyone know any quick constipation remedies?

thanks (link)
hey

ohhh yeahhhhh

ONE WORD: CORRECTOL. oh man after you pop one of these babies, you'll say, "i think i just lost 5 pounds!"

SERIOUSLY this stuff is hardddcooreeee.

other stuff:
- fiber one cereal :]
- bananas.. two or three

water will only hydrate you. it doesnt really make you go.

dude but seriously try that correctol stuff. it WORKS.

i hope i helped & didnt freak you out...


K. I want ask if anyone give me tips on how to advoid all the drama and getting ride thoughs about friends that are not my true friends. tips on just to stay away and what happend there contact. I not try to be mean but friends I have are the one not let me be who I am and don't get me and I don't want try hard be there freinds the way they treat me.. (link)
hey

well this is how i dealt with it:
- i pretty much stopped going on aim. like i go on once in a while for something that i really need but overall, i just dont go on aim.

- i keep my space. like the more you talk to people, the more you tell them & the more you have to update them. if you keep your space & dont tell them a lot you realize you run out of things to talk to.

- i email the people i DO like. to keep my real friends, i email them to get an update & we email IM instead of regular IMing. cause i know youre thinking why dont you just block them but people find out, etc etc & it's so complicated.

- i am still nice. i still say hi to them in the hallway and make eye contact & smile, but i dont go out of my way for them.

thats the key - dont go out of your way to talk to / hang out with people you dont like. if they want to hang out, YOU have to think about the pros & cons. will i accidentally slip some stuff? will i regret it later? etc. etc.

try to hang out with cool people who love you for who you are.. i started talkng to new people but then i realized that only some people are worth my time.

i hope i helped & good luck babe ♥


Well my boyfriend is picking me up around 11:40ish, so I kinda have to hurry. I wanna make him think I look so good. What should I wear? My Hair? My makeup? :] Nothing like slutty, cause his parents are going to be home. And we're pretty much lounging. I have..
Blonde Hair
Hazel Eyes
Umph. I'm like 5'2.
Haha! That doesn't matter.
Help please? :]
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hey

okay well i just have a few suggestions - i'm not gonna say anything specific

make-up:
- dont wear too much make-up. put a light, natural bit on.
- no exotic colored eyeshadows, mascaras, eyeliner, etc.
- dont put TOO much black eyeliner on
- for eyeshadow, put a light natural color that is one shade lighter than the shade of your eyelid skin
- chapstick. not too much lipgloss if you decide to put some on.

clothes:
- something that covers you up.
- look cute but nothing too raffish - like if youre wearing a long-sleeved shirt you can wear a mini skirt. or a tank top & jeans. but not a mini skirt & a tank top.
- something simple. ballet flats as shoes- no high heels?

hair:
- you can do your hair any which way you want, just remember it can't be too crazy!
- dont... dye it a weird color or something.

your whole goal is to look like a nice girl who doesnt cover herself up with make-up.


Ok heres the thing...i need some tips on how you can tell if your boyfriend is cheating on you. Ive been going out with this guy for like almost 11 months and lately he hasn't been saying I love you as much and yesturday hes like yeah guess who keeps calling me now and then after that he wouldn't tell me then after about 5 minutes he finally told me and it was a girl and i asked him if he talked to her alot and hes just like does it matter? i mean i want him to have other friends that are girls but idk i just feel weird about this...i don't know if hes cheating on me but i do feel like he doesn't love me as much any more...please help!! (link)
hey

i'm really sorry about your boyfriend & if he is cheating on you i hope something works out.

here:
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Tell-If-Your-Boyfriend-or-Husband-Is-Cheating-On-You&id=43081
http://bustedcheater.blogspot.com/?gclid=CMeGpey8qYsCFRh4UAodiD02eg
http://www.ehow.com/how_9817_handle-cheating-boyfriend.html
http://wizardofodds.com/askthewizard/boyfriend.html

i really hope i helped ♥ good luck


Hi Everyone! I'm in a pageant and we have to raise money, what can I do to raise money? (link)
A good way to raise money are all of the following (to make it easier than reading a paragraph of mumbo jumbo lol)

*Buy something tasty yet cheap at the store and re-sell them for more money.
*Go around to houses and ask to donate money to charity (or the specific event)

*If you are in school, consult your teachers about keeping a can in their rooms to let people donate money and go around to classes in spare time to tell a brief summary on your fundraising.

