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Needing some tips
K. I want ask if anyone give me tips on how to advoid all the drama and getting ride thoughs about friends that are not my true friends. tips on just to stay away and what happend there contact. I not try to be mean but friends I have are the one not let me be who I am and don't get me and I don't want try hard be there freinds the way they treat me..
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hey
well this is how i dealt with it:
- i pretty much stopped going on aim. like i go on once in a while for something that i really need but overall, i just dont go on aim.
- i keep my space. like the more you talk to people, the more you tell them & the more you have to update them. if you keep your space & dont tell them a lot you realize you run out of things to talk to.
- i email the people i DO like. to keep my real friends, i email them to get an update & we email IM instead of regular IMing. cause i know youre thinking why dont you just block them but people find out, etc etc & it's so complicated.
- i am still nice. i still say hi to them in the hallway and make eye contact & smile, but i dont go out of my way for them.
thats the key - dont go out of your way to talk to / hang out with people you dont like. if they want to hang out, YOU have to think about the pros & cons. will i accidentally slip some stuff? will i regret it later? etc. etc.
try to hang out with cool people who love you for who you are.. i started talkng to new people but then i realized that only some people are worth my time.
i hope i helped & good luck babe ♥
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