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Can you tell if someones in to you? (link)
hey

how to tell if a guy digs you:
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_do_you_tell_if_a_guy_likes_you

how to tell if a girl digs you:
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_do_you_find_out_if_a_girl_really_likes_you

but the SURE way to find out is to just ask them.


of so i have a problem... prom is coming up in 23 days and i don't know who o ask... theres one girl who invited me to a baseball game on friday and we really get along good, but then there's another who i just cant stop thinking about and i've already tried to make a list of pros and cons and it ends up being the same for both...plz help (link)
hey

look if you've already tried doing that, spend some more time with each of them & see who you like better. which girl seems happier around you? which one would you rather spend time with? which girl seems to really like you & your interests?

use your gut. it works, believe me.



How long do you usually masterbate for? How do you know when to stop? (link)
hey

well as long as it takes to get aroused is how long. & you stop when you think you've had enough or you feel tipsy - hahaa. like, less than 10 - 15 minutes you should climax.


Ok well i want get a haircute maybe layers or so,mthing nice i havea picture of meme go to thiis site im the brunette 1 http://coookiieloove.piczo.com/
can use please show me pictures or any advice on what hairstyles wiuld look good
Thx much =D (link)
hey

omg youre so pretty! :] & LOVE the background

well my advice is - you should definitely get your side bangs (if that's what they were) cut again so you have side bangs. & just grow out the rest of your hair. layers would DEFINITELY look good! like if you blow-dried them & they had a lot of volume omg that would look kso cute. anything would look good, but dont get it cut any shorter is my advice.

you should ask your hairdresser what would look good on you as well. & just tell her you dont want it any shorter. like shoulder length would be perfect for you.


what sites can i go to, to make clothes, design clothes, dressup people, or runway clothes games.
any links will help, plz give me as much as possible! (link)
i play that lifetime game that tinkerbell sent you everydayy. its soo fun!

i-dressup.com
dressupgames.com* (so many!)
skybreezegames.com




ok how come degrassi the next generation isn't coming on the N tonite? i thought there was a
new episode every night. (link)
thre isnt a new episode on every night, but normally theres a repeat every night.

but this week the N is doing a promotion called "stay up and pay up". where there are 6 hour marathons of shows and if you stay up till the last one you get a code word. You can enter that code word on line or a chance at money. I guess tonight wasnt the degrassi marathon night.


hope it helped!
&Hearts; erin


I keep looking at the clock when its 9:11! its so weird. like AM or PM, like.. i dont usually look for the time that often but like its been a pattern for a lot of years.. even before like the 9/11 twin towers thing happened, and i was little. (13/f) well when i was old enough to tell time ofcourse. why do you suppose this happens? or is it just a freaky coincidence? (link)
it happens to meee all the time. im sure it has nothing to do with 9/11, just a coincdence. I always look at the clock at 8:42!

good luck :]


I'm going shopping with some of my peps and I want to know some good stores thanks

(link)
abercrombie
bloomingdales
nordstroms
nemain marcus
hollister
victorias secret
saks 5 ave
forever 21
delias
lulus -(depending on the mall)


have fun :]


ok, theres this girl im pretty good frineds with in my health class, i like her and im crazy about her. well we talk all the time on aim nd lately i hadnt been myself and i told her about wut was goin on and she told me i jsut neeed faith in god and cuz of her ive been gettign alot better. then she invited me to see her play at her church and told me to find her afterwards so we could talk, bt i coudnt find her till rite before my dad pulled up. shes apparently looking for a b/f that willb e a best friend for her and stuff nd ive always jsut been a rele good frineds with most the girls i know. does it soudn liek she likes me? any other advice please? thanx (link)
yes, if she wanted you to go to her church, then it sounds like she likes you! you should ask her out.


I keep looking at the clock when its 9:11! its so weird. like AM or PM, like.. i dont usually look for the time that often but like its been a pattern for a lot of years.. even before like the 9/11 twin towers thing happened, and i was little. (13/f) well when i was old enough to tell time ofcourse. why do you suppose this happens? or is it just a freaky coincidence? (link)
OMG, same thing happens to me at 11:11, almost every week night, I would be on the computer at 9-12, and I would always just-so-happen to turn around and glance at my clock at 11:11


I keep looking at the clock when its 9:11! its so weird. like AM or PM, like.. i dont usually look for the time that often but like its been a pattern for a lot of years.. even before like the 9/11 twin towers thing happened, and i was little. (13/f) well when i was old enough to tell time ofcourse. why do you suppose this happens? or is it just a freaky coincidence? (link)
im sure its just a coincidence. that used to happen to me, but it was 11:11.


i am in love with it
i have it on repeat on my ipod as i type
but like what does it mean?

does it mean this guys like this girl
who likes this girl
who is 2 timing him?
as he watches her play him?



i want to know
just wondering (link)
if you go on songmeanings.net you can find the songs, and people write what they think the song means. and you can feedback on it also.


N0 H0W T0 d0WNLA0d MUCiS

LiKE A THiNG LiKE liMEWARE 0R BEAR SHARE.
ARE THERE ANY 0THER'S?