*Go outside of grocery shops and ask for donations (as well as malls and other popular stores)

*If you are not in school, go to a school nearest to you and consult the principal and ask him/her to make an announcement on the fundraising.

*Ask your friends if they would like to contribute and if they could get some people to help out too.

well GoOd LuCk!!!!! i hope i helped!!!! :-)
*Ask your friends to go


sry this might be weird, but i really want to know. what does cunt mean? ive seen it written one time, and it was like "shes an evil c***. so i assumed it was cunt. but i dont know what it means. pleeease help me!!!! thankssss (link)
It's a really hurtful word and means the girls' area down there.


so there was a little chance that i could be pregant. a veyr little cahnce. so i took plan b within 24 hrs. they say your suppose to get side effects like headaches and stuff. but i didnt get any of the side effects. just a a tiny tiny little headache. i tok the pills as directed. is there any strange reason why i didnt get the side effects they warn about? (link)
Alright, well not everyone gets the side effects of it. In fact, it's a good thing because it shows that some medicines just don't effect you like other people. It doesn't mean it didn't work, because even that 'tiny tiny little headache' could just be sign it kicked in somehow. Plan B is an emergency contraceptive and it generally works, as long as you took it right after it happened. But don't rely on it for the future because it's not 100% certain in the long run.


19 f
so im trying to see what most nice guys are attracted to in a girl. i know that it varys from guy to guy but i would just like to know. do they like it when girls show a lot of skin? i dont but sometimes i think i have to look more barbie like to grab there attention. (link)
Well I guess to help you out I'll use my boyfriend as an example. I met him at work when I was wearing this hideous Burger King uniform and ugly visor. So what I can tell you is that nice guys don't base their interest on you on what you wear or showing alot of skin. They might have an added bonus of finding you attractive, but generally it's your personality that drives them to you. If you seem outgoing and friendly, someone that they can see themselves being around alot they will probably appreciate that. Plus, nice guys like nice girls. So if you are catty and a 'whore' they might not find that too appealing.


ok so at my school i am the one with big boobs nad yea it sux so i was wondering if u can do ne thing besiudes surgery/reduction surgery tht can make them smaller? (link)
Well to be honest, I am burdened with that same thing. I struggled alot with it and became really self conscious because right now I'm at about a 36 ddd. And for me, it's horrible finding clothes that actually make them appear less noticeable. What I was told to do is try out layers, not tighter tee shirts or tank tops especially. Nevertheless it is pretty much inevitable they are still gonna look that size. Just try and appreciate those 'gifts' of yours, and once you do you can get the confidence to not want to change it. Personally, I've become almost used to them and sure I get comments but it's alright because as long as you are comfortable and it doesn't cause back problems you'll be great!


ummm i have a thing for chubby older men (late 20's-30) with the facial hair.... Ummm is that weird?
i think some of them are soooo hot :-) lol
Is it weird?

im 19 (link)
Actually it all really matters on what your tastes are in the men department. I mean for me, I like chubby guys alot because they just don't fit that mold of 'cute.' I mean, some girls just like guys that are unique and stick out from all the others. So if this makes us crazy, so be it! Besides, they look like bears and are great to cuddle with! :]


ok so theres this asshole that i talked about in one of my previous questions. well after finding out he played me and my friend we both want revenge. we dont want to hurt him physically or anything but he needs to be put in place. anyone have any good ideas? (link)
What you should do that will really get to him, and help you is move on. I know you might be mad right now but by focusing on him once again, it'll make it seem like he's still won and controls your emotions. Don't let him do that to you, just find a new guy and flaunt him around if you want. Just realize that you don't deserve it, and you can find someone much better. Maybe he'll even get jealous about it! Ignoring a guy is what drives them crazy, trust me.


