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where do i go?
ok..i have 2 best friends and a boyfriend. me and my boyfriend never have time to hang out. so tomorow i happen to be free and like this would be the foirst time in 2 weeks that i would see him again. crazy right? well one of my best friedns told me to go to the movies with her tmorow also another best friends told me to go toa sweet 16 with her. where do i go? i heard youre never supposed 2 leave youre friends for a boyfriend but i have seened him in so long. what do i do? and no we cant all hang out becase my two best friends dont even know eachother and it would be awkward my 2 best friends and my boyfriend please help!
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first off, i wouldn't go to the movies. i mean like you can go to the movies tomorrow, or saturday. but also - a sweet 16 is pretty important, i mean seriously. you dont go to a sweet 16 everyday. if you hang out with your boyfriend, & people find out you didn't go to this girl's sweet 16, rumors might start.
DEPENDING on the answer to this question... can you see your boyfriend another time within the next week or two?
if the answer is YES, i'd go to the sweet 16. um tell your other friend that youre busy & can't go to the movies with her. i mean dude, seriously - think about it. just cause she's your best friend doesn't mean you have to do everything she says.
if the answer is NO, i'd hang with my boyfriend. i mean your friend, if she's really your friend, will understand that he's your boyfriend & that you haven't seen him in a long time & respect your decision. however she might be mad at you if she finds out you hung with your bf instead of going to the sweet 16.
- just letting you know, i understand that the other girl invited you to go to the sweet 16 with her. & i'm treating it like it's the actual girl's sweet 16. well do you KNOW the girl that's having the sweet 16? are you guys really tight? < if the answer is no, i'd go with the boyfriend.
look im really sorry this is confusing. want me to recap?
- go to the movies - just dont go. seriously.
- go to the sweet 16 - if you are friends with the girl who is THROWING the sweet 16 & you guys are really tight.
- hang out with your boyfriend - if the girl who is THROWING the sweet 16 & you aren't very close & lots of people are going to be there anyway.
look dont tell everyone [ if you decide that youre hanging with your boyfriend ] that youre hanging with your boyfriend. people talk shit & you wouldn't want mean things to be said about you. my point is if youre not going to the other people's, dont tell them WHERE you are going. they might be upset, you know?
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If you have accepted an invitation to go out with any of them, you need to go with that person.
If you didn't tell either of your friends that you will hang out with them, then go with your boyfriend. You don't get to spend much time with him, so it is important that you do when you can.
You aren't leaving your friends for a guy unless you choose him over them all of the time. You can make plans with them when he isn't free to go out with you.
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When is your spring break? Try & hang out with him then. And then do the movies & sweet 16 with your friends tomorrow. Or if you free on the weekend, hang out with them then.
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