THNX (link)
morpheus is a good program, that gives better results than limewire, because iot filters the ones with viruses out. i-mesh cimbines limewire, morpheus etc and finds the best results, even thought its kind of crap anyways.


hii :] well i noticed you live in england & well i need some advice... my aunt & cousin live in england & i'm gonna be visiting them this summer. i know youre a guy, but you see girls everyday, so what are some "in" things right now, clothes hair make-up wise? what do you see a lot of girls wearing? i sound so stupid whenever i go to england cause everytime i talk everyone knows i'm an american and it's soo embarassing! is there a way to not sound SOOOO american, too? thanks! (link)
well, if you want to sound british, then you have to use british slang. now i dont know where abouts in england you're going, but if its the eastmidlands, near leicester, then you'll have to much slang too learn, simply because whenever someone from leicester speaks, you know that they're from leiecster. speak fast, and when you finish a sentence, say it like a question. dont do it really really strongly, but just the right amount. um what to wear, well skinny jeans, flat shoes, and long tops, the ones that look like short dresses. When you come over here, you dont want to look like a chav, because you just dont. that means no caps, no trainers, no gold jewelery, no burberry etc. ok accessories include beads, and big rings. headbands are cool. obviousely dont where the long top thing everyday. the clothes wont be much different from the states. by the way, i know all this junk bout womens clothes because my mums a designer, and my sister works in a really expansive store. basicly, dont over do the clothing, and dont underdress either. If you have a strong accent, then try and make it more neutral.so imagine it going in a straight line, not bending etc.

hope i helped :):)


i love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me were doing really good. but i can tell my bf wants more he wants sex he has never forced me or anything. but he gets horny I can tell. I kinda want to do it too. But this would be my first time. Im just scarde because i think about the concequences. Like a baby.We always start kissing and when i know its too much i tell him to stop he doesnt get mad or anything he tells me he will wait until am ready.Im really happy he respects me. I love him and i want to make him happy what should i do. (link)
hey

well he sounds like a really good boyfriend for respecting your decision & not pushing you into something you dont want to do.

if you really want it, and are willing to take the consequences [ aka getting pregnant, STDs, etc. ] then why not?

dont be pressured though. & it's a good thing to tell him when to stop. he will be there for you.

if youre careful, nothing will happen. but pregnancies cannot be avoided unless practiced with abstinance. but who does that anyway? haha

before you do it, just tell him how you feel & he will understand if you stop mid-way or something.

just dont be pressured if he forces it upon you. he might get really turned on & just want you to do it so he can derive pleasure from it.


Is it still weird that I play with Barbies? I'm 16 years old. But I just like to dress them and stuff...does any other girls my age still play with Barbies???? HELP!! (link)
hey

just chill. well, not every 16-year-old you meet plays with barbies. it's okay that you like to dress them up & stuff, but there are websites that have dress - up, make over games.

this family friend i used to have played with dolls till she was 16... nothing was wrong with her though. she just never knew that you weren't supposed to not play with barbies that long.

nothing's wrong with you... unless you are obsessed with them. & ask your friends to play with them with you. then you might need some help. but yeah i dont really think that's the case.


ok bottom line..
im hanging out with 2 guys that like me. i dont like one more than the other so i dont know which one to hook up with. and the other problem is that those guys are good friends, so i don't want to break their relationship.
help is appreciated!! (link)
hey

well, which one do you like more? with whom are you better friends with? with whom can you see yourself being bf / gf with & being happy? would they go out of their way for you? do you feel a different kind of closeness that you've never had with anyone else?

make a list of pros & cons. what will you gain by going out with each of them? being happy? being sad? more stress?

if you STILL can't figure it out, talk to each of them & ask them a few questions about it. see if you can have a conversation for 30 mins to an hour without anything sexual or even holding hands. just see if you can actually talk to them about anything.


Ok.. So this guy wants me to go to his house after school.. should i go or not! (link)
hey

that was a little vague. but...

yeah if you're friends with him / like him & want to get to know him better. if you think he's hot... anything else.

no if he's kinda weird / you dont really know him that well.

is anyone else gonna be there? if so, then yeah go. if not, just bring your cell & im sure nothing is gonna happen.

have a good time if you choose to go! i hope i helped :]


i play alot of sports too and which tampons work better for that? i mean which ones feel the best? would playtex sport or gentle glide? whats the difference? (link)
hey

playtex sport, for sure. it has way better coverage. the difference is that gentle glide goes in smoothly but you have to change it pretty often because if you don't it leaks- super annoying. the sports kind have like 360 degrees of coverage (if you've ever seen the commerical on TV).

you can't feel tampons anyway. & if you can, you aren't putting it in deep enough :]

i hope i helped & answered your question completely


I accidently whacked my friend in the head with my badminton racket! There's like a redish spot-like bump on her forehead, kinda looks like blood is trying to explode out of her skin! Is it serious? Is it just a bruise? Will she be ok? (link)
hey

1.) put some ice on it. this will subside the pain.
2.) it's probably just a bruise
3.) yeah she will probably just experience a really bad headache of some sort- advil will help the headache.

in the worst case, if it doesn't heal within 24-48 hours, i'd check out a doctor :] but just keep the ice there

i hope i helped & tell your friend not to worry




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