can i be with someone thats under age (link)
Well it depends on what you mean about 'being' with them. If you mean sexually, law can take affect. Basically in many states if the person is still a minor it is illegal to have sex with them. That can be undermined if the parents are aware and consent with it. If they have a problem with it then they can press charges on the matter. But in some cases the actual state may press charges by themselves. It pretty much just changes by what type of laws different areas have. And if you meant being with them in the sense of just an emotional relationship then that is alright.


ok..i have 2 best friends and a boyfriend. me and my boyfriend never have time to hang out. so tomorow i happen to be free and like this would be the foirst time in 2 weeks that i would see him again. crazy right? well one of my best friedns told me to go to the movies with her tmorow also another best friends told me to go toa sweet 16 with her. where do i go? i heard youre never supposed 2 leave youre friends for a boyfriend but i have seened him in so long. what do i do? and no we cant all hang out becase my two best friends dont even know eachother and it would be awkward my 2 best friends and my boyfriend please help! (link)
hey

first off, i wouldn't go to the movies. i mean like you can go to the movies tomorrow, or saturday. but also - a sweet 16 is pretty important, i mean seriously. you dont go to a sweet 16 everyday. if you hang out with your boyfriend, & people find out you didn't go to this girl's sweet 16, rumors might start.

DEPENDING on the answer to this question... can you see your boyfriend another time within the next week or two?

if the answer is YES, i'd go to the sweet 16. um tell your other friend that youre busy & can't go to the movies with her. i mean dude, seriously - think about it. just cause she's your best friend doesn't mean you have to do everything she says.

if the answer is NO, i'd hang with my boyfriend. i mean your friend, if she's really your friend, will understand that he's your boyfriend & that you haven't seen him in a long time & respect your decision. however she might be mad at you if she finds out you hung with your bf instead of going to the sweet 16.

- just letting you know, i understand that the other girl invited you to go to the sweet 16 with her. & i'm treating it like it's the actual girl's sweet 16. well do you KNOW the girl that's having the sweet 16? are you guys really tight? < if the answer is no, i'd go with the boyfriend.

look im really sorry this is confusing. want me to recap?

- go to the movies - just dont go. seriously.
- go to the sweet 16 - if you are friends with the girl who is THROWING the sweet 16 & you guys are really tight.
- hang out with your boyfriend - if the girl who is THROWING the sweet 16 & you aren't very close & lots of people are going to be there anyway.

look dont tell everyone [ if you decide that youre hanging with your boyfriend ] that youre hanging with your boyfriend. people talk shit & you wouldn't want mean things to be said about you. my point is if youre not going to the other people's, dont tell them WHERE you are going. they might be upset, you know?


when u shave..down there...do most people shave the lips of their vagina or what..and if so..how? i've always been afraid i'd cut myself rly bad (link)
hey

if there is hair on the lips of your vagina, shave it.

if youre scared youre going to cut yourself, start out going in the direction of hair growth. if you feel more comfortable, do it to the side.

most people prefer shaving to the side because... a. it doesnt hurt b. you get a semi-close shave.

you might even try going in the direction opposite of hairgrowth, like me. you get the closest shave, and if you do it carefully, you'll never get any cuts.

on the top of your vagina [ not in the lips, not even on the lips ] you CAN put a little shaving cream. but just be really careful not to insert your fingers into your vajayjay while it's washing off. it could go up there.

i hope i helped ♥


beauty tips porfavor =]
on anything.
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hey

moisturize before you apply make-up.
wash your make-up off at night before you go to sleep.
dont put more than 1 or 2 hair products in your hair.
manis & pedis should be not every week.
buy make-up that doesnt clog your pores.
moisturize your body after you shower even if it doesn't look dry.
once a week, put vaseline on an old toothbrush & "brush" your lips. really helps chapped lips.

and yes, the following IS a beauty tip: drink lots of water. it helps prevent breakouts, & it clears out your body of unwanted extraneous.. stuff. :]